{"id":17275,"date":"2023-07-20T11:35:48","date_gmt":"2023-07-20T15:35:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=17275"},"modified":"2023-07-20T11:35:50","modified_gmt":"2023-07-20T15:35:50","slug":"the-ultimate-guide-to-creating-a-winning-dating-mindset","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/the-ultimate-guide-to-creating-a-winning-dating-mindset\/","title":{"rendered":"The Ultimate Guide to Creating a Winning Dating Mindset"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366; font-size: 17px;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you want to be in the relationship of your dreams &#8211; with the man who\u2019s going to hold you, cherish you and enrich your life for the rest of his life? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Would you like to know the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">key<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to creating everything you want in love (and life!)?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>What we\u2019re sharing with you today is what will empower you to show-up as the woman you <\/b><b><i>truly<\/i><\/b><b> are and make it possible for you to create and experience the life and love you want most.\u00a0\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It impacts how you think, how you feel, how you interact with others, what you\u2019re able to make a difference with and what ultimately what you create in life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>The key to success in love (and life) is your <\/b><b>mindset<\/b><b>.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re experiencing a lack of power in a certain area of your life, it means that something\u2019s off with your mindset.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if your mindset isn\u2019t aligned with your vision or commitment, you\u2019ll self-sabotage.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s delve into the transformative power of mindset.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Uncover Your Beliefs, Desires and the Conflict Between Them<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you uncover and replace the limiting beliefs that hold you back from dating success, you\u2019re able to transform your mindset and the results you\u2019re experiencing in love.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Negative thoughts and beliefs undermine your self-worth and are what perpetuate self-sabotaging behaviors.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So get <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">curious<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Here\u2019s an exercise you can do to uncover your limiting beliefs and how they\u2019re stopping you from creating what you want in life and love<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grab a piece of paper and make three columns.\u00a0 <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At the top of the columns write these three headers\u2026\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My Belief: My Mindset Around Relationships<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My Desire: My Love Vision<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d\u00a0<\/span> and\u00a0 <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Conflict: What\u2019s Not Aligned<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Think about the thoughts you have. Really think about the words that come to your mind and out of your mouth when you ask yourself what you think is in the way of you creating love.\u00a0 &#8211; <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is it for you?\u00a0 &#8211; <\/span>Is it your weight? Family Conflicts? Health Issues? Your financial situation? Where you live? The fact that you have kids?\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After you write the belief in the first column, move over to the second column and write what it is you want to experience in this area of love.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take a step back and look at the belief and the desire and you\u2019ll be able to <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">clearly<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> see what the conflict is.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">The conflict is what\u2019s getting in the way of you creating the life you desire!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When I was single I had a real conflict around who I was and what I wanted. I was always seeking validation which had me become a chameleon who couldn\u2019t be authentic.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And even though I was creating success at work, receiving promotions and accolades and money &#8211; it was never enough.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And I attracted men into my life who were a match for that conflict. Men who were cheaters, who were lying to themselves (and me) about who they were and what they wanted and I didn\u2019t understand why.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once I did the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">HeartWork<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, I replaced these old belief patterns about not being enough or deserving of what I really wanted with empowering beliefs that were aligned with my Love Vision. I attracted the most incredible man I\u2019ve ever met, who\u2019s now my husband!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>It came down to healing the conflict that was underneath my limiting beliefs so I could stop having the experience that I was living someone else\u2019s life and create the full life and love I had imagined!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Decide You Are Responsible to Shift Your Mindset<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you uncover, see and understand the conflict, you must recognize yourself as the one responsible to shift it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No one else can do it for you!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have to be willing to do the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">HeartWork<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> necessary to distinguish, dismantle and replace the limiting beliefs so you can create a winning mindset!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These limiting beliefs usually are healed in layers, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">but that doesn\u2019t mean it has to take a long time.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Most women that work with us meet the man they end up marrying within 3-9 months of beginning their <\/b><b><i>HeartWork<\/i><\/b><b>.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s how fast you can make these shifts!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Creating a mindset that supports your growth and potential frees you and you become open and available for new possibilities!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You empower yourself to embrace fulfilling relationships that lead to the Relationship of Your Dreams!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here\u2019s the thing&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">In just a couple of months, summer will be over and you\u2019ll either have created the summer love that\u2019s everything you\u2019ve always wanted &#8211;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"> or you won\u2019t<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>But what if you could?\u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What if there was a <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fast<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> way to create your Love Vision?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is what\u2019s available to you when you grab the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/getreallovenow.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>Irresistible Bundle<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that\u2019s available now so you can join us at this year\u2019s Irresistible Woman LIVE!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here\u2019s what you get inside the bundle:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#x1f49c; 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