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by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Would you like to know what the #1 complaint about dating is that we hear from women?<\/span> There\u2019s nothing more annoying to a successful woman than a man who\u2019s wasting her time because they don\u2019t know what they want, are trying to scam her or are just plain players. <\/span> – create more opportunities to meet other men<\/span><\/p>\n – get clear on what your limiting beliefs are so they can stop running the show!<\/span><\/p>\n – stop thinking dating has to be hard<\/span><\/p>\n The point is – it\u2019s unnecessary to keep having the same experience over and over again. <\/b> If you\u2019re having an experience over and over that you don\u2019t like, get curious about why you\u2019re choosing this! <\/b> <\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n <\/i><\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" by Gladys Diaz\u00a0 Would you like to know what the #1 complaint about dating is that we hear from women?We think we\u2019ve heard just about everything when it comes to the frustrations of dating, but there\u2019s something that we hear more than anything else!The thing that irks women the most about dating is feeling like […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15191,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,5,6,115,10,16,21,27,122],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15190","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-coaching","category-communication-2","category-dating-2","category-getting-engaged","category-hearts-desire-international","category-love-2","category-relationship","category-success","category-successful-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15190","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15190"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15190\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15195,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15190\/revisions\/15195"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15191"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15190"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15190"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15190"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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<\/span>We think we\u2019ve heard just about everything when it comes to the frustrations of dating, but there\u2019s something that we hear more than anything else!<\/span>
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<\/span>The thing that irks women the most about dating is feeling like it\u2019s a waste of time.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
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<\/span>But here\u2019s something we want you to understand. <\/span>
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<\/span>There\u2019s nothing on earth that will make less of a difference in your life than blaming someone else for your circumstances. <\/b>
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<\/span>It\u2019s simply that simple. <\/span>
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<\/span>The only thing that will create change in your life is being responsible for what you\u2019re creating and getting curious about why and how you can create something different. <\/b>
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<\/span>So\u2026 if you\u2019re tired of feeling like men are wasting your time, look inside! <\/span>
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<\/span>Ask yourself:<\/span>
<\/span>– \u201c<\/span>What is having me attract this type of ma<\/span><\/i>n?\u201d<\/span>
<\/span>– \u201c<\/span>Am I holding onto a dead-end relationship?<\/span><\/i>\u201d<\/span>
<\/span>– \u201c<\/span>Am I investing more time than I should with someone?<\/span><\/i>\u201d
<\/span>– \u201c<\/span>What could I be doing that\u2019s inviting this type of experience?<\/span><\/i>\u201d<\/span>
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<\/span>Step back, get curious and see how you can adjust! <\/span>
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<\/span>Are you not making plans for your weekend because you\u2019re waiting and hoping that a certain someone will ask you out? <\/span><\/i>
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<\/span><\/i>Are turning down dates with men who are showing up because you\u2019re hoping something else will happen? <\/span><\/i>
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<\/span><\/i>Are you spending time or engaging with someone who you know isn\u2019t the kind of person for you? <\/span><\/i>
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<\/span><\/i>Are you choosing to spend time with someone (either physically or emotionally) who\u2019s already shown you he\u2019s not the one?<\/span><\/i>
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<\/span>These are just a couple examples of how you may be choosing to allow someone to waste your time – which is why YOU have the power to shift! <\/span>
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<\/span>What can you do differently?<\/b>
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<\/span>– talk to more people<\/span><\/p>\n
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<\/span>Have you ever heard the saying, \u201c<\/span>If you make a mistake twice, it\u2019s a decision<\/span><\/i>\u201d?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
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<\/span>You always get to choose what experiences you want to have! <\/span>
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<\/span>Dating can be fun, exciting and fulfilling. <\/span>
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<\/span>Remember this too<\/b> – if you\u2019re getting to know someone and genuinely interested in seeing where it could go and then after 3 or 4 dates you decide it\u2019s not a match – that\u2019s not a waste of time! That\u2019s called <\/span>dating<\/span><\/i>! It is a waste of time if you aren\u2019t giving men a chance, deciding it\u2019s over too soon or continuing to spend time with someone that\u2019s clearly not the type of person you\u2019re looking for. <\/span>
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<\/span>Claim the power you hold over your life and create the type of dating experiences you want to create! Once you do that, you\u2019ll be amazed at how quickly you start to attract exactly what you want. <\/b><\/p>\n