{"id":12155,"date":"2021-02-22T17:48:34","date_gmt":"2021-02-22T22:48:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=12155"},"modified":"2021-02-22T17:51:38","modified_gmt":"2021-02-22T22:51:38","slug":"vulnerability-is-the-key-to-connection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/vulnerability-is-the-key-to-connection\/","title":{"rendered":"Vulnerability is the KEY to Connection!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243;]<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Did you know that vulnerability is your <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">superpower<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Because vulnerability is the key to creating the loving, passionate, connected relationship you want.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So what does vulnerability look like?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vulnerability is\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trusting yourself to know who to trust<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sharing authentically and honestly, yet appropriately<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being vulnerable and honest with yourself<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having clarity with yourself and living in an alignment with your values and who you really are.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The ability to be yourself without beating yourself up.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So what stops you from being vulnerable?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>If you aren\u2019t being 100% vulnerable with others then there is a fear at play behind the scenes.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear of disappointment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear of what others might think.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear that if you do _____ then ______ will (or wont\u2019) happen.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear that if you say ________ then they will think _______.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear that if you show up as yourself, people won\u2019t like or approve.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do any of these fears show up for you?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re afraid of being vulnerable, there is some pain you\u2019re trying to avoid or something you\u2019re trying to force\/make happen.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These fears lead us to either pretend, hide, or resist.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They lead us to try to control how everyone around us thinks and feels.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They lead us to think that we must show up one way in order to get a certain reaction from people.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>How exhausting!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What\u2019s worse is that people can usually pick up on the inauthenticity.Most people are be able to feel the insecurity behind everything you\u2019re trying to cover up, and, eventually, it will all come out.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Imagine going on a date with you and all of the things you\u2019re trying to control&#8230; <\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b>It\u2019s you, him, and a pile of fears, doubts, and limiting beliefs sitting across from each other.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Doesn&#8217;t sound very fun, right? Or very <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">real<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>So how do you overcome these fears and show up with vulnerability in order to create genuine connection?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You do the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Heartwork<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to uncover and heal those fears.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You learn how to express yourself with intention so that your authentic and honest shares come out in a way where they can be received and respected.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You practice. The more you practice vulnerability, the more confident\u00a0 you will feel in simply being yourself. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, we know that it\u2019s usually easier said than done.\u00a0 (If you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">knew <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how to do all of this, you\u2019d probably already be doing it, right?)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Doing the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">HeartWork <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to tear down the walls of pretense and stepping into your authentic and Irresistible Essence takes knowing what to do, what not to do, and what to do differently.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s where we come in, and that\u2019s why we\u2019re inviting you to join <\/span><b>\u00a0us at the Extraordinary Love Intensive on March 12-14th! <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This 3-day event intensive is designed to have you break through your Love Barriers, transform your love life, and attract and create the extraordinary, loving relationship of your dreams!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You will come out of this incredible weekend having more clarity about who you are and the patterns that are holding you back.\u00a0 You\u2019ll do some of the deep and transformational <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Heartwork <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that\u2019s necessary to break these patterns and you\u2019ll be so much closer to creating the relationship of your dreams.\u00a0 This is the work we usually only do with our clients, but we want to share it with YOU so that you can stop pretending and start BEing the authentic, vulnerable irresistible version of yourself that is going to have you attract an amazing man with whom you get to create Extraordinary Love!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life doesn\u2019t stop. Time is going to keep going by, no matter what choices you make. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why not make a choice that\u2019s going to lead to more joy, love, happiness and freedom in your life&#8230;And the kind of love you\u2019ve always wanted?!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/extraordinaryloveintensive\/?fbclid=IwAR2McyxYXIcgd-XtU2f_dJI_AUtsJgF5tk-Hauvy0lwaVfHbM6g5ZdpTXL4\"><b>Claim Your Ticket Now!<\/b><b><br \/><\/b><\/a><b>Hurry! Before the 2-pay option goes away!<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vulnerability is the only way to create true love.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let us guide you toward the life and love your heart desires!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s1\"><i><\/i><\/span><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz\u00a0 Did you know that vulnerability is your superpower?\u00a0 Why? Because vulnerability is the key to creating the loving, passionate, connected relationship you want. 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