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by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Have you ever felt frustrated with dating?<\/span><\/p>\n We\u2019re going to guess the answer is a resounding yes because if you\u2019re like most of our clients, the process of dating isn\u2019t always easy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n You probably have a demanding career, a bustling social life and family responsibilities and you may have had the thought that \u201ctaking a break\u201d from dating seemed like a tempting respite.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Perhaps you\u2019ve thought:<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cI simply can\u2019t do this anymore.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n \u201cWhy is this so hard – this must not be God\u2019s plan for me!\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m not willing to put myself through this again!\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n \u201cMaybe I should pause and focus on healing myself first.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n The allure of focusing solely on personal growth and independence can be strong, but is stepping away from the dating scene <\/span>truly <\/span><\/i>the best course of action?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n There are many reasons why pausing isn\u2019t the answer.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n Continue reading for why you might want to reconsider taking a break from dating and what to do instead to embrace the journey of finding love.<\/span><\/p>\n What\u2019s underneath the desire to pause?<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n When you <\/span>really<\/span><\/i> think about it, are you wanting to put a stop to creating the relationship of your dreams?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n No! Of course you want to create the loving, kind companionship with the extraordinary man you dream of!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n The truth, is that you\u2019re wanting to pause the frustration, the pain, the yearning, and the feeling that it may never happen for you or that it\u2019s taking too long.<\/b><\/p>\n And if you\u2019re not attracting the type of men and dating experiences you desire\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n You don\u2019t have the necessary skills to succeed at dating or you have fears, limiting beliefs and things that need to be healed\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n The desire to take a break can be even stronger.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n I remember when I was in the process of dating and it got to the point where I thought, <\/span>\u201cI can\u2019t do this anymore!<\/span><\/i>\u201d I was so frustrated with not understanding <\/span>why<\/span> I was creating so much success in my career, as a mother and in all my other relationships but I couldn\u2019t get a man to want to be with me.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n It wasn\u2019t that I wanted to put away the possibility of being loved. <\/b>But I did wish I could stop experiencing the pain and heartache that came from not being able to create what I wanted or be loved the way I yearned to be loved.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n We focus our attention on the things we\u2019re good at because we don\u2019t want to experience discomfort.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n The thing is, it\u2019s not in the pause, but in the stretch that we grow!<\/b><\/p>\n So what have you been choosing as comfortable when you choose to pause? What is <\/span>really<\/span><\/i> underneath the desire to take a break?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n If you can connect with what you\u2019re choosing instead, <\/span>that is where the breakthrough lies!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Choosing Commitment over Comfort<\/b><\/p>\n When you take a pause from dating, you\u2019re choosing comfort over commitment and <\/span>actually works<\/span> against you!<\/span><\/i> When you take a pause you\u2019re literally training yourself to:<\/b><\/p>\n When you\u2019re in the pause – what\u2019s growing are your limiting beliefs, fears and doubts. The longer you pause, the longer you stay stuck and the more power you give to the very thing you don\u2019t want!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Taking a break from dating could also inadvertently lead to emotional withdrawal and guardedness. It’s essential to keep an open heart and remain receptive to the possibility of love. By staying in the dating scene, you increase your chances of finding that special someone who resonates with your values and aspirations<\/span>\u00a0<\/p>\n The truth is that you can have <\/b>everything<\/i><\/b> you want!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n If you want to experience extraordinary results in love, life, spirituality, finances – you can!!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n PLUS – You can heal AND date simultaneously!<\/b><\/p>\n Dating provides an opportunity to reassess and refine your expectations. While taking a break might offer temporary relief from romantic disappointments, it could also cement unrealistic ideals. Engaging in relationships allows you to confront your expectations, evolve, and cultivate a more balanced perspective on love and companionship.<\/span><\/p>\n As you keep shifting and transforming, you rise into the woman who will create the relationship of your dreams!<\/span><\/p>\n Nothing happens until you commit to it!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n When you continue to date while you rise, you stay in the commitment, you witness the changes that occur as you heal, stretch yourself beyond your comfort zone, and your results will be a reflection!\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n By taking action <\/span>every single day<\/span><\/i> toward your goal you create momentum. And that momentum is what provides the breakthroughs you need to create the relationship you dream of!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n The Next Step If You\u2019re Committed to Creating Love NOW!<\/b><\/p>\n If you\u2019re committed to creating the love of your life <\/span>this year<\/span><\/i> and you\u2019re ready to become the woman who will keep her heart in the game and stay committed every single day – <\/span>then you get to join us for this year\u2019s Irresistible Woman LIVE!\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n This 3-day event coming up in September is your opportunity to break through what\u2019s in your way when it comes to love and relationships, learn how to unlock your Irresistible Essence and gain the skills to create success in love now.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n You won\u2019t be the same person when you leave this event!<\/span><\/p>\n What you\u2019re going to learn, see and experience in that (virtual) room is something you don\u2019t want to miss!\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
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<\/span>Taking a break causes <\/span>more<\/span><\/i> frustration, <\/span>more<\/span><\/i> yearning, isn\u2019t healthy for your self-esteem and simply delays you being in the love that you want.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n\n