{"id":2023,"date":"2013-02-22T12:23:36","date_gmt":"2013-02-22T17:23:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=2023"},"modified":"2013-02-22T12:23:36","modified_gmt":"2013-02-22T17:23:36","slug":"how-to-succeed-in-love-too","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/how-to-succeed-in-love-too\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Succeed in Love, Too!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #cc99ff;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Business-Woman-with-thumbs-up_FDP_ID-10049485.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2024 aligncenter\" alt=\"Business Woman with thumbs up_FDP_ID-10049485\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Business-Woman-with-thumbs-up_FDP_ID-10049485.jpg\" width=\"138\" height=\"208\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Why is it that some of the most successful, powerful women struggle when it comes to relationships?\u00a0 Whether it\u2019s the CEO who can\u2019t seem to make time to date or the entrepreneur who is a pro at networking and getting new clients, but can\u2019t seem to connect with her husband, there are certain characteristics and behaviors that successful women bring into relationships that just <em><strong>don\u2019t work<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Now, let me be clear (because I\u2019m <em>sure<\/em> some of you just got triggered by that last sentence!), I\u2019m <strong>not<\/strong> saying that in order to have a successful relationship you can\u2019t be successful in your career or business.\u00a0 What I am saying is that some of the actions we take in the workplace that propel us to higher levels of success <em><strong>simply do not work<\/strong><\/em> when it comes to building an intimate, passionate romantic relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Why?\u00a0 Because the goals we have in business and the goals for romance are completely different!<\/p>\n<p>At work, we are focused on making the sale, finishing the project, meeting the bottom line, and getting others to help us do that by letting them know what needs to be done, by when, and how it must be done.\u00a0 If not, there are consequences to pay, including demotions, getting written up, or getting fired.<\/p>\n<p>Now take that same attitude of mind into a relationship, and now you\u2019re telling your date, husband or boyfriend, when he needs to do, by when, and how\u2026 And, by the way, there will be hell to pay if it\u2019s not done your way and by the time you expected it!<\/p>\n<p>So, what can a woman do so that she can experience success in <b><i>both <\/i><\/b>her work life and her love life? \u00a0Watch this video of an interview between Dawn Maslar of LearnHowtoFindLove.com and me, where we discuss the challenges that successful women face and what we can do to transition from being \u201cThe Invincible Woman\u201d at work and \u201cThe <i>Irresistible <\/i>Woman\u201d in our love lives!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.spreecast.com\/events\/learn-how-to-find-lovecom-gladys-diaz\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Video Snapshot\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Video-Snapshot.jpg\" width=\"498\" height=\"336\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Image courtesy of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.freedigitalphotos.net\/images\/Business_People_g201-Business_Women_Showing_Thumbsup_p49485.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">FreeDigitalPhotos.net<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz Why is it that some of the most successful, powerful women struggle when it comes to relationships?\u00a0 Whether it\u2019s the CEO who can\u2019t seem to make time to date or the entrepreneur who is a pro at networking and getting new clients, but can\u2019t seem to connect with her husband, there are [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,9,13,16,17,22,23],"tags":[47,57,63,68,70,87,90,105],"class_list":["post-2023","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating-2","category-hdi-blog","category-intimacy-2","category-love-2","category-marriage","category-relationship-advice","category-romance","tag-dating","tag-hearts-desire-international","tag-intimacy","tag-love","tag-marriage-2","tag-relationship-advice-2","tag-romance-2","tag-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2023","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2023"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2023\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2023"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2023"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2023"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}