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by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Are you finding yourself on an endless carousel of disappointing dates?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Are you attracting the wrong type of men, time and again?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Perhaps it’s not simply a matter of luck or circumstance, but of unconscious self-sabotage.<\/b><\/p>\n Sabotage is doing <\/span>anything<\/span><\/i> that\u2019s not aligned with what you say you desire.<\/span><\/p>\n The reason why it\u2019s <\/span>unconscious<\/span><\/i> is because you don\u2019t realize you\u2019re doing it! I\u2019m sure you don\u2019t wake up in the morning and think, \u201c<\/span>I can\u2019t wait to sabotage my day (or love life)!<\/span><\/i>\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Even so, the truth is – <\/span>you\u2019re always manifesting<\/b> something<\/i><\/b>, whether it\u2019s what you want or what you don\u2019t want.<\/b><\/p>\n And if you want to be in an extraordinary relationship, and you\u2019re not – something is getting in the way.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n Keep reading to explore three common self-saboteurs that might be hindering you from attracting the right man. Once you’re aware of these, you’ll be better equipped to make positive changes that can drastically improve your dating experiences.<\/span><\/p>\n Saboteur #1: Behaviors and Patterns<\/b><\/p>\n Since we said that most (if not all) self-sabotaging is unconscious, <\/span>the easiest way to know if you\u2019re self-sabotaging is to look at the <\/b>behaviors and patterns<\/i><\/b> that are not aligned with what you say you want.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n Do you tolerate disrespectful behavior?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Do you not set or maintain your values and boundaries?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Do you constantly put others’ needs before your own?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Do you notice you settle for whatever\u2019s showing up?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Do you get angry when a guy doesn\u2019t call you for a 2nd date?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Do you write someone off before giving yourself a chance to get to know them because they aren\u2019t tall enough, have been divorced or have kids?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Do you shut down and \u201ctake a break\u201d from dating (perhaps for longer than really necessary) after a disappointing dating experience?\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n These are all examples of behaviors that can sabotage your dating experiences that you may not recognize.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n Knowing what you want to experience inside the relationship of your dreams and BEing the woman who knows she can have it all supports you in transforming these behaviors and patterns that may be getting in the way.<\/span><\/p>\n When working to transform your actions it\u2019s important to look for what<\/span> thoughts <\/i><\/b>are underneath them and driving the behavior.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Saboteur #2: Limiting Beliefs and Fears<\/b><\/p>\n The #1 most significant and common self-saboteur is overlooking the thoughts that are sabotaging you. Your thoughts lead to your behavior which leads to the patterns you\u2019ve developed and the results you create.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n What you attract is an energetic match for what you <\/b>truly<\/i><\/b> believe.\u00a0 In other words, you attract what you are, not what you want.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n So, if you\u2019re carrying unresolved issues, harboring negativity, or stuck in unhealthy patterns, you\u2019re likely to attract individuals who mirror these same characteristics.<\/span><\/p>\n If you\u2019re afraid you\u2019re going to end up with a man who\u2019s controlling, that\u2019s probably exactly what you\u2019re attracting – controlling men.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n If you think all men are liars and cheaters, what will you attract? Men who don\u2019t follow through with what they say and aren\u2019t ready to commit.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Invest time in understanding and improving your thought patterns. If you\u2019d like support with distinguishing, dismantling and replacing sabotaging thoughts, schedule a Love Breakthrough Session!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n On this call we\u2019ll support you to discover the thoughts that are leading to the dating experiences you <\/span>don\u2019t <\/span><\/i>want so you can have a breakthrough and begin to create the results you desire!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n