{"id":15657,"date":"2022-08-29T11:02:56","date_gmt":"2022-08-29T15:02:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=15657"},"modified":"2022-08-29T11:02:57","modified_gmt":"2022-08-29T15:02:57","slug":"break-your-triggers-to-be-the-irresistible-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/break-your-triggers-to-be-the-irresistible-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Break Your TRIGGERS To Be the Irresistible YOU!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Imagine you were in a conversation with someone where you felt upset, pressured, threatened or angry. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How would you normally respond?<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There was a time when I would get into arguments with people, over things that <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">didn\u2019t even matter the next day.<\/span><\/i> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I would be so sure that I was right\u2026<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2026there\u2019d be a big blow-up, and then\u2026 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2026I\u2019d just move on like they never existed. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>That worked for me &#8211; until it didn\u2019t. <\/b><b><br \/><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When I started to recognize how distant all of my relationships were and how impossible I was making it to get close enough to anyone to create an intimate, loving, supportive partnership &#8211; I knew something needed to change!<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Can you relate? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When our fear response is set off, our \u201creptilian brain\u201d kicks in and our human, automatic response is triggered. Hormones are released, the subconscious is activated and an emotional response ensues. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>And whatever you do when that situation arises is what you do &#8211; without even thinking about it. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You either:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>FIGHT<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; You lash out with criticism, bitterness, yelling and insults in an attempt to deal with the fear and hurt you\u2019re feeling. You have an \u201cadult temper tantrum\u201d and everyone has to know you\u2019re upset.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>FREEZE<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; You hold in your feelings and internalize your anger, eventually creating sickness in your body.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>FLEE<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; You withdraw, avoid and numb out your emotions.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What\u2019s your pattern when your triggers are set off? <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When this automatic pattern is triggered, you\u2019re not even aware of what\u2019s happening.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re not conscious that you could be doing things another way. You feel great in the moment, but then, when the adrenaline wears off &#8211; you have the emotional hangover that you don\u2019t know what to do with. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The thing is, there\u2019s something bigger underneath it all. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The pattern is simply the coping mechanism you developed as a child to deal with the pain, hurt and heartbreak and when those fears that are still present for you are triggered &#8211; your pattern goes off.<\/span><b><br \/><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>The thing about love and intimate relationships is that these patterns simply don\u2019t work. There\u2019s nothing men despise more than drama. <\/b><b><br \/><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What men want more than anything else is a woman who\u2019s <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotionally mature<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; even more than they want someone they\u2019re physically attracted to! <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>They want a woman who knows herself, knows her triggers and has learned how to handle her emotions with grace. <\/b><b><br \/><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The good news is there\u2019s a way you can break these patterns. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s possible to feel your feelings, communicate your needs AND show up the way you want to!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>It\u2019s not about perfection, it\u2019s about being able to get upset and handle it with grace. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you don\u2019t want to continue the patterns of your past, you get to create not just new ways &#8211; but <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">effective<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ways to do things differently. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want to attract a man who\u2019s a match for you, then you get to BE the woman that\u2019s going to attract that. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>This is why we\u2019re so passionate about you joining us at Irresistible Woman LIVE!<\/b><b><br \/><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Over the course of 3 days we\u2019ll be doing the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">HeartWork<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> necessary to release the pain of the past and give you the tools to be able to communicate and relate to yourself and others effectively! <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ll come out of the three-day weekend event KNOWING not only that you ARE an Irresistible Woman but also be able to show up as her in every area of your life! <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What\u2019s possible when you show up that way is literally incredible. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that\u2019s what we want for you! <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>There\u2019s only one more day &#8211; TODAY &#8211; to grab your ticket to Irresistible Woman LIVE PLUS all of the bonuses we\u2019re currently offering for $97. <\/b><b><br \/><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tonight at midnight Eastern time the price is going up and the bonuses are going away, so if you\u2019ve been on the fence &#8211; the time to act is <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">now<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/the-ultimate-love-bundle\/\"><b>Grab the Ultimate Love Bundle!<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have toxic patterns, you\u2019ll attract toxic men and create toxic relationships.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s just that simple.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you learn how to rewrite those patterns and show up as the graceful, beautiful, Irresistible Woman that you are &#8211; that\u2019s when the magic happens! 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