{"id":13708,"date":"2021-07-30T16:13:00","date_gmt":"2021-07-30T20:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=13708"},"modified":"2021-08-13T16:14:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-13T20:14:39","slug":"stop-repelling-men-and-receive-extraordinary-love-instead","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/stop-repelling-men-and-receive-extraordinary-love-instead\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop Repelling Men and Receive Extraordinary Love Instead!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”3.22″ global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” global_colors_info=”{}” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.27.4″ global_colors_info=”{}”]

by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you over-give in relationships?<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you have a pattern of cooking dinner for men, offering to pay for things, giving gifts, or constantly planning dates?<\/span><\/p>\n

If you answered yes, do your thoughts sound like these?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cIf I do enough, I\u2019ll be good enough\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cIf I give enough, he\u2019ll want me.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cIf I prove how good I am, someone will see that and stay.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Overgiving is a pattern that doesn\u2019t work in dating.<\/b> It doesn\u2019t work because masculine men need to provide and give in order to feel on purpose in the relationship.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It also doesn\u2019t work because it will always lead you to feeling resentful and dissatisfied.<\/span><\/p>\n

I used to do this in dating relationships.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I would give and give – and give some more – and then all the sudden I\u2019d start feeling resentful. I\u2019d think, \u201c<\/span>He\u2019s just using me!<\/span><\/i>\u201d — even though he\u2019d never asked me to do any of it!<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

I had all of the thoughts listed above, I was doing all of the things above and, you guessed it, it wasn\u2019t working.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

You see, underneath a pattern of over-giving is a self-worth conversation.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re either trying to hide what you\u2019re afraid they\u2019ll see in you – or – You\u2019re trying to overcome something you believe already exists in you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Either way, none of it is true!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The thing is – it\u2019s not enough simply to know it\u2019s not true.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s about what you\u2019re going to do to breakthrough it!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

So\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Why do you feel you need to prove your value?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

What\u2019s driving the pattern of behavior?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

What need is being fulfilled?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Is it a need to be liked and accepted? Is it a need to feel needed or valuable to someone?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The first step in breaking through a pattern of overgiving is to get connected to what belief is driving the behavior.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once you\u2019ve gotten clear on that – you get to start questioning it. You get to go to the very center of why that belief exists and do the <\/span>Heartwork<\/span><\/i> to create something entirely different inside you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

You get to <\/span>transform<\/b> the belief so that the behavior <\/span>disappears<\/span><\/i>.<\/span><\/p>\n

And once you do that, you get to a point where those beliefs don\u2019t even phase you anymore. When the thought pops up, you can immediately shift and move on!<\/span><\/p>\n

How amazing would that be?!<\/span><\/p>\n

Through doing this <\/span>Heartwork<\/span><\/i> you will replace these patterns and be out there in the dating world in your Irresistible Essence, authentic self and attracting the man that will love and appreciate you for all of it!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Are you ready to shift these patterns? Are you ready to transform them once and for all?<\/span><\/p>\n

If you answered yes, <\/span>the Extraordinary Love Intensive<\/b>, is what you need and it\u2019s just around the corner! It\u2019s happening next weekend and you don\u2019t want to miss it!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This three-day deep dive event is designed to have you break through the patterns that are causing you to repel men and relationships (and overgiving is a big one!) and have you transform so you can create the extraordinary relationship of your dreams.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

After the event there will be no more trying to prove your value or doing too much in a relationship.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

After the event you will not only <\/b>know<\/i><\/b> how<\/i><\/b> to step back and be in your feminine receiving energy, but you\u2019ll feel comfortable and naturally do so!<\/b><\/p>\n

Join us for the Extraordinary Love Intensive by claiming your ticket now!<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Remember, there\u2019s a hurt or pain that hasn\u2019t been healed when you\u2019re compensating with overgiving behavior. It\u2019s time to heal so you can experience happiness, joy, abundance, love, partnership support and so much more inside an extraordinary relationship! <\/span><\/p>\n

<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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