{"id":16142,"date":"2022-10-21T12:12:03","date_gmt":"2022-10-21T16:12:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=16142"},"modified":"2022-10-21T12:12:03","modified_gmt":"2022-10-21T16:12:03","slug":"the-1-mistake-women-make-when-communicating-with-men-and-what-to-do-instead","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/the-1-mistake-women-make-when-communicating-with-men-and-what-to-do-instead\/","title":{"rendered":"The #1 Mistake Women Make When Communicating With Men and What To Do Instead!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"s1\">D<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">o you understand men?<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Or do you find yourself asking:<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What the @*!# was he thinking?<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Did he really just say that?<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why doesn&#8217;t he listen to me?<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you don&#8217;t feel seen, heard and understood when you&#8217;re communicating with your partner, and you&#8217;re wondering why you feel so disconnected, there&#8217;s a reason AND a solution!<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>AND this is not just for romantic relationships &#8211; this is important to remember in <\/b><b><i>all of your relationships with men<\/i><\/b><b> &#8211; fathers, brothers, and male colleagues at work.<\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b><br \/><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First&#8230; It&#8217;s not <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">personal<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. It&#8217;s <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">biological!<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Men aren&#8217;t just hairier, more muscular versions of women. (<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Surprise!<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">) <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&#8217;s a reason why women can multi-task and men need to focus on one thing at a time.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&#8217;s a reason why men jump in, interrupt and try to solve your problem before you&#8217;ve even shared what you wanted to say.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And there&#8217;s a reason why you get home from a date where you experienced so much fun and connection and then feel confused when he doesn&#8217;t ask you out again.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>It&#8217;s not a matter of intelligence or not caring. <\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b>Men are actually wired differently. <\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b><br \/><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And the differences in how they think, speak, and act can create major conflict and frustration in you and your relationship, as you feel like you can&#8217;t talk, communicate, or connect with each other. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The good news is that, even with all of these differences, <\/span><b>it IS possible to feel completely seen, heard, understood and loved by your man<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (and for him to feel the same way).<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is why we created the <\/span><b><i>Decoding Your Man<\/i><\/b><b> Masterclass &#8211; which is happening Saturday, October 22nd at 12pm EST<\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b><br \/><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/decodingyourman.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>If you haven&#8217;t registered yet, REGISTER HERE! <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our goal is for you to understand how the differences in our biology impact every level of our relationships, and how you can still feel <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">empowered<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to have better communication, deeper connection, and real, lasting intimacy with the man you love.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>It&#8217;s absolutely possible to share what you feel, think, and need in a way that leaves you BOTH feeling seen, heard, understood, and loved!<\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b>In this powerful masterclass, you&#8217;ll learn the <\/b><b><i>Decoding Your Man<\/i><\/b><b> Method and:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>The #1 mistake women make when communicating with men<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and what to do instead!<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Discover the differences between the way men\u2019s and women\u2019s brains are wired <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and how that impacts communication and romance with the opposite sex<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Learn the<\/span><b> keys to avoiding arguments and misunderstandings<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> so that you can create love and partnership in your relationship vs. working against each other<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unlock and <\/span><b>master the secrets to knowing <\/b><b>exactly<\/b><b> what to say and do<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> get the love and support you want from your partner<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to <\/span><b>create a happy, loving, passionate relationship<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that lasts for a lifetime!<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And so much <\/span><b>more<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span class=\"s1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The reason why he says &#8220;<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m busy<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8221; when you try to ask him a question while he&#8217;s working is because <\/span><b>men are wired to focus on one thing at a time<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.z<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The reason why he jumps in and interrupts you when you&#8217;re simply wanting to be listened to is because <\/span><b>he hears you&#8217;re in pain and wants to be your hero and solve your problem. <\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b><br \/><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And the reason why you have an incredible date but then don&#8217;t see him again is because while you were thinking about and assessing the entire date in the moment (<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and don&#8217;t tell us you don&#8217;t do that, hehe<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">) &#8211; <\/span><b>he was 100% focused on making sure the date was fun and enjoyable for you and then thought out those things <\/b><b><i>after<\/i><\/b><b>. <\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b><br \/><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is your mind blown? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We&#8217;ll be explaining so many more questions like these on Saturday and you&#8217;ll smile each time you hear yourself saying, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAha! That explains it!&#8221;<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s not just about knowing the facts and understanding why men do what they do. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s also about knowing how to dance with them by having the skills and knowing how to communicate in a way that sets you both up to win. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><b>If you want to learn how to communicate in a way so that you can be received and responded to in a healthy, supportive, loving and caring way, make sure to join us for the Decoding Your Man Masterclass by registering for FREE at the link below.<\/b><b><br \/><\/b><b><br \/><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/decodingyourman.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>Register for the Decoding Your Man Masterclass!<\/b><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz Do you understand men?Or do you find yourself asking:What the @*!# was he thinking?Did he really just say that?Why doesn&#8217;t he listen to me?If you don&#8217;t feel seen, heard and understood when you&#8217;re communicating with your partner, and you&#8217;re wondering why you feel so disconnected, there&#8217;s a reason AND a solution!AND this [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16144,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,5,6,12,13,16,17,20,21,22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16142","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-coaching","category-communication-2","category-dating-2","category-infidelity","category-intimacy-2","category-love-2","category-marriage","category-ready-to-love-again","category-relationship","category-relationship-advice"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16142","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16142"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16142\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16146,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16142\/revisions\/16146"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16144"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16142"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16142"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16142"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}