{"id":14678,"date":"2021-10-29T17:11:00","date_gmt":"2021-10-29T21:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=14678"},"modified":"2021-11-09T17:29:27","modified_gmt":"2021-11-09T22:29:27","slug":"how-to-effectively-talk-to-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/how-to-effectively-talk-to-men\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Effectively Talk to Men!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I wish I was better at communicating with my partner.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He never understands me!\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t dare say what I\u2019m feeling because I don\u2019t want to get into an argument.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I feel like I talk and he doesn\u2019t even hear me!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These are just a few of the things we heard from women last weekend at Irresistible Woman LIVE and they\u2019re the same things\u00a0 we hear from our clients when they first start working with us.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Communicating with men can seem difficult. We know it can feel like you\u2019re speaking a completely different language that he doesn\u2019t even care to try to understand.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It was a very hard part of my marriage for years. I would communicate things to Ric and I wouldn\u2019t feel like he heard me.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So I would say it again &#8211; <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">louder<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. I thought that would make him understand.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It didn\u2019t work.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He would feel disrespected and I would feel like I was not being understood and before we knew it, we were two people yelling at each other &#8211; getting nowhere in the conversation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It was a very painful dynamic of our relationship for many years&#8230;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8230;<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">until<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> we learned how to communicate effectively with one another in a way that would not only have the other person understand, but feel <\/span><b>respected, loved and fully heard<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Communication is one of the biggest factors to whether or not you\u2019ll have a successful relationship. Sharing your feelings and being able to express your needs is so important!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s how you create and build trust, intimacy, safety and love with those you are in relationship with.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you learn how to communicate in a way where there\u2019s no blaming, shaming, controlling and \u201cmaking wrong\u201d &#8211; it\u2019s incredible what can be created!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is exactly the type of communication we teach in our programs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>After working with us, our clients know <\/b><b><i>exactly<\/i><\/b><b> how to<\/b> <b>express their desires without being controlling, how to share what they prefer so they don\u2019t end up feeling resentful and how to understand what the men in their lives are saying too<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019d like support with up-leveling your communication skills (because the things we teach don\u2019t only apply to romantic relationships &#8211; but to every relationship in your life!) then book a love breakthrough call now!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why would you want to wait to increase the understanding, intimacy and love in\u00a0 your relationship?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why wouldn\u2019t you want to be able to communicate your desires in dating starting now<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/live.vcita.com\/site\/heartsdesireinternational\/online-scheduling?service=0n28s49jbo0u6qz3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>Book a Love Breakthrough Session Now.<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\"><span class=\"s3\"><b><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s1\"><i><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz\u00a0 I wish I was better at communicating with my partner.\u00a0 He never understands me!\u00a0 I don\u2019t dare say what I\u2019m feeling because I don\u2019t want to get into an argument.\u00a0 I feel like I talk and he doesn\u2019t even hear me! 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