{"id":14003,"date":"2021-09-03T10:23:55","date_gmt":"2021-09-03T14:23:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=14003"},"modified":"2021-09-03T10:23:55","modified_gmt":"2021-09-03T14:23:55","slug":"how-to-embrace-your-feminine-authentic-self","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/how-to-embrace-your-feminine-authentic-self\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Embrace Your Feminine, Authentic Self"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you a driven, ambitious, successful woman?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you spend your daytime hours of your career in your masculine (\u201cdoing\u201d) energy?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you find it difficult to relax into your feminine energy before a date, or when you\u2019re with your partner?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>If you answered yes, it\u2019s perfectly natural.\u00a0 Being in our masculine\/doing energy is called for when we\u2019re at work and getting things done.<\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b>That said, when the work day is over, you get to take a moment and shift into your feminine energy.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re getting feedback that\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You seem like you don\u2019t need anyone else<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You act like you don\u2019t want a man in your life or that you\u2019re fine alone<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re intimidating<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nothing is ever good enough for you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re aggressive of \u201ctoo direct\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>&#8230;then it\u2019s time to look at how you can shift and relax into your feminine energy!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, to be clear, as we said above, masculine energy isn\u2019t \u201cbad.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The energy of <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">doing, driving, managing, advising, etc<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. is what\u2019s made you successful in your career and in other areas of your life!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>The problem is that it\u00a0 simply doesn\u2019t work when it comes to dating and romantic relationships.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feminine Energy is NOT about being weak, not having a voice, acting like a doormat, or not having an opinion.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Being in your innate, feminine and Irresistible Essence is powerful! It\u2019s what has you show up as <\/b><b><i>vulnerable, authentic, light and joyful<\/i><\/b><b>.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It IS the energy of BEing receptive.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s allowing your partner to be there with\u00a0 you and do things for you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s allowing others to see you and deeply connect with you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>So what are the ways of BEing you can cultivate inside yourself so that your true feminine self shines through?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These ways of BEing are what we call your Irresistible Essences &#8212; your innate power of femininity that creates the magical spark that naturally draws masculine men to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We use the word MAGICAL to help you remember what they are:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">\n<p><b>M <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Mesmerizing<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Authentic<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>G <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Gracious<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Inspiring<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>C <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Confident\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Alluring<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>L <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Love-able<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s dive in a bit deeper, shall we?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>BEing Mesmerizing <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">looks like captivating a man\u2019s attention and drawing him into you through your Way of BEing. It\u2019s like casting a spell that has men notice and be drawn to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>BEing Authentic<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> means being YOURSELF. It\u2019s knowing that you\u2019re more than enough and showing up that way. Remember: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He can\u2019t fall (or stay) in love with you if YOU are not even there!<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>BEing Gracious<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is allowing yourself to receive and giving him the gift of being able to give to you. Some women really struggle with this one, because they\u2019re so used to doing for themselves. It\u2019s important to point out that receiving is <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">NOT<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> about being entitled or not being able to take care of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, on a date, allowing the man to pay is not about \u201cexpecting\u201d him to do something or feeling like you\u2019re entitled to the dinner.\u00a0 It\u2019s about graciously accepting that he\u2019s invited you out and receiving that with grace and gratitude.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, allow him to pay. Accept his compliments. And offer gratitude in return.\u00a0 Let him know how much you appreciated the dinner, his\u00a0 company, and the date.\u00a0 It\u2019s highly attractive, and knowing he was able to make you smile will inspire him to want to do even more!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>BEing Inspiring<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> means being a breath of happiness, love and fun. No one wants to swim in a pool of upset. So instead of making him feel obligated to be with you or required to do anything, <\/span><b><i>inspire <\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">him to show up for you by the way you are when you\u2019re around him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>BEing Confident<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> looks like doing your own thing and creating your own happiness. It\u2019s knowing that you\u2019re enough <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">without <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">feeling as if you have to \u201cprove\u201d it. Remember this: Confidence is the #1 most attractive thing to a man.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>BEing Alluring<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is also a Way of BEing. It means being radiant, authentic, drawing people to you simply by being the amazing woman you are.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>BEing Love-Able<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> means knowing deep down, for real, that you are both able to love and be loved by another. It looks like knowing you don\u2019t have to withhold love or be afraid to receive it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>So there you have it!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>These 7 ways of BEing, the Irresistible Essences, are what will support you in relaxing into your feminine energy and attracting a man that wants to get to know you, and wants to stay with you!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019d like support with showing up more fully as your true, authentic, feminine self, book a call with our coaches now.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If it\u2019s become second nature to be in your masculine energy, it\u2019s okay! You can learn how to easily shift and feel more fully connected to you.\u00a0 We can show you how!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/live.vcita.com\/site\/heartsdesireinternational\/online-scheduling?service=1c4bd3fa\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>Schedule a Love Breakthrough Session here.<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\"><span class=\"s3\"><b><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s1\"><i><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz\u00a0 Are you a driven, ambitious, successful woman? 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