{"id":16677,"date":"2022-12-16T12:17:37","date_gmt":"2022-12-16T17:17:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=16677"},"modified":"2023-01-23T12:27:42","modified_gmt":"2023-01-23T17:27:42","slug":"how-to-boost-your-confidence-to-a-level-ten","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/how-to-boost-your-confidence-to-a-level-ten\/","title":{"rendered":"How to BOOST Your Confidence to a Level TEN!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; 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<\/b><b>your confidence gets shaken.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">And when you don\u2019t do the work to get to the <\/span><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">root<\/b><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"> of what has you continuing to create these experiences, there\u2019s a chain of consequences that follow\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">We call this chain the <\/b><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\"><i>Dysfunctional Dating Cycle<\/i><\/b><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">When something less than ideal happens and you say things to yourself like:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">\u201c<\/span><i style=\"font-size: 17px;\">How could I be so dumb?\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWhen am I going to stop attracting liars?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWhen am I ever going to get it right?<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">You create fears and love barriers which then has you create more of the same and your confidence and trust in yourself (and your ability to create the love you want) disintegrates.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">Here\u2019s what the Dysfunctional Dating Cycle looks like:<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Event<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You Make a Decision\/Judgment About What Happened<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love Barrier (Fear) is Created<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dysfunctional Pattern is Created (Actions)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You Get Results that You Don\u2019t Want<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You Make Another Decision\/Judgment About Yourself (Trust and Confidence is Eroded)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0Another Limiting Belief (Fear) is Created<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">And the cycle repeats itself over and over!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">Being in this cycle is what has you doubt yourself, not trust others, feel the need to \u201ctake a break\u201d from dating and more.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">So how do you shift this cycle and uplevel your confidence in yourself and others?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In order to stop the dysfunctional dating cycle and begin to experience yourself as the type of woman who can create what she wants in life and love, you must do the HeartWork!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">When you get the results you want &#8211; your confidence and trust in yourself goes up!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a01. <b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">See It<\/b><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"> &#8211; Acknowledge what\u2019s not working. Get to the root of what is having you continue to create the results you don\u2019t want.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">2. 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