{"id":15536,"date":"2022-08-01T05:55:49","date_gmt":"2022-08-01T09:55:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=15536"},"modified":"2022-08-01T05:56:10","modified_gmt":"2022-08-01T09:56:10","slug":"how-to-know-if-its-a-red-flag-or-a-fear-flag","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/how-to-know-if-its-a-red-flag-or-a-fear-flag\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Know If It&#8217;s a \u201cRed Flag\u201d or a \u201cFear Flag\u201d."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201c<i>Oh my gosh, is that a red flag?<\/i>\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re out there dating and getting to know men, do you often find yourself thinking that question? <br \/><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><br \/>Do you know the difference between a \u201c<i>red flag<\/i>\u201d and a \u201c<i>fear flag<\/i>\u201d?<\/p>\n<p>The term \u201cred flag\u201d is thrown around a lot by women who are dating. If we had a dollar for every time we\u2019ve heard it in our work &#8211; we\u2019d have <i>a lot, I mean a lot a lot &#8211; <\/i>of dollars!!<\/p>\n<p>There definitely are some red flags that you want to be aware of while dating. It\u2019s important to be awake and aware when you\u2019re getting to know men and thinking about who you\u2019d like to spend your life with.<\/p>\n<p><b>However, a lot of the things women think are red flags simply aren\u2019t. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>So, what is an <i>actual<\/i> red flag?<\/p>\n<p>A red flag in dating is something that causes you real (versus imagined or feared), <i>physical<\/i> or <i>emotional <\/i>danger.<\/p>\n<p><b>Primary examples of red flags in dating are: <\/b><\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Threats of physical abuse<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Signs of physical anger<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Hitting things (or you) when angry<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Consistently rude, disrespectful with you\/others<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Makes fun of you or is degrading<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Verbal abuse when angry<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Actively addicted to alcohol, marijuana, substances, pornography, or gambling (just to name a few)\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">A man that\u2019s still married (even if he\u2019s separated or in the process of divorce)<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Red flags are things that are character flaws or character traits that don\u2019t work in loving, committed, happy, long-term relationships.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Some of them are usually obvious from the get-go, but many of them usually don\u2019t come out right away during the dating process.<\/p>\n<p>This is why it\u2019s so important to give yourself time to get to know someone.<\/p>\n<p>Dating is simply the process of getting to know someone to see if you want to keep getting to know them.<\/p>\n<p>When you give yourself that time, you can look for<b> consistency of authenticity<\/b> so you can discern for yourself if any of these <i>true red flags<\/i> are present.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>When you give yourself that time, you don\u2019t need to be afraid that you\u2019ll make a poor decision or that you won\u2019t see everything you need to see.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, if you\u2019re finding that <i>every single man<\/i> you\u2019re attracting is bringing up the <i>\u201cred flag\u201d question<\/i> &#8211; why would you want to keep doing that?<\/p>\n<p><b>Get curious about why you\u2019re continuing to attract these types of issues into your life.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Your red flag is the one that\u2019s waving in the wind letting you know there\u2019s a pattern within you from an emotional wound from the past that\u2019s begging to be healed.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">One of our clients recently got engaged to an incredible man who she\u2019s madly in love with! When she messaged us to let us know the good news she said, \u201c<i>I almost didn\u2019t date him because I thought he was a scammer.<\/i>\u201d It felt too good to be true to her, and she almost ran away.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Good thing she had a coach who was able to support her through her \u201c<i>fear flags<\/i>\u201d so she could heal the emotional wounds inside of her while she took the time to get to know the incredible man that she now gets to love and be loved by for a lifetime!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>So, if you\u2019re ready to attract the man that\u2019s going to be your partner for a life-time, then you need to join us in September for Irresistible Woman LIVE!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">If you\u2019re tired of attracting men who aren\u2019t what you\u2019re looking for\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">If you\u2019re sick of experiencing red flags in dating\u2026<\/span><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\" style=\"font-size: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">If you\u2019re simply tired of feeling afraid and not trusting yourself to see clearly and make the best decisions for you\u2026.<\/span><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\" style=\"font-size: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">You get to do the <i>HeartWork<\/i> that will heal you from the patterns that are having you continue to experience \u201cred flags\u201d and \u201cfear flags\u201d!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">That\u2019s what we\u2019ll be teaching you at Irresistible Woman LIVE!<\/b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\" style=\"font-size: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">The way you relate to yourself and the way you relate to men will be completely transformed!<\/span><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\" style=\"font-size: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/the-ultimate-love-bundle\/\" style=\"font-size: 17px;\"><b>Grab your ticket here!<\/b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/a><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">When you\u2019re out there dating, we want you to attract high-quality men, know that you\u2019re safe and know that you have the power inside you to create everything you dream of.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">That\u2019s what you\u2019ll get when you join us at Irresistible Woman LIVE.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\" style=\"font-size: 17px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/the-ultimate-love-bundle\/\"><b>Claim your spot here.<\/b><\/a><\/span><span class=\"s3\" style=\"font-size: 17px;\"><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\"> <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz \u201cOh my gosh, is that a red flag?\u201d When you\u2019re out there dating and getting to know men, do you often find yourself thinking that question? \u00a0Do you know the difference between a \u201cred flag\u201d and a \u201cfear flag\u201d? 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