{"id":12393,"date":"2021-03-02T15:32:54","date_gmt":"2021-03-02T20:32:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=12393"},"modified":"2021-03-02T15:33:21","modified_gmt":"2021-03-02T20:33:21","slug":"how-to-break-through-the-patterns-sabotaging-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/how-to-break-through-the-patterns-sabotaging-you\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Break Through the Patterns Sabotaging You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you feel like you keep experiencing the same disappointing results in your love life?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you feel like you\u2019re trying new things and doing all the :<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">right<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> things,\u201d but the same sabotaging behaviors show up?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does it seem like, no matter what you do, you just keep repeating the patterns and getting the same results?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>First, you\u2019re not alone.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>We all have patterns, or habitual thoughts and behaviors, that hold us back from creating the results we want in our lives. These patterns are subconscious and they stem from fears and limiting beliefs that you don\u2019t even realize are there!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The only way to stop these fears and beliefs from sabotaging your life and happiness is to break through and replace them so that they are no longer running the show.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And here\u2019s\u00a0 what we want you to know: Repeating these patterns is not a reflection of how much you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">want <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to change them or whether you\u2019re able to break through them.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can have all the desire in the world for things to change in your love life, and if you\u2019re not doing the internal <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Heart Work<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to truly through these barriers, nothing will change.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>The hard truth is, if you\u2019re still not experiencing the relationship of your dreams and creating the results you want in your love life, there\u2019s still some <\/b><b><i>Heart Work<\/i><\/b><b> to be done. <\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b>There are still sabotaging thoughts and behaviors to get to the bottom of and break up. There are still wounds that need to be healed.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You get to do the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">full<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Heart Work<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> so that you can create everything you dream of.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if you\u2019re in the place of thinking \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, what about the years of therapy (or courses, workshops and retreats) I\u2019ve already done<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d or \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve already done everything<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2026\u201d if you don\u2019t have the results, there\u2019s still a little work to do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consider that all of the work you\u2019ve done already has led you to this place and moment you\u2019re in right now, and that\u00a0 <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">because of that work<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you\u2019re ready to bust through the final beliefs NOW! <\/span><b>Consider that this is your time for real change.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>The first step in breaking through these sabotaging patterns that are holding you back, is to be willing to look at what\u2019s not working.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask yourself, \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What might be having me do the same thing over and over again?<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then recognize that it\u2019s not anything outside of you! <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I promise you that 99.99999% of the time, it\u2019s not the app, or the man, or your ex, or your past., It\u2019s something internal.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have these thoughts on repeat\u2026 \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can\u2019t trust people<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d or \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everyone lets me down<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d (along with a thousand other possible thoughts!), those are the fears and beliefs that are running the show of your life and stopping you from experiencing the fun, joy, and love you really want.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After years of hearing those thoughts replaying incessantly over and over in your head, you stop realizing that you\u2019re hearing them,\u00a0 and there comes a point where those thoughts become your \u201ctruth.\u201d &#8230;And you relate to them as <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">truth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They become what we call a \u201cLove Barrier\u201d which blocks your ability to give and receive love freely. These Love Barriers are usually blind spots that you can\u2019t see for yourself.But when you receive the guidance and support you need to recognize and break them down, you are able to get past them and create a flow in your love life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once there\u2019s\u00a0 flow, you\u2019re able to CHOOSE who you want to trust, spend time with, and love because the limiting beliefs and sabotaging patterns are no longer listening, speaking, or choosing for you..<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So what about you?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you willing to recognize that what you\u2019ve been doing simply isn\u2019t working to bring you the happiness, love, and relationship you want, and that you could use some support in recognizing what your blind spots that are creating the patterns that are sabotaging your dreams?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We hoped you\u2019d say <\/span><b>Yes!<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d which is why we\u2019re inviting you to join us at the<\/span><b> Extraordinary Love Intensive on March 12-14th!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This 3-day event intensive is designed to have you break through those Love Barriers, transform your love life, and attract and create the extraordinary, loving relationship of your dreams!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You will come out of this immersive weekend experience having more clarity about who you are and the patterns that are holding you back.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ll do some of the deep and transformational <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Heartwork <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that\u2019s necessary to break these patterns, and you\u2019ll be so much closer to creating the relationship of your dreams.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The powerful thing about these events is that when you\u2019re there with us LIVE, you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">remember <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the work that you do. These patterns can be broken up once and for all, because what you\u2019re experiencing it\u00a0 LIVE at the event is <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">powerful.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/extraordinaryloveintensive\/?fbclid=IwAR2McyxYXIcgd-XtU2f_dJI_AUtsJgF5tk-Hauvy0lwaVfHbM6g5ZdpTXL4\"><b>Claim your ticket to the Extraordinary Love Intensive<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t wait. Don\u2019t keep putting your happiness on hold. I probably don\u2019t need to tell you that waiting is another self-sabotaging behavior pattern that you can break free from now!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/extraordinaryloveintensive\/?fbclid=IwAR2McyxYXIcgd-XtU2f_dJI_AUtsJgF5tk-Hauvy0lwaVfHbM6g5ZdpTXL4\"><b>Claim Your Ticket Now!<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\"><span class=\"s3\"><b><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s1\"><i><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz\u00a0 Do you feel like you keep experiencing the same disappointing results in your love life? Do you feel like you\u2019re trying new things and doing all the :right things,\u201d but the same sabotaging behaviors show up? 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