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by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Do you ever wonder why the men that are showing up in your life aren\u2019t the kind of men you want?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n If what you\u2019re doing is working and you\u2019re meeting lots of incredible men into your life – that\u2019s great!! Don\u2019t fix what\u2019s not broken!<\/span><\/p>\n However<\/i><\/b> –\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n If you ever catch yourself thinking (or even saying out loud) something like…\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n \u201dAll men are cheaters.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n \u201dThere\u2019s absolutely no men out there for me!\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n \u201cEvery man will end up hurting me.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n \u201cAll the men on the apps want it sex.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n \u2026 Or any other variation of that –\u00a0 We have some news for you!<\/b><\/p>\n You\u2019re wrong!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n We say that with love, but it\u2019s simply the truth.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n There are many women out there who are meeting incredible men on the apps, who are creating extraordinary relationships with high quality men, and who are getting married to men that are willing to wait for marriage.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n You can be one of them!!<\/b><\/p>\n There\u2019s nothing wrong with you. You\u2019re not broken. But if the type of men that are showing up for you aren\u2019t the type of men you want – then there\u2019s a shift that gets to be made.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n The questions to ask yourself are: <\/b>\u201cWhat can I shift?\u201d<\/i><\/b> and \u201c<\/b>What am I in control of?<\/i><\/b>\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n The only thing you\u2019re 100% in control of is your thoughts and your actions. You get to shift your mindset so you can stop attracting what you don\u2019t want and start attracting the men that will lead you to creating the relationship of your dreams with the man that\u2019s 100% right for you!<\/span><\/p>\n So how do you create that shift?\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n 1 – Get clear on what your current beliefs are.<\/b><\/p>\n Tell yourself the truth about what you currently believe about dating and men. If you\u2019re telling your girlfriends there\u2019s no good men on the app, chances are, that\u2019s limiting belief for you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n You <\/span>must<\/span><\/i> be honest with yourself and get to the bottom of these beliefs.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Until you do – no matter how much you pretend they\u2019re not there – they will show up in your profile, out on a date at dinner and in any relationship.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n 2 – Have clarity around your intention and vision.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n What\u2019s your intention for dating?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n What\u2019s your intention for being on the dating app?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n What\u2019s your vision for the experience you want to have inside the relationship of your dreams?\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n You have the power to attract and create exactly what you want and you have to know <\/span>exactly<\/span><\/i> what that is <\/span>first<\/span><\/i>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n 3 – BE the woman that\u2019s aligned with your vision.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n Showing up in a way that\u2019s aligned with the intention you have is what gives it power!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n When you\u2019re aligned in who you are BEing, your actions\u00a0 will automatically be aligned to bring you the results you desire.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Energy attracts energy and when who you are being and what you are doing are aligned with what you want to experience – the people and experiences you don\u2019t want simply won\u2019t be attracted to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n You can be 100% in your power around your actions, beliefs and mindset and the rest will follow!<\/b><\/p>\n