{"id":13105,"date":"2021-05-04T16:02:08","date_gmt":"2021-05-04T20:02:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=13105"},"modified":"2021-05-04T16:02:08","modified_gmt":"2021-05-04T20:02:08","slug":"stop-dysfunctional-dating-patterns-and-create-the-love-you-want-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/stop-dysfunctional-dating-patterns-and-create-the-love-you-want-now\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop Dysfunctional Dating Patterns and Create the Love You Want Now"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you ready to end your dysfunctional dating patterns?\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know\u2026 those patterns that keep repeating themselves, causing heartache relationship after relationship?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you ready to stop tolerating less than the results you want from the relationships you keep attracting?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you ready to feel free, have fun in dating, and create real love?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you ready to be in a relationship with someone you feel completely connected to and who\u2019s 100% in love and committed to you?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>If you aren\u2019t experiencing the results you want in your dating life, chances are you have some dysfunctional patterns that you NEED to shift before you can create the relationship of your dreams.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not sure if you have a dysfunctional dating pattern?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here\u2019s a hint: If something happens 3 or more times, it\u2019s a pattern!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here\u2019s another hint: Dysfunctional patterns always have a fear and a commitment behind them. They always show up because of a need that\u2019s not being met.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Can you relate to continually attracting\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationships that start strong and then the man ends it for another woman?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">men who aren\u2019t available?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">men who say they\u2019ll do something, then don\u2019t?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">attracting long-distance relationships that don\u2019t go anywhere or end up being scams?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">attracting men who aren\u2019t trustworthy?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These are just a few.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are your patterns?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>So, how do you end the dysfunctional cycle these patterns create?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Identify the fear feeding the pattern.\u00a0<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is the fear that\u2019s beneath your pattern?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What\u2019s the limiting belief underneath the fear?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The fear you have fuels the limiting belief, which then creates the pattern.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The result you get confirms the fear and belief and continues the pattern.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s a <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vicious <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cycle!!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">2. Get to the source of where the fear started for you.<\/b><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What experience or situation\u00a0 first created this experience?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are you getting out of continuing this pattern?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How does it strengthen your fears and limiting beliefs?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you have uncovered the fear and the source of the fear, then you can break through the pattern so that you no longer carry the energy that keeps attracting it to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>When you\u2019ve transformed these fears and limiting beliefs, then you get that you can be 100% in love with YOU, and you come into your irresistible essence!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have a deep feeling of worthiness, you know that you are loveable, you\u2019re alluring, authentic, and so much more!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The fact is, low-quality men will not be attracted to you when you\u2019re in your high-vibe Irresistible Essence.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They simply won\u2019t.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you master the process of healing and disappearing the fears and limiting beliefs you have, then, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and only then<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, can you actually transform your experience and create the results you want.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want to have a massive breakthrough and shift your dating experience FAST then you NEED to join us at the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/unleashretreat2021-orderform\/\"><b>Unleash Your Irresistible Essence Retreat<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>This three-day, immersive experience is designed to create a radical shift in your dating life.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After attending the retreat, you will:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">have the confidence and clarity you need to create the results you desire NOW<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">have dismantled and replaced your dysfunctional patterns<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">have unleashed the power to create the extraordinary love your heart desires\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>We have very few seats left, so don\u2019t think or second-guess yourself out of this incredible opportunity.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Take action now.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/unleashretreat2021-orderform\/\"><b>Claim your spot for the Unleash Your Irresistible Essence Retreat\u00a0<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you break these patterns, you\u2019ll stop attracting the wrong kind of men and have these dysfunctional experiences once and for all.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Imagine how amazing THAT will be!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/unleashretreat2021-orderform\/\"><b>Register to join us now.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\"><span class=\"s3\"><b><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s1\"><i><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz\u00a0 Are you ready to end your dysfunctional dating patterns?\u00a0\u00a0 You know\u2026 those patterns that keep repeating themselves, causing heartache relationship after relationship? 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