{"id":13997,"date":"2021-08-27T10:11:00","date_gmt":"2021-08-27T14:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=13997"},"modified":"2021-09-03T10:16:56","modified_gmt":"2021-09-03T14:16:56","slug":"the-1-ingredient-in-creating-intimacy-in-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/the-1-ingredient-in-creating-intimacy-in-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"The #1 Ingredient in Creating Intimacy in Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you know what is the most vital ingredient in creating intimate relationships?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you know what would make it possible for you to connect deeply with a man and enhance your love life?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What would it feel like to actually allow yourself to be seen by others for who YOU truly are?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Being vulnerably YOU in dating is the key to creating the loving, passionate, connected relationship you want.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>If you\u2019re not in the relationship of your dreams yet, this is the most important that may be missing!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So what does vulnerability look like?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Vulnerability is\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being open<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being vulnerable and honest <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">with yourself<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being willing to share yourself and your feelings\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trusting yourself to know who to trust<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sharing authentically and honestly, yet appropriately<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having clarity about and living in an alignment with your values and boundaries, and who you really are.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The ability to be yourself without judging or beating yourself up.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>So what stops you from being vulnerable?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear of being abandoned.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear of rejection.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear that you may get taken advantage of.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear of looking \u201cweak\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear of disappointment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear of what others might think.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear that if you show up as yourself, people won\u2019t like or approve of you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>What fears show up for you<\/b><b>?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Why is knowing this so important?<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s important when it comes to dating, because, when you\u2019re afraid, you suppress yourself.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You pretend, hide, or resist.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t trust yourself to go for the things you want in life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You say you want a deep, intimate relationship, but you\u2019re not willing to actually show up authentically and open .\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may even worry that if you create the relationship you want, you\u2019ll lose it, and then that fear causes you to sabotage every opportunity at true love and happiness.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>So how do you overcome these fears and show up with vulnerability in order to create genuine connection?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You do the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Heartwork<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to uncover and heal those fears.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You learn how to express yourself with intention so that your authentic and honest shares come out in a way where they can be received and respected.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You practice.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The more you practice vulnerability, the more confident you will feel in simply being yourself. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Doing this on your own isn\u2019t always easy, because, think about it: If you knew how to do that, you probably would have done it already.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you know that being vulnerable is something you struggle with, and you\u2019d like support in doing this <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">HeartWork <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and breaking through the fear so that you can authentically connect with someone and create the relationship of your dreams, book a Love Breakthrough Session with one of our coaches today.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/live.vcita.com\/site\/heartsdesireinternational\/online-scheduling?service=1c4bd3fa\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>Schedule a Love Breakthrough Session here.<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>Remember, it takes courage to go for the things you really want in your life.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vulnerability is the only way to create 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