{"id":14043,"date":"2021-09-10T16:18:52","date_gmt":"2021-09-10T20:18:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=14043"},"modified":"2021-09-10T16:18:52","modified_gmt":"2021-09-10T20:18:52","slug":"stop-sabotaging-your-dating-life-with-these-solutions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/stop-sabotaging-your-dating-life-with-these-solutions\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop Sabotaging Your Dating Life With These Solutions!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does it feel like your results in dating keep getting sabotaged?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you noticed you keep having the same (or similar) experience over and over again (and they\u2019re <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">not<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> the ones you want)?<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Are you ready to break through these sabotaging patterns once and for all so you can create the relationship of your dreams?!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The top three patterns we see from our clients that are sabotaging their dating (consciously or unconsciously) are:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dating only one man at a time<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Settling for less than what you really want in a man\/relationship<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Complaining about dating<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><b>Do you think you may be falling into any of these patterns?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s break each of\u00a0 them down so you see what we\u2019re talking about.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>#1 Sabotaging Pattern: Dating only one man at a time.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We\u2019ve said it once, and we\u2019ll say it a thousand more times: Dating only one man at a time is setting yourself up for failure. Not only that, but this pattern will cause the dating process to take <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">so much more time<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> than necessary.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And we know you don\u2019t want to waste your time!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Solution: Date more than one man at a time.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What does this look like?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dating means spending time with someone and getting to know them. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dating more than one person at a time means going on dates with multiple men and getting to know them while noticing what you are and aren\u2019t experiencing with them.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">doesn\u2019t<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> mean you\u2019re sleeping around, having sex with all of them, or even kissing multiple men!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It simply means you\u2019re talking, meeting, and getting to know them so that you can make an informed decision about whether you\u2019d like to keep getting to know them or not.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Why does this matter? <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re only seeing one man at a time, you limit your availability, options and experience. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you open yourself up to seeing multiple men, you increase your chances of creating a relationship with the man that\u2019s <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">right<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You also take the pressure off of not only the men, but <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yourself<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">! <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re able to keep yourself from getting attached to anyone too soon, making a relationship out of something that\u2019s not one, and getting your heart broken unnecessarily.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>#2 Sabotaging Pattern: Settling for less than what you really want in a man\/relationship<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Choosing to keep seeing someone who is having you experience less than the relationship of your dreams, is settling. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Doing so, wastes precious time you could be spending with someone else (i.e. the RIGHT man!).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Solution:\u00a0 Do the <\/b><b><i>HeartWork<\/i><\/b><b> to break through this pattern.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Settling comes from a belief that you don\u2019t deserve what you truly want, that it doesn\u2019t exist, or that you won\u2019t be able to get it, so you do what you think you have to do to save yourself from disappointment.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Why does this matter?<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Until you break through these limiting beliefs, you will never be able to create the relationship of your dreams and attract not only <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> man, but <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> man who is aligned with the experience and the kind of relationship you want to have.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>#3 Sabotaging Pattern: Complaining about dating<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Constantly talking about how hard dating is, how frustrated you are with the experience, how terrible the men you\u2019re attracting are, or how long the process is taking is a <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sabotaging pattern.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you do this, you then create experiences to prove that you\u2019re right. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you really want to be right about any of that?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Solution: Pay attention to your language and create effective ways to date.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Why does this matter?<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Your mind believes what you tell it is true, and you then subconsciously create the experiences that will have you prove yourself right. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Energy flows where attention goes!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, instead of complaining about what you don\u2019t want or what isn\u2019t working, get crystal-clear and stay laser-focused on the kind of relationship you want to experience for the rest of your life.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your life &#8212; including the relationship of your dreams is <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">your creation!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What do you want to create?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>If you want to have a <\/b><b>Love Breakthrough<\/b><b> and turn these self-sabotaging patterns (<\/b><b><i>plus the ones\u00a0 that you might not even realize are there for you!<\/i><\/b><b>) around once and for all,\u00a0 then you need to join us for the Love Breakthrough Challenge!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this 5-Day Love Breakthrough Challenge, we\u2019re going to guide you through the same <\/span><b>EFFECTIVE, CLEAR, AND PROVEN steps of our <\/b><b><i>HeartWork<\/i><\/b><b> process<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, we\u2019ve personally used in our own lives and have shared with thousands of women around the world, which is what has <\/span><b>empowered them to shift from being frustrated, disappointed, and lonely to being happy and successful in love<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/lovebreakthroughchallenge\/\"><b>Click here to sign up for FREE now!<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We start on Monday, September 20th, so sign up now.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This WILL transform you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> your love life!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span 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