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by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n Do you ever feel insecure while dating? <\/span> The key to successful dating – and the eventual dream relationship is knowing what you want, feeling secure with who you are and choosing a partner that supports you in creating that relationship. <\/span> On the other hand, if you\u2019re dating many men at the same time and allowing yourself to really get to know them – you keep yourself from becoming too attached to anyone prematurely and allow yourself to be fully awake to see who is showing up for you, how you feel in the experience and what <\/span>you<\/span><\/i> want to develop further. <\/span> Now – here\u2019s the thing:<\/span>
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<\/span>Do you wonder things like\u2026 <\/span>
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<\/span>\u201cWhat if he doesn\u2019t like me?\u201d <\/span><\/i>
<\/span><\/i>\u201cWhat if we don\u2019t feel the same connection when we see each other that we felt on the phone?\u201d <\/span><\/i>
<\/span><\/i>\u201cWhat if the same insecurities that had me sabotage the last relationship come up this time?\u201d
<\/span><\/i>\u201cWill I ever just be able to be myself and know that it\u2019s enough?\u201d<\/span><\/i>
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<\/span>When you feel insecure your thoughts take you away from where would <\/span>really <\/span><\/i>make a difference for you to be – <\/span>which is inside yourself.<\/b>
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<\/span>So – how can you feel secure while dating? <\/b>
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<\/span>The #1 thing that has women feel insecure in dating is not dating correctly and thinking they are in a relationship before they actually are. <\/span>
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<\/span>The most important thing to remember while you\u2019re dating is this – <\/span>
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<\/span>Dating IS NOT a relationship.<\/b>
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<\/span>Dating involves getting to know different men so that you can have as many different experiences as possible while discovering what it is that you want to <\/span>experience<\/span><\/i> in a relationship.<\/span>
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<\/span>If you start out <\/span>expecting<\/span><\/i> something to become a relationship then you get attached to the idea of the man too soon – before you actually know him. Those expectations cause you to feel insecure when he doesn\u2019t reciprocate the attachment as quickly and usually leads to the man pulling away and the dating experience coming to an end.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
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<\/span>And trust us – when a man wants to be in a relationship, you will know it! <\/b>
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<\/span>Good high, quality men who know what they want, don\u2019t waste any time becoming exclusive and committed to the woman they want to be with.<\/span><\/p>\n
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<\/span>Even though dating correctly and remembering that there are plenty of good men out there is important –<\/span>
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<\/span>– the most important thing you can do to make sure you feel secure in dating – is to increase your confidence in yourself and get crystal clear about what it is that you want to experience in life and in a relationship. <\/b>
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<\/span>If you continue to attract men who don\u2019t know what they want or aren\u2019t aligned with what you\u2019d like to experience in a relationship then you need to do the <\/span>HeartWork<\/span><\/i> to understand what is causing you to attract what you don\u2019t want and how you can break through and create something different! <\/span>
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<\/span>When you create clarity, you increase your level of security and can feel certain within yourself no matter what others do or what your outside circumstances are.<\/b>
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<\/span>When you become connected to your authentic self and fully see the vulnerable beauty that you are – then men are attracted to that energy in you!<\/span>
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<\/span>If you\u2019re ready to have a breakthrough and become the confident, secure woman who\u2019s ready for love then you need to join us on Saturday for Love Breakthrough LIVE!<\/b>
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<\/span>On this FREE LIVE Love Breakthrough Coaching Call, we’ll be coaching YOU on how to identify your love barriers, break through them, and step into the love your heart truly desires.<\/span><\/p>\n