{"id":13715,"date":"2021-08-13T16:26:38","date_gmt":"2021-08-13T20:26:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=13715"},"modified":"2021-08-13T16:26:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-13T20:26:38","slug":"you-can-break-through-your-fears-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/you-can-break-through-your-fears-now\/","title":{"rendered":"You Can Break Through Your Fears Now!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are fears that come up in the realm of love and relationships?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you afraid you won\u2019t be enough?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you terrified of rejection or abandonment?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you scared you\u2019ll keep repeating your heartbreaking past and are afraid to try again now?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maybe you\u2019re afraid that\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dating will just be a waste of time<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you\u2019ll be controlled<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you\u2019ll lose yourself in a relationship\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you won\u2019t find someone who really understands you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">it\u2019ll be hard to share your life with someone\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you\u2019ll get your heartbroken (again)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">he\u2019ll lie or cheat like every other guy has<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Obviously, those are only <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">some<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of the fears that come up for women while dating.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>What are your fears?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The thing about fear is that it\u2019s a fact of life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s part of being human, and there\u2019s no way out of that.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The other thing about fear is that even though it\u2019s a given in life, it doesn\u2019t have to <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">control<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear is your brain&#8217;s way of thinking about what you are afraid is or isn\u2019t going to happen.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And your brain doesn\u2019t recognize the difference between an <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">imagined fear<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and what\u2019s <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">actually<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> happening.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When fear is running the show, you\u2019ll subconsciously sabotage your experiences in an attempt to either stop whatever you\u2019re afraid of from happening, or force something to happen.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>By taking ownership of your fears and recognizing what is an imagined fear vs reality, you take your power back and can be the conscious owner of your life <\/b><b>and<\/b><b> your results.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">None of us want to waste our time, get our hearts broken, be rejected, or experience the same painful things we\u2019ve experienced in the past.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>When you take the time to do the necessary <\/b><b><i>Heartwork<\/i><\/b><b>, you increase your chances of attracting the man and relationships that <\/b><b>will<\/b><b> be good for you.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>And the first step to doing that is to powerfully master your fears.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, how do you do that?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">1. Distinguish your fear<\/b><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"> by recognizing what it is and where it comes from. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">2. Dismantle<\/b><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"> <\/span><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">the<\/b><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"> <\/span><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">fear<\/b><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"> by doing the work to release it and leave it in the past. Then, when fearful thoughts come up \u2014 because they will \u2014 you\u2019ll be able to see them for what they are, instead of relating to them as \u201cthe truth.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">3. Replace<\/b><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"> <\/span><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">the<\/b><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"> <\/span><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">fear<\/b><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"> with a new empowering belief that has you open up to new ideas of what\u2019s possible for you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>You don\u2019t have to be afraid of what\u2019s happened in the past.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You can experience love, happiness, peace and healing in your heart when you do the <\/b><b><i>Heartwork<\/i><\/b><b> necessary to break through your fears!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019d like support with learning how to master your thoughts and emotions so you aren\u2019t being driven by them, we want to support you!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our Ready to Love Again Program begins in just over a week, and this is the powerful work we begin with!\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are at all interested in learning more, or if you\u2019d simply like to chat with someone about how you (yes, YOU!) can learn to dismantle your fears and take control of your life, click below to book a Love Breakthrough Call.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/live.vcita.com\/site\/heartsdesireinternational\/online-scheduling?service=1c4bd3fa\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>Schedule a Love Breakthrough Session<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our coaches are here to support you in seeing what you can\u2019t see right now, so that you can move forward and create the life and love your heart desires!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\"><span class=\"s3\"><b><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s1\"><i><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz\u00a0 What are fears that come up in the realm of love and relationships?\u00a0 Are you afraid you won\u2019t be enough?\u00a0 Are you terrified of rejection or abandonment?\u00a0 Are you scared you\u2019ll keep repeating your heartbreaking past and are afraid to try again now?\u00a0 Maybe you\u2019re afraid that\u2026 dating will just be a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13716,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,6,9,10,16,20,21,22,24,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13715","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-coaching","category-dating-2","category-hdi-blog","category-hearts-desire-international","category-love-2","category-ready-to-love-again","category-relationship","category-relationship-advice","category-self-love-2","category-success"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13715","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13715"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13715\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13716"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13715"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13715"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13715"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}