{"id":14801,"date":"2021-11-22T13:07:33","date_gmt":"2021-11-22T18:07:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=14801"},"modified":"2021-11-22T13:07:49","modified_gmt":"2021-11-22T18:07:49","slug":"its-not-too-good-to-be-true-how-to-have-it-all","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/its-not-too-good-to-be-true-how-to-have-it-all\/","title":{"rendered":"It\u2019s Not Too Good to Be True\u2026 How to Have it All!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.6&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you ever feel like you\u2019re waiting for the other shoe to drop?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Things are going really well in a relationship &#8211; you\u2019re having fun and things are feeling easy and flowy\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2026 but somewhere in the back of your mind there\u2019s a little voice that\u2019s saying, \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is this too good to be true<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>If that ever happens to you &#8211; listen up.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You have a fear or a limiting belief that when things are good, eventually they\u2019re going to fall apart or go wrong.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sound familiar?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We see this all the time with our clients\u00a0 &#8211; and we\u2019ve experienced it many times ourselves!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re just about have your breakthrough &#8211; and you\u2019ll self-sabotage.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Or things are going better than ever, in your job, your relationship, financially &#8211; and then you start to doubt yourself and it all falls apart.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here\u2019s the thing&#8230;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you find yourself in what we like to call \u201cthe swirl\u201d, you know that feeling of uncertainty, confusion or like you don\u2019t know what to do, there\u2019s one thing that\u2019s happening under all of it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<b>You\u2019re having a worthiness conversation.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re wondering\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cCan I really have this?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cCan I trust myself to be able to create this?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cCan I actually handle all of this goodness?!\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s all it is!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So how do you pull yourself out of \u201cthe swirl\u201d?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask yourself these three questions:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What am I afraid of?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What scares me about that?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What scares me most about <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make a choice<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see, our brains sometimes think they\u2019re keeping us \u201csafe\u201d by keeping us in the swirl. By keeping you stuck in a place that feels familiar, you save yourself from the unknown.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, you also keep yourself from having and experiencing all that\u2019s meant for you on the other side of those fears and limiting beliefs!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Staying stuck in fear is a choice.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Making a step in faith is also a choice.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>And they take about the same amount of energy, either way!\u00a0\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The important thing to remember is that staying stuck leads to feeling <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">disempowered<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and taking a step in faith leads you to feeling <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">empowered<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You get to choose.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<b>Every single moment of every single day is an opportunity to have a breakthrough and transform an area of your life.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s why we\u2019re so excited to be offering you our final challenge of 2021!!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Join us for the BE-YOU-tifully YOU Challenge, starting next Monday, November 29th!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The love you deserve is waiting for YOU!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Over seven days, we\u2019ll share with you the same steps that we\u2019ve used to help hundreds of women across the globe attract and create Extraordinary Love using the same skills we used to create the deeply loving, lasting marriages we\u2019ve always wanted with our husbands!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In just seven days, your love life can be transformed into the happy, fulfilling experience your heart desires!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/beyoutifullyyouchallenge.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>Join us for the BE\u2013YOU-tifully YOU 7-Day Challenge!\u200b<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you step out of your comfort zone and decide to trust yourself, you become empowered.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you see yourself for the incredible, successful, lovable woman that you are &#8211; you know that you can handle <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">all<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of the goodness!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that\u2019s what we want for you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/beyoutifullyyouchallenge.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>I\u2019m ready for all of the goodness!\u00a0<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">See you soon!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s1\"><i><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\">(photo credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/onlineforlove.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/onlineforlove.com\/<\/a>)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz\u00a0 Do you ever feel like you\u2019re waiting for the other shoe to drop? 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