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by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Do you ever wonder whether or not extraordinary love is possible for\u00a0<\/span>you?<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n Do you fear you\u2019ll never find someone who will\u00a0<\/span>see you, love you, hear you and want to share a life with you?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n If you answered yes to either of those questions, you\u2019re not alone and\u2026\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n I know how you feel because I felt the exact same way for\u00a0<\/span>years<\/span><\/i>.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n After my husband cheated on me and we got divorced, putting myself out in the dating game again was not only hard and terrifying –\u00a0it left me feeling doubtful and discouraged that I\u2019d ever find someone who would love me again.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n It wasn\u2019t until I discovered the secret I\u2019m going to share with you today that my love life, and whole life actually, were transformed.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n This secret isn\u2019t about doing something \u201c<\/span>more<\/span><\/i>\u201d or \u201c<\/span>better<\/span><\/i>\u201d than you\u2019ve done in the past.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n It points back to ONE fundamental thing and if you don\u2019t know how to create this ONE thing, it will lead you to 5, 10, 20 more years of not creating the love and life that you want.<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n When I look back at who I was and what my life looked like BEFORE I learned this secret and who I became and how my life transformed AFTER, it\u2019s like looking at 2 different lives!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n What it all boiled down to was this\u2026<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Really<\/span><\/i>\u00a0being IN the experience of being in love with myself.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n And not in a conceited, arrogant or entitled way.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n And not in a weekly massages and pedicures kind of way either.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Loving myself at a\u00a0deep, raw, true level\u00a0<\/strong>so that when I looked in the mirror, I didn\u2019t compare myself to my best friend or the actress on TV. I didn\u2019t wish my thighs were smaller or that my teeth were straighter.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n And when I looked myself in the eyes, I didn\u2019t wish I was funnier, smarter or more successful.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n I knew in my heart that I was enough, that I was love-able and that I would find someone else who felt the same.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n And once I became\u00a0<\/span>whole<\/span><\/i>\u00a0in that way –\u00a0<\/span>only then was I able to create something extraordinary with someone else.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n