{"id":15573,"date":"2022-08-13T07:14:38","date_gmt":"2022-08-13T11:14:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=15573"},"modified":"2022-08-13T07:14:38","modified_gmt":"2022-08-13T11:14:38","slug":"what-your-negative-thoughts-really-mean-and-how-to-shift-them","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/what-your-negative-thoughts-really-mean-and-how-to-shift-them\/","title":{"rendered":"What Your Negative Thoughts Really Mean (And How To Shift Them)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does it seem like you always attract men who are less than what you want in a partner?<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you attract men who you feel are \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">out of your league<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d and then feel insecure and awkward when you\u2019re around them? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you creating the experiences that you feel you deserve?<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">know<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that you are worthy of the love you want?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here\u2019s the thing &#8211; <\/span><b>Everyone is worthy of love and prosperity.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You are simply because you are. There\u2019s nothing you have to do to earn it and there\u2019s nothing you could do to \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mess it up<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u201d <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>The question is then &#8211; do you believe it? <\/b><b><br \/><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re not creating <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">exactly<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> what you want to experience in partners and relationships &#8211; consider that there\u2019s a limiting belief that\u2019s operating in the background. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s a fear that\u2019s based on something you\u2019ve done, been through or survived that had you begin to doubt your worth and create a belief that you aren\u2019t good enough or that you don\u2019t deserve the love that you want. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The kicker is that these fears usually don\u2019t present themselves as \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not worthy<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d or <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI don\u2019t deserve what I want.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We talk to strong, determined, successful women all the time who are certain they don\u2019t have a worthiness conversation going on because <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">they can\u2019t see it<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But as they work with us they see that it&#8217;s there and it\u2019s sneaky. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn\u2019t sound like \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not worthy of being loved.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>What it does sound like is:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not pretty enough.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI\u2019m not skinny enough.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A man will never choose me.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cNo wonder he\u2019s with her, she\u2019s more outgoing and fun than me.\u201d <\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWhat\u2019s my problem? How come I can\u2019t find the love that I want?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cThat\u2019s it! I\u2019m going to take a break from dating.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here we go again <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">this is why I\u2019ll always be single.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">What does it sound like for you?\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>These thoughts are an indication that there\u2019s a limiting belief in your blindspot that you don\u2019t believe you deserve what you want in life and love. <\/b><b><br \/><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They\u2019re like the \u201ccheck engine light\u201d for your soul asking that you look a little deeper.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>The energetic truth is that you\u2019ll attract that which is a match for what you feel and believe you deserve.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So how do you shift into the courage to believe?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You must stop being afraid to be afraid. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What do we mean by that? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Get curious!<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Choose to look at the thoughts and behaviors that are standing in the way between you and the extraordinary love that you want.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><b>Pay attention to the thoughts and feelings that you have.<\/b> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you feel angry &#8211; <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">what are you mad at?<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you feel fear &#8211; <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">what are you afraid of?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you feel sad &#8211; <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">what hurt you?<\/span><\/i> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then ask yourself if it reminds you of something that happened in the past.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What happened right before you had that thought?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><\/span><b>This is what we\u2019ll be doing next week in the Real Love Breakthrough Challenge! <\/b><b><br \/><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The game we\u2019ll be playing is being brave enough to look at what\u2019s in the way and doing the work to break through it! <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We\u2019ll be looking at the negative thoughts that have been haunting you for 5, 10, 20, 50 years of your life\u2026. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And breaking through them in 5 DAYS so you can begin to attract what is aligned with who you are and what you want so you can create the relationship of your dreams! <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/reallovebreakthrough.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>Join us for the Real Love Breakthrough Challenge!<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Worthiness is a decision you make. Deservingness is knowing that you can have it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Decide<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> right now<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that you deserve everything that you want and then register for the challenge by clicking below. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><strong>&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/reallovebreakthrough.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/reallovebreakthrough.com\/<\/a><\/strong> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Next week is going to be incredible! 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