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by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Are you tired of wasting time on relationships that go nowhere? <\/span><\/i> But it doesn\u2019t have to be this way. <\/span> Sounds too good to be true? It\u2019s not. And we\u2019re going to show you how.<\/span><\/p>\n The Importance of Self-Awareness<\/b><\/p>\n First things first, you need to know <\/span>yourself<\/span><\/i>. Everything starts within, and even though it might sound clich\u00e9, the foundation of any successful relationship is a deep understanding of your own love vision and values.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n We define Love Vision as what you want to <\/span>experience<\/i><\/b> in the Relationship of Your Dreams.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n How do you want to <\/span><\/i>feel <\/span><\/i>when you\u2019re with your partner?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Do you want the relationship to feel connected, fun, and light? Are openness, passion, and intimacy things you want to experience? <\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n What types of activities will you <\/span><\/i>do<\/span><\/i> together?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Do you want to travel together? Do you want to read books and have intellectual discussions? Do you want to enjoy hiking in nature? Do you want to spend Friday nights cooking an incredible dinner together?\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n What <\/span><\/i>values<\/span><\/i> do you want to share?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n What\u2019s most important to YOU? Do you want to be with someone who values health and adventure? Are you wanting someone who wants to create a family?<\/span><\/p>\n This becomes the guidebook for what you want to experience in a relationship. The more clear you are, the quicker you\u2019ll draw it to you. The fuzzier you are, the more confusing your experience in dating will be. <\/b> Communication and Consistency<\/b><\/p>\n Now that you\u2019ve got a clear understanding of your <\/span>own<\/span><\/i> vision and values, it\u2019s time to communicate them and watch to see if someone is aligned. This isn\u2019t about presenting a checklist on the first date \u2013 that\u2019s a surefire way to scare anyone off!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Instead, it\u2019s about weaving your values into conversations naturally and giving yourself the opportunity to observe his behavior – which will inform you of his values.<\/b><\/p>\n Talk about what\u2019s important to you. Share your goals, dreams, and what you\u2019re passionate about. This not only gives you a chance to express your values, but it also provides an opportunity to gauge his reactions and responses.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Is he supportive? Does he share similar goals? Or is he dismissive and uninterested?<\/span><\/p>\n Actions Speak Louder Than Words. <\/b>Words are cheap. Anyone can say they value honesty, loyalty, and respect, but do their actions align with their words? This is where you need to be vigilant. Pay close attention to his behavior.<\/span><\/p>\n Does he follow through on his promises? How does he treat people around him \u2013 waitstaff, friends, family? Is he consistent in his actions, or does he say one thing and do another? These observations are crucial because they reveal his <\/span>true <\/span><\/i>character and values.<\/span><\/p>\n Consistency is Crucial. <\/b>One-time grand gestures are impressive, but they don\u2019t define a person\u2019s character. And at the same time, anyone can be nervous on a first date and not show you who they really are. <\/span> And values aren\u2019t about \u201cright\u201d or \u201cwrong\u201d. They\u2019re simply about what matters to YOU and what YOU want. Everything he does (or doesn\u2019t do) is good information to have as you move toward knowing who\u2019s the perfect match for you.<\/span><\/p>\n Alignment and BE-ing Your Love Vision and Values.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n This is where you get to BE what you want to experience. <\/span> If you want to experience openness, fun and laughter in the Relationship of Your Dreams, who are you BE-ing to bring those feelings into your dating experiences and relationships?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Before each and every encounter you have with men, anchor yourself in your Love Vision.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n Read your Love Vision every time before going on the dating app.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Get yourself into the energy of your Love Vision before you go on a date.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Envision in your mind what your Love Vision looks like before you come home to your husband.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n The more aligned you are going into each experience with men, the more you\u2019ll be able to assess compatibility and create what you want to experience!<\/b><\/p>\n Final Thoughts<\/span><\/p>\n Finding a man who matches your love vision and values isn\u2019t about luck \u2013 it\u2019s about clarity, communication, and keen observation. By understanding your own values, clearly communicating them, observing his actions and consistency, and BEing what you want to experience in the relationship –\u00a0 <\/span>you can confidently determine if someone is the right match for you.<\/b><\/p>\n Where can you see your vision and values creating your Yes\u2019s and No\u2019s in dating?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n How can you lean more into your Love Vision to know your metric for what you want to experience?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n By following these steps, you\u2019ll empower yourself to make informed decisions about your love life, ensuring you spend your time and energy on a relationship that\u2019s truly worth it!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n This is just the beginning! <\/b>We\u2019ll be going even deeper into this topic during the Manifest Your Love Vision NOW Challenge!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
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<\/span>Do you find yourself constantly questioning if the man you\u2019re with truly aligns with your vision and values? <\/span><\/i>
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<\/span>If you\u2019re nodding your head right now, you\u2019re not alone. <\/b>Many women find themselves stuck in the cycle of uncertainty, wasting precious time and emotional energy on men who don\u2019t meet their standards.<\/span><\/p>\n
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<\/span>Dating becomes FUN and EASY when you can <\/b>confidently and quickly <\/i><\/b>determine if a man is a match for your Love Vision and values.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
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<\/b>Self-awareness is your compass.<\/b> It guides you in the right direction and helps you recognize when something (or someone) is off course. Take some time to reflect on your past relationships. What worked? What didn\u2019t? What values did you compromise on, and how did that make you feel? Write these down. This exercise isn\u2019t just about identifying deal-breakers; it\u2019s about understanding what makes you<\/span> thrive<\/span><\/i> in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n
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<\/span>Consistency over time is what you should be looking for. Give yourself time to see if someone is aligned.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
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<\/span>If you say health is a top value of yours, what do you do to show it?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n