{"id":11816,"date":"2021-02-01T16:10:47","date_gmt":"2021-02-01T21:10:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=11816"},"modified":"2021-02-22T19:13:41","modified_gmt":"2021-02-23T00:13:41","slug":"how-to-attract-the-man-youre-looking-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/how-to-attract-the-man-youre-looking-for\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Attract the Man You\u2019re Looking For"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you attracting the type of men you\u2019re looking for?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you find yourself saying \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I want a man who has this and who has that,<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d like you\u2019ve got some type of quality assurance checklist?\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you feel excited and hopeful after the majority of your dates, or do you feel disappointed most of the time?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>If you\u2019re not attracting the kind of men you want and the quality of your dates aren\u2019t meeting your expectations, you\u2019ll eventually feel disappointed, discouraged and no longer excited about dating.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may wonder what\u2019s wrong with you and why it\u2019s not working.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">are<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> going on lots of dates, if the type of men you\u2019re looking for aren\u2019t the ones showing up, it\u2019s frustrating.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sound familiar?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>If your answer is yes, do you know why you\u2019re not attracting the type of men you want?\u00a0\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you want to know how?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Be willing to acknowledge and admit that you don\u2019t have all the answers<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. If you\u2019re stuck in the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI already know that\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI already did that work,\u201d <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">then you\u2019re never going to get anywhere. Open up to the possibility that there\u2019s something you don\u2019t know yet and that there\u2019s something that\u2019s stopping you. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember too, there are often many layers when it comes to beliefs and fears. Just because you\u2019ve done some personal development work, doesn\u2019t mean there\u2019s not something else there.\u00a0 Be willing and courageous enough to get your blocks out of the way so you can have the kind of love you want.<\/span>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Gain awareness about what\u2019s stopping you.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Even if you have all the dating skills and are attracting the right men, if you don\u2019t have awareness about your own blind spots, dating leaves you feeling empty and like nothing\u00a0 works. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you feel like you keep attracting the same type of man &#8211; and he\u2019s not what you\u2019re looking for &#8211; get curious about <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">why<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Look into your personal beliefs, patterns and fears, and see what\u2019s connected. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When I was frustrated because I kept attracting the same type of men with all the same issues I didn\u2019t want, I got curious. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Through my <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Heartwork,<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> I realized that the issues the men were presenting were directly related to beliefs I had about myself that I\u2019d formed as a child and throughout my life. When I did the work to shift those beliefs, the men I started attracting and the relationships I began creating changed.<\/span>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Commit to doing whatever you need to do to have a breakthrough.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Let go of hoping, wishing and waiting for things to change and for him to magically appear. We have worked with women that have been alone and waiting for 15, 20, even 35 years before they\u2019ve committed to doing whatever it takes to create a shift.\u00a0 You don\u2019t have to wait that long.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, we believe in having faith. And you must have <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">faith coupled with action<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Move forward with committed action!<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Clarify your online profile. Say yes to lots of dates! Be okay with things looking and feeling differently than you\u2019re used to. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your gut responds to your comfort zone, so it\u2019s natural to feel a bit of fear when things start working differently than the patterns you\u2019ve always had. Allow your brain time to reorient and keep moving forward, even if it feels kind of strange. <\/span>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Allow yourself time to get to know men and see them through the lens of the relationship of your dreams.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> If you say you want a relationship with a kind, loving, passionate man who <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">doesn\u2019t<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> have kids, and then you meet a man that is kind, loving and passionate who <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">does<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> have kids, that doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re not attracting the right type of men! It simply means you prefer to date a man who doesn\u2019t have children.Be open to the idea that you may find something great in someone who\u2019s circumstances aren\u2019t exactly what you thought you\u2019d prefer. And if you are clear that it\u2019s not what you want, choose to let it go and know that the right men are out there and the next one is coming.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here\u2019s the thing, so much is possible when you open yourself up and do the inner work to discover <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">why<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you\u2019re not attracting the men you want.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is why we do the work we do. We help women to see their blind spots and breakthrough them so they can create the relationship of their dreams.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>We know that all the dating skills, tricks, and how-to\u2019s don\u2019t mean anything unless there is clarity on the inside.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019d like someone who knows how to ask the right questions and can help you recognize your personal blind spots so you can start attracting the type of men you want, then we are the coaches for you!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/live.vcita.com\/site\/heartsdesireinternational\/online-scheduling?service=1c4bd3fa\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>Book a Love Breakthrough Session Now<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Helping women to see the thing that holds the key to their freedom is why we do what we do, because when you see it, then you can do something about it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let us support you in connecting the dots so that you can create the relationship of your dreams <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">now<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\"><span class=\"s1\"><i><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s1\"><i><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz\u00a0 Are you attracting the type of men you\u2019re looking for? 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