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by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cI think I\u2019m just not made out to be in a relationship.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201cI\u2019ve decided that I\u2019m okay not being in a relationship.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201cMaybe there really isn\u2019t someone out there for me.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201cI don\u2019t know.\u00a0 Maybe I\u2019m just meant to be alone.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

Last week, I had no less than 4 single women tell me statements like the ones above. With that many women expressing the same thing to me in one week, I have to believe that there are more out there with the same thoughts.\u00a0 And, if you\u2019re one of them, I feel it\u2019s my responsibility to set you straight<\/i> and let you know that you were created for love<\/i><\/b>!<\/p>\n

Now, I realize that there are many different types of love \u2013 love among family members and friends, love for humanity, and love for our pets.\u00a0 But I am referring specifically to romantic love.\u00a0 Yes, there are people in the world who choose<\/i> to live a life devoid of romantic love \u2013 priest, nuns, and others who have chosen to dedicate their life to their ministry, for instance.\u00a0 But if you want <\/i>to be in a romantic relationship and dream of being loved, cherished, and adored for a lifetime, trust that that the dream and desire were placed there from the moment you were created and that it is your birthright to experience the joy of loving and being loved every day of your life.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you\u2019ve had some bad experiences with love. Maybe you\u2019ve had your heart broken a few too many times.\u00a0 Or it could be that you end up attracting really great guys, but then \u201csomething happens,\u201d and what used to be a happy, romantic, and fulfilling relationship turns into constant fighting and bickering, and, suddenly, all you can see the guy who once took your breath away are all of the little things that you don\u2019t like, the habits that get on your nerves, and the faults you swore you\u2019d never put up with in a relationship.<\/p>\n

If any of this is resonating, it could be that, while you desire to be in a loving, fulfilling relationship, you\u2019re also self-sabotaging yourself out of one.\u00a0 Don\u2019t beat yourself up about it.\u00a0 Almost every single woman has experienced the consequences of self-sabotage at least once in her life.<\/p>\n

We say that we want to date and find the man who is our every dream come true, but, rather than go to the party or singles mixer, we choose to stay home, watch TV, and live romance vicariously through someone else\u2019s pretend life.<\/p>\n

We say we want open and honest communication with a man who is trusting and trustworthy, but we keep being attracted to men who lie, cheat, or seem emotionally unavailable.<\/p>\n

We say we want to be in a relationship with a great guy who makes time for us, wants to make us happy and wants a commitment, and then, when we find him, he begins to seem \u201ctoo nice,\u201d not exciting enough, or too clingy.<\/p>\n

Why is it that we sabotage ourselves out of the very thing we say we want most?<\/p>\n

1.<\/strong> Fear.<\/b>\u00a0 Some of us are so afraid that we won\u2019t get the love we want that we close ourselves off, shut men out, and prevent love from finding its way to us.\u00a0 Or, when we finally find ourselves in a great relationship, we think it\u2019s either too good to be true or it won\u2019t last, so we keep looking for evidence of everything that\u2019s not right, won\u2019t work or won\u2019t last, and we end the relationship before it even begins.\u00a0 Rather than letting your fears get the best of you and choose for you, step out in faith.\u00a0 While it\u2019s true that there is always an element of risk when it comes to love, opening your heart up and allowing love to find its way to you could lead to experiencing the love your heart desires.\u00a0 Believe that not only is finding love possible, but that it\u2019s possible for you<\/i><\/b>! Let your faith be bigger than your fear!<\/p>\n

2. Feelings of Unworthiness. \u00a0<\/b>Maybe, along with your fear there is a belief that you don\u2019t really deserve <\/i>the happiness and love you desire.\u00a0 Perhaps you\u2019ve never truly loved and accepted yourself \u2013 every part of you \u2013 even the parts you don\u2019t really like. Or maybe you\u2019ve done something for which you haven\u2019t forgiven yourself.\u00a0 Or perhaps you feel like you messed up the relationship with the guy who was \u201cThe One.\u201d No matter what you\u2019ve done, what has happened, or what mistakes may have been made, we live in a world that is overflowing with love, and you were created to give, receiving, and experience love.\u00a0 Believe that you are worthy of love.\u00a0 If you want to take a 30-day journey to discovering self love, read our book 30 Days and 30 Ways to Fall In Love with YOU! <\/i>\u00a0On each day of the journey, you will be taken through a reflection or activity and be given a new affirmation that will bring you closer to falling in love with yourself, which is the access to attracting love into your life.<\/p>\n

3. Negative and Limiting Beliefs.\u00a0 <\/b>If you have negative or limiting beliefs about men or relationships, it\u2019s possible that you are blocking the love you say you want.\u00a0 Thinking that there aren\u2019t any good men left, that men are dishonest or incapable of committing, or believing that relationships are hard or not worth the effort or that they never last doesn\u2019t serve you.\u00a0 Why would anyone want to experience heartache, disappointment, and lack of fulfillment on purpose<\/i>?\u00a0 It\u2019s time to turn those negative beliefs into positive affirmations.\u00a0 Instead of thinking about all of the things you don\u2019t <\/i>want to experience in a relationship, begin thinking writing, and speaking about the things you do <\/i>want.\u00a0 Soon, you will begin to attract those very things into your life and enjoy the love and happiness that are your birthright<\/em>!<\/p>\n

Some of these things may sound easier said than done.\u00a0 And it\u2019s true that sometimes the hardest thing is getting out of our own way. However, you don\u2019t have to do this alone.\u00a0 Working with a relationship coach is one of the best ways to get clear about what you want, what\u2019s been stopping you from having it, and the actions you need to take to get the results that you want.\u00a0 If you are ready to begin attracting the love that you deserve and desire into your life contact us. Helping women experience the love their hearts desire is our mission and purpose and we\u2019d love to work with and empower you with the skills to live the life and love you want!<\/p>\n

Questions?\u00a0 Comments?\u00a0 Let us know.\u00a0 We love hearing from you!<\/p>\n

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