{"id":1087,"date":"2012-11-26T01:54:41","date_gmt":"2012-11-26T05:54:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.wordpress.com\/?p=1087"},"modified":"2012-11-26T01:54:41","modified_gmt":"2012-11-26T05:54:41","slug":"put-you-at-the-top-of-your-wish-list","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/put-you-at-the-top-of-your-wish-list\/","title":{"rendered":"Put YOU at the Top of Your Wish List"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #cc99ff;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/put-you-at-the-top-of-your-wish-list\/present_gift\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1515\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1515\" alt=\"Present_Gift\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/Present_Gift.png\" width=\"237\" height=\"262\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>One of the hidden fears stopping women &#8211; particularly successful women &#8211; from having the love we want in our lives is thinking we live in an \u201ceither-or world.\u201d Without even being aware of it, some of us fear that we can either have a fulfilling professional life or a fulfilling relationship &#8211; <i>but not both<\/i>. We hold the belief that one of these areas needs to be \u201csacrificed\u201d in order to experience joy and fulfillment in the other. And this fear goes with us on dates, in our relationships, and even in our marriages <i>without us even knowing it.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s this limiting belief &#8211; this \u201ceither-or mentality\u201d- that has many of us declare that we \u201cdon\u2019t need to be in a relationship to be happy,\u201d and throw ourselves into succeeding in our careers, instead, since <i>that&#8217;s <\/i>something we can control. We experience achievement and satisfaction in the workplace, and use that to substitute or replace the desire to be in a fulfilling intimate relationship. Whether we are single, dating or married, we begin to rely on the skills that have helped us rise in our professions and try to bring them into our relationships.<\/p>\n<p>The problem is that the skills that <i>propel<\/i> us in business can actually <i>repel<\/i> intimacy. And, the more we rely on the skills that help us meet the bottom line, get others to do what we expect them to do, and rise to higher levels when we\u2019re in our relationships, becoming seemingly \u201cinvincible\u201d in the workplace, the less vulnerable we are willing to be, the more distance we create between ourselves and the men we are with, and more confused we feel when we ask ourselves,<i> \u201cWhy am I able to succeed in every area of my life, <b>except<\/b> this one?\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>While it&#8217;s true that we don\u2019t need to be in a relationship to be happy &#8211; because happiness is something that can only come from within ourselves &#8211; the fact of the matter is that if being in a loving relationship is something that we <b><i>want<\/i><\/b>, then denying this desire will practically guarantee that we won\u2019t ever have it.<\/p>\n<p>So, if these fears and beliefs are something we\u2019re unaware of, what can we do to turn it around and have the love we deserve and desire? How can we begin to create new skills and ways of being in our relationship that actually have us <i>attract<\/i> the love that we want?<\/p>\n<p>The first step is to uncover the hidden fears and limiting beliefs that are in our way. Once these hidden barriers are revealed, they can be dealt with, and they no longer have the power to stop us from attracting what we want.<\/p>\n<p>The next step is to identify the skills and habits that make us \u201cinvincible\u201d in the workplace, but stop us from having an intimate, passionate love life and <i>remove them<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>Once we\u2019ve moved these barriers out of the way, we create the space to <i>discover<\/i> the skills, habits and <i>ways of being<\/i> that actually have us <i>attract<\/i> the love we want by allowing us become enticing, alluring, and completely <b><i>irresistible<\/i><\/b>!<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re tired of living in the falsehood of an either-or reality&#8230; Of feeling like you have to sacrifice happiness in one area of your life in order to experience it in another&#8230; If you\u2019re ready to begin attracting and experiencing the love, intimacy, and happiness your heart desires, then register now for our course \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.wordpress.com\/events-workshops\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Being \u2018The Invincible Woman\u2019 in the Workplace and \u2018The Irresistible Woman&#8217; in Your Love Life<\/a>!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In this 4-part seminar, you will learn the skills and habits that will empower you to experience fulfillment and satisfaction in both your professional and love life! See,<i> there is no \u201ceither-or.\u201d<\/i> You were created to experience love, happiness, and success in <i>every<\/i> area of your life. You were created to<i> have it <b>ALL<\/b><\/i>!<\/p>\n<p>If you register now and take advantage of our Cyber Monday Special, you&#8217;ll save $50 off the price of the course!<\/p>\n<p>What are you waiting for? Why put off your happiness for even one more minute?<\/p>\n<p>Put <em><strong>yourself<\/strong> <\/em>and <em><strong>your happiness<\/strong><\/em> at the top of your holiday wish list and <a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.wordpress.com\/events-workshops\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">register <\/a>now!<\/p>\n<p>and your happiness at the top of your holiday wish list and register <a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.wordpress.com\/events-workshops\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">now<\/a>!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz One of the hidden fears stopping women &#8211; particularly successful women &#8211; from having the love we want in our lives is thinking we live in an \u201ceither-or world.\u201d Without even being aware of it, some of us fear that we can either have a fulfilling professional life or a fulfilling relationship [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,9,13,16,17,21,22,23],"tags":[31,47,50,56,63,68,70,88,90,105],"class_list":["post-1087","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating-2","category-hdi-blog","category-intimacy-2","category-love-2","category-marriage","category-relationship","category-relationship-advice","category-romance","tag-advice","tag-dating","tag-empowerment","tag-happiness","tag-intimacy","tag-love","tag-marriage-2","tag-relationships","tag-romance-2","tag-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1087","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1087"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1087\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1087"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1087"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1087"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}