{"id":12866,"date":"2021-04-12T17:49:00","date_gmt":"2021-04-12T21:49:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=12866"},"modified":"2021-04-12T17:49:05","modified_gmt":"2021-04-12T21:49:05","slug":"how-to-be-loved-cherished-and-adored-for-being-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/how-to-be-loved-cherished-and-adored-for-being-you\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Be Loved, Cherished and Adored For Being YOU!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”3.22″ da_is_popup=”off” da_exit_intent=”off” da_has_close=”on” da_alt_close=”off” da_dark_close=”off” da_not_modal=”on” da_is_singular=”off” da_with_loader=”off” da_has_shadow=”on” da_disable_devices=”off|off|off”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.27.4″]

by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Are you showing up authentically in your relationships?<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you ever feel like you\u2019re <\/span>pretending to be something or someone you\u2019re not<\/span>, <\/span>hiding things about yourself<\/span>, <\/span>forcing yourself to act a certain way<\/span>, <\/span>holding back from saying things you\u2019d like to say<\/span>, or <\/span>squashing down feelings<\/span>?<\/span><\/p>\n

These are just a few examples of ways you can be showing up as inauthentic with others in relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n

Something we often hear from women is that they didn\u2019t even realize they were doing these things!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The amazing thing is that once they see it, they\u2019re able to transform it and create something different in dating and relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n

The simple truth is that if you aren\u2019t able to show up as the real authentic you, it\u2019s <\/b>impossible<\/i><\/b> for someone to fall in love with you – because <\/b>you<\/i><\/b> aren\u2019t even really there!<\/b><\/p>\n

There is one thing that is <\/span>always<\/span> underneath the inability to be authentic.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Can you guess it?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If you said FEAR, you were right!<\/span><\/p>\n

Being inauthentic shows up from an underlying fear that if you do or say a certain thing, then something will or won\u2019t happen.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

So you\u2019re always either:<\/span>
<\/span>1) Trying to avoid having something happen, or<\/span><\/p>\n

2) Trying to force or make something happen<\/span><\/p>\n

And THAT\u2019S why dating and relationships feel \u201chard\u201d and \u201cexhausting\u201d!<\/span><\/p>\n

It actually takes much more energy to avoid or force things,\u00a0 hold back, not be authentic, and pretend to be someone you\u2019re not.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

When you\u2019re exhausted from trying to figure out who you need to be, squashing down your feelings and people pleasing, when you\u2019re not doing and saying what comes naturally to you, you simply can\u2019t have fun in relationships either!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Plus, you really can\u2019t keep up with pretending for very long.<\/span><\/p>\n

So- how do you transform these fears that are causing you to be inauthentic?<\/span><\/p>\n

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