{"id":1191,"date":"2012-11-09T14:04:37","date_gmt":"2012-11-09T18:04:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.wordpress.com\/2012\/11\/09\/find-love-in-a-hopeless-place\/"},"modified":"2012-11-09T14:04:37","modified_gmt":"2012-11-09T18:04:37","slug":"find-love-in-a-hopeless-place","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/find-love-in-a-hopeless-place\/","title":{"rendered":"Find Love in a &#8220;Hopeless Place&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #cc99ff;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/find-love-in-a-hopeless-place\/heart_hope_medium_4266283238\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1596\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1596\" alt=\"heart_hope_medium_4266283238\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/heart_hope_medium_4266283238.jpg\" width=\"335\" height=\"225\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If someone was to ask me what I feel the saddest thing in the world is, my immediate answer would be: Hopelessness.\u00a0 To me, living a life without hope, a life where you\u2019ve resigned yourself to living in unhappiness, a lack of fulfillment, and cynicism is one of the saddest states in which to exist.\u00a0 Even in our darkest moments, when things <i>seem <\/i>like there is no immediate solution, and where we are left wondering whether we will ever see the proverbial light at the end of the tunnel, there is always hope.<\/p>\n<p>I often work with women who feel like their relationships or marriages are over.\u00a0 The love, the excitement, and the passion that was once present in their relationships is gone, the arguments are constant, or, even worse, there is that uncomfortable deafening silence that fills their home.\u00a0 It\u2019s heartbreaking to hear someone share how she really thought \u201cthis was it\u201d \u2013 she had found \u201cthe one\u201d \u2013 and, now, all she can see is bitterness, indifference, and heartache.\u00a0 And they believe that there are only two options:<\/p>\n<p>(1)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Stay in a lifeless, loveless relationship.<\/p>\n<p>(2)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Get a divorce or break up.<\/p>\n<p>As a relationship coach, it\u2019s not always easy to sit and listen to the woman without my heart breaking a little bit.\u00a0 But what I <em>love<\/em> about what I do is giving women a third, more empowering and transformational option!\u00a0 I love working with a woman, helping her to see the role she\u2019s played in things getting to where the relationship is, and what she can begin doing <i>immediately<\/i> to begin to turn things around. And, as she begins putting the skills into practice, and she begins to see how the changes she is making in <i>herself<\/i> are making a huge difference in her relationship and the rest of her life, I get to witness how that overwhelming sadness and hopelessness is replaced by a spark of hope!\u00a0 And as we continue working together, that spark gets stronger, the relationship begins to transform, and that hope turns into faith that things <i>can<\/i> and <i>will<\/i> get better \u2013 that, in fact, they <i>already<\/i> <em>are<\/em> better!<\/p>\n<p>Great relationships don\u2019t ever \u201cjust happen.\u201d The same holds true for relationships in crisis.\u00a0 Rarely do things suddenly \u201cjust fall apart.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><i>Wherever<\/i> you are in your relationship \u2013 whether you\u2019re in the place where you\u2019re beginning to lose hope, or, maybe you are pretty happy in your relationship, but you want to learn the skills and habits that will help you not only \u201cmaintain,\u201d but really elevate the level of intimacy, passion, and romance in your relationship, there is always some work to do.\u00a0 And the work begins <em>with and within<\/em> <b><i>you<\/i><\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>This is why I want to invite you to join me on a very special <a href=\"http:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/intimacy-training-call-girlfriends-wives\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">call <\/a>this coming Monday, November 12, at 9:00 p.m. Eastern.\u00a0 On this call, I\u2019ll be partnering with <i>NY Times <\/i>best-selling author and relationship expert, Laura Doyle, to teach you some real-life, practical, and <i>mind-blowing <\/i>relationship skills that you can begin using <i>immediately<\/i> to take your relationship to a completely new level!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/intimacy-training-call-girlfriends-wives\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mind-blowing Relationship Tools that Work Immediately!<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll learn:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The indispensable <i>first step<\/i> to achieving a passionate relationship.<\/li>\n<li>What makes you totally <i>irresistible<\/i> to your man (and it\u2019s not about the way you look!).<\/li>\n<li>3 phrases that <i>guarantee<\/i> intimacy to get the connection you crave.<\/li>\n<li>Why he\u2019ll want to do <i>more<\/i> for you when you start doing less for him.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The call is open to all women, whether you are single, dating, or married, but there is a limited number of spots, so I encourage you to <a href=\"http:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/intimacy-training-call-girlfriends-wives\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">register <\/a>now.\u00a0 Just click on the link below and register to hold your spot!\u00a0 Over 200 women have registered so far, so don\u2019t wait!\u00a0 Oh! And feel free to share the information with the women in your life who want to inject some love, life, and passion into their relationships and their lives!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/lauradoyle.org\/intimacy-training-call-girlfriends-wives\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mind-blowing Relationship Tools that Work Immediately!<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Listen, you <b><i>can <\/i><\/b>have the relationship you dream of.\u00a0 It\u2019s your <i>birthright<\/i> to be happy and experience the joy of loving and being loved!\u00a0 And, besides all of that, I\u2019d love to connect with you! Go ahead, click and register NOW!<\/p>\n<p>Have any questions or comments about the call or your relationship in general, go ahead and leave them below!\u00a0 We love hearing from you!<\/p>\n<p>Photo credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/seyyed_mostafa_zamani\/4266283238\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">seyed mostafa zamani<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/www.photopin.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">photopin.com<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by\/2.0\/deed.en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">cc<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz If someone was to ask me what I feel the saddest thing in the world is, my immediate answer would be: Hopelessness.\u00a0 To me, living a life without hope, a life where you\u2019ve resigned yourself to living in unhappiness, a lack of fulfillment, and cynicism is one of the saddest states in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,9,13,16,17,21,22,23],"tags":[47,57,59,63,68,70,87,90],"class_list":["post-1191","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating-2","category-hdi-blog","category-intimacy-2","category-love-2","category-marriage","category-relationship","category-relationship-advice","category-romance","tag-dating","tag-hearts-desire-international","tag-hope","tag-intimacy","tag-love","tag-marriage-2","tag-relationship-advice-2","tag-romance-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1191","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1191"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1191\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1191"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1191"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1191"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}