{"id":15177,"date":"2022-04-15T07:35:47","date_gmt":"2022-04-15T11:35:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=15177"},"modified":"2022-04-15T07:35:47","modified_gmt":"2022-04-15T11:35:47","slug":"the-dos-and-donts-of-your-online-dating-profile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/the-dos-and-donts-of-your-online-dating-profile\/","title":{"rendered":"The Do&#8217;s (and Don&#8217;ts) of Your Online Dating Profile!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.15&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.15&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.15&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.15&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you feeling frustrated about your dating profile?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you feel like you\u2019re continually disappointed by the kind (or even lack thereof) of responses online?\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you ever feel yourself hesitate when going to open up (insert the online profile of your choice) because you\u2019re afraid of what you\u2019ll find?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b><i>What if you could have a profile that\u2019s brimming with opportunity that you can\u2019t wait to open to see what you\u2019ll find!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is that the majority of people today are finding their partner online.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So why not create a profile that will make it possible for you too!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The more telling your profile is about the kind of woman you are, the higher chance you have of attracting the relationship and experience of your dreams.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So what should your profile focus on? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You, of course! Specifically, who you are and the relationship you want to have in a relationship.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We\u2019ve put together a \u201cDo\u2019s and Don&#8217;ts\u201d list for creating an online dating profile that we know will have you attract the type of experience you\u2019re wanting. These recommendations work across the board for all online dating sites.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>When it comes to your online dating profile DO:\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Begin with <\/span><b>3 words<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that describe who you are.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How would your closest friends describe you?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What would they say being in a relationship with you is like?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"3\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Example: \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m a happy, intelligent, fun woman! (At least that\u2019s what I\u2019ve been told by my friends. <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#x1f609;<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">)<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Create an experience with your profile without trying too hard.<\/span><\/li>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Use emojis and playful language to show your personality.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">authentic<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Share some <\/span><b><i>specific<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> things you like to do.<\/span><\/li>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you like to travel, share places you\u2019d like to visit with your future partner.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have an adventurous spirit, share some past and future experiences you\u2019ve had and would like to create.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you like to read, share some books that are your favorite.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Express what you would like to <\/span><b><i>experience<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in a relationship.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In my future marriage, I want to create joy, generosity and love every day of our lives.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re looking for marriage &#8211; <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">say it!<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Be bold and be clear about what you want.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>When it comes to your online dating profile DON\u2019T:\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Only focus on what you like to <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">do<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This may put off the energy that you don\u2019t know who you are or what you want.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be sarcastic or condescending about men<\/span><\/li>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This type of language is like a man repeller!\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">List specific things you want in a man<\/span><\/li>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Example: \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m looking for a man who\u2019s tall, likes to cook and doesn\u2019t have kids.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tell a man what to do<\/span><\/li>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Telling him when you\u2019d like him to text, call or ask you on a date, etc.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some of these may sound silly, but we promise you, we\u2019ve seen it all! And with all the work we\u2019ve done with women we simply know that the do\u2019s work and the don\u2019ts well, don\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Now when it comes to pictures\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wear Sunglasses<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have other people in the picture (even if they\u2019re <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mostly<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> cut out)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Include photos from 5 years ago<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show a lot of skin<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Share pictures of who you are <\/span><b>NOW<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">courageous and confident<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and that energy will come pouring through\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have your first picture be one of you facing forward<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Smile<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with teeth showing<\/span><\/li>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Smiling says, \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m happy with my life and I\u2019m available to date!<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wear red lipstick or a red blouse (studies have shown that men are extremely attracted to red)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Share pictures of you doing things you enjoy (ex: kayaking, hiking, yoga)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If other things are in the picture (ex: a place that you visited or you and your dog) make sure <\/span><b>you\u2019re the focus <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and what shines through in the photo<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Look confident and comfortable.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>The most important thing is to date in a way that has the experience be fun and exciting for you. The more you\u2019re connected to who you are and what you want and are living your life accordingly, the more you\u2019ll attract men that align!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, there you have it! Everything you need to know to create a rocking online dating profile! <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Later this year we\u2019ll be doing our Online Dating Profile Workshop where we go even deeper and give personal feedback on your site and how to update it, but for now\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now go and take action! Don\u2019t just read this or save it to your computer for later reference\u2026 go update your dating profile <\/span><b>now<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be in action creating what you want to have in your life and it will come to you! <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\"><span class=\"s3\"><b><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s1\"><i><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz\u00a0 Are you feeling frustrated about your dating profile?\u00a0 Do you feel like you\u2019re continually disappointed by the kind (or even lack thereof) of responses online?\u00a0\u00a0 Do you ever feel yourself hesitate when going to open up (insert the online profile of your choice) because you\u2019re afraid of what you\u2019ll find?\u00a0 What if [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15179,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15177","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15177","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15177"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15177\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15182,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15177\/revisions\/15182"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15179"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15177"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15177"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15177"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}