{"id":15925,"date":"2022-10-07T07:17:03","date_gmt":"2022-10-07T11:17:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=15925"},"modified":"2022-10-07T07:17:03","modified_gmt":"2022-10-07T11:17:03","slug":"from-confused-to-confident-the-key-to-trusting-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/from-confused-to-confident-the-key-to-trusting-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"From Confused to Confident: The Key to Trusting Yourself!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"s1\">Do you ever have a hard time deciding what to wear on a date, what to have for lunch or what to get a girlfriend for her birthday? <\/span><\/p>\n<p>What about bigger decisions like whether or not to apply for that promotion, what car to buy, or how you invest your money?<\/p>\n<p><b>For women who don\u2019t trust themselves, any decision, big or small, takes the same level of emotional energy.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><\/b><b>When you don\u2019t trust yourself, you will exhaust yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Does that sound familiar?<i>\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>How do you feel about making decisions for yourself (big or small)? <\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><i style=\"font-size: 17px;\">Do you feel like you often feel stuck, overthink, or 2nd guess your choices?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Life becomes so much easier when you can trust yourself to make the right decision for you!<\/p>\n<p><b>Learning to trust yourself boils down to your relationship with yourself. Strengthening your relationship with yourself will result in an easier time making decisions &#8211; decisions that work for you! <\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>So how do you do that??<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">The top two things you can do to strengthen your relationship with yourself are:\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<ol class=\"ol1\">\n<li class=\"li1\"><b><\/b><span class=\"s1\"><b>Accept every part of yourself.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Ask:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Do you 100% accept yourself?\u00a0<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>How fulfilled do you feel with your life?\u00a0<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>What do you wish was different?<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">If there\u2019s anything that you\u2019re not 100% accepting about yourself &#8211; you get to do the <\/span><i style=\"font-size: 17px;\">HeartWork<\/i><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"> to accept it. You can\u2019t trust someone who you don\u2019t love &#8211; so you get to love yourself first!<\/span><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<ol class=\"ol1\">\n<li class=\"li1\"><b><\/b><span class=\"s1\"><b>Forgive Yourself.<\/b><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Ask :<\/span><\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Is there anything you need to forgive yourself for?<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Are you holding something from the past over your head?\u00a0<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Did a past decision not turn out the way you hoped it would that you need to let go of?\u00a0<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p2\"><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">In order to make the best decisions you must weigh the choices that are in front of you and then make the decision that you think and feel will be best for you.<\/b><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The reason why you must accept and forgive yourself first is so that once you make the decision you can stand by it. You\u2019ll be able to\u00a0 trust that if things don\u2019t turn out the way you wanted that you\u2019ll make another decision in order to create the life that you want.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>The next time you have a decision in front of you that\u2019s weighing you down, ask yourself these questions: <br \/><\/b><\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>What\u2019s really having me sit on this decision?<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>What\u2019s missing that\u2019s causing me to not make a decision right now?\u00a0<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>What is it costing me emotionally to stay in indecision?\u00a0<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>What is it costing me physically?\u00a0<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>What do I need to accept about myself?\u00a0<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>What do I need to forgive myself for at this moment?\u00a0<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">When you\u2019re not making choices, you\u2019re always going to be missing a level of fulfillment in your life.<\/span><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re missing out, you\u2019ll regret choices you make or you\u2019ll never feel aligned with your values and vision you have for your life.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">As you transform the relationship you have with yourself and practice making strong decisions, your confidence will grow.<\/span><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Confidence breeds more confidence and that creates deeper levels of trust.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s really all there is to it.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you\u2019d like support with seeing where you may need to accept or forgive yourself, book a Love Breakthrough Call!<\/p>\n<p><\/b><b><\/b>On this call our coaches will ask you what your goals are, ask the right questions to uncover what is really getting in the way and then give you 2-3 next best steps to take so you can step out of confusion and into clarity and confidence!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/live.vcita.com\/site\/heartsdesireinternational\/online-scheduling?service=1c4bd3fa\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>C<\/b><span class=\"s2\"><b>lick here to book a Love Breakthrough Call!<\/b><\/span><span class=\"s2\"> <\/span><\/a>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz Do you ever have a hard time deciding what to wear on a date, what to have for lunch or what to get a girlfriend for her birthday? 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