{"id":12910,"date":"2021-04-19T14:40:12","date_gmt":"2021-04-19T18:40:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=12910"},"modified":"2021-04-19T14:44:12","modified_gmt":"2021-04-19T18:44:12","slug":"stop-the-dysfunction-and-have-fun-dating-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/stop-the-dysfunction-and-have-fun-dating-today\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop the Dysfunction and Have Fun Dating Today!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243;]<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you feel blocked, stopped, stuck or frustrated about dating?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you feel like you want to meet a wonderful man, but the dating process isn\u2019t worth it?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does it seem like dating just isn\u2019t working for you?<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The thing is, as human beings, we don\u2019t like to play games we\u2019re not winning.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, why would you want to continue to date if you\u2019re not getting the results &#8212; the kind of dates, the amazing relationship, and the experience you\u2019re looking for?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Guess what?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Dating doesn\u2019t have to be so hard.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Dating can be fun, exciting and easy!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re experiencing joy, happiness and excitement, your energy shows it and you attract more of that into your life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The opposite is true when you\u2019re not.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re experiencing frustration, anxiety and disappointment, then your energy shows that, and you\u2019ll attract more frustrating, anxiety-producing and disappointing experiences in dating.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>If your goal is to find the <\/b><b>right <\/b><b>man and create a beautiful, intimate, passionate, honest, supportive relationship, why not <\/b><b><i>enjoy <\/i><\/b><b>the process of getting there?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because, that\u2019s really the only way you\u2019re going to create success, anyway.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, how do you break the dysfunctional dating patterns that are sabotaging your attempts at creating the relationship of your dreams?\u00a0<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Be honest with yourself and get 100% clear on what you want.\u00a0<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you want to create a loving, supportive, honest relationship? Say so.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you want to get married again? Say so.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you simply want to create a long-term relating relationship so you can stop dating? Say so. \ud83d\ude42\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re not being honest about what you really want, you know it. And underneath that knowing is a fear of NOT getting what you want that has you ignore what you\u2019re really feeling. And you\u2019ll\u00a0 hear, see, and interpret <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">everything <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you experience in dating through that fear.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re 100% honest with yourself and get clear on what you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">really<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> want, then, and only then, will you be able to start attracting that into your life.\u00a0<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Trust yourself.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just because you had a bad experience or didn\u2019t listen to your gut in the past, doesn\u2019t mean your intuition is broken.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you don\u2019t trust yourself to do the right thing and make the best decisions, then you\u2019ll look for clarity and validation outside yourself.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That leaves you powerless and simply doesn\u2019t work.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you do the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">HeartWork<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to replace the fears that have you not trust yourself, you take back your power. You\u2019re\u00a0 able to clearly hear and see the bells, signals and red flags and take the steps you need to take so that you\u2019re not wasting your time with the wrong person..\u00a0<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Have faith that what you want can actually happen.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">This isn\u2019t so much about who or what you believe in as much as it is about having faith and hope in a future that contains everything that you want.\u00a0<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The only way to create the relationship of your dreams is to believe &#8212;\u00a0 <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">really believe &#8212; <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0that it can happen and that you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">will<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> be able to create it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re struggling with any of these things, or simply feel like the dating game isn\u2019t bringing you the results that you want, then we have something for you!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(Drumroll\u2026.)<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Join us this week for the Dating Detox 7-Day Challenge, we\u2019re starting on Monday, April 19th!!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During\u00a0 these 7 days we\u2019re going to share with you the most effective, clear and proven steps that we have personally used and have shared with hundreds of women around the world that have allowed them to shift from being single and lonely to being successful in love!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/dating-detox-challenge\/\"><b>Join the Dating Detox Challenge Now!<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Things really <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">can <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">change in 7 days or less!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re feeling blocked, stopped, stuck or frustrated with dating and your love life, then you want to click\u00a0 right now and join us\u00a0 for this detox!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Get clear on what you want, trust yourself, and believe that you can create the relationship of your dreams now.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We\u2019re going to show you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">exactly <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how to do that!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/dating-detox-challenge\/\"><b>Join the Dating Detox Challenge Now!<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\"><span class=\"s3\"><b><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s1\"><i><\/i><\/span><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz\u00a0 Do you feel blocked, stopped, stuck or frustrated about dating?\u00a0 Do you feel like you want to meet a wonderful man, but the dating process isn\u2019t worth it? 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