{"id":2168,"date":"2013-04-01T11:49:05","date_gmt":"2013-04-01T16:49:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=2168"},"modified":"2013-04-01T11:49:05","modified_gmt":"2013-04-01T16:49:05","slug":"the-only-thing-standing-in-the-way-of-your-dreams-is-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/the-only-thing-standing-in-the-way-of-your-dreams-is-you\/","title":{"rendered":"The Only Thing Standing in the Way of Your Dreams is YOU!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #cc99ff;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/woman-gesturing-to-stop_FDP_ID-10072075.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-2169\" alt=\"woman gesturing to stop_FDP_ID-10072075\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/woman-gesturing-to-stop_FDP_ID-10072075.jpg\" width=\"320\" height=\"213\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You want to be in a loving, passionate relationship. You have read books and blogs, attended courses, envisioned, wished, hoped, and prayed for the man of your dreams to walk into your life. You want to share your life &#8211; the successes, the pitfalls, and the ordinary moments &#8211; with a man who loves and accepts you for who you are.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So what\u2019s standing in your way?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>You<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s your own fears, your doubts, the thoughts that you try not to pay attention to &#8211; the ones that tell you:<\/p>\n<p><i>\u201cYou don\u2019t deserve it. You\u2019re not meant to be in a relationship. It\u2019s too late. You\u2019re too old. You\u2019ve gone through too much. You\u2019re okay on your own.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the disempowering thoughts that have you feel happy for your friend when she announces that she\u2019s met a great guy or she\u2019s getting married while at the same time make you wonder why it can happen for her, but not for you.<\/p>\n<div>It\u2019s the belief that being in a great relationship has to do with being \u201clucky\u201d rather than being ready. That it has to do with something<i> outside <\/i>of yourself, rather than something<i> you <\/i>create and attract into your life.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m here to let you know that all of those thoughts, fears, and doubts may\u00a0<i> feel<\/i><\/div>\n<div>\n<div><i>real<\/i>, but they\u2019re<b> not<\/b>. They are just your mind\u2019s way of keeping you stuck where you are &#8211; alone, disillusioned, and terrified that you\u2019re really not going to ever have the love your heart desires.<\/p>\n<p>See, it feels safer to stay where you are than it does to take a risk and put your heart out there again. It seems easier to say you\u2019d rather be alone than to admit that you\u2019d actually like to share your life.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s<i> much <\/i>easier to place the blame and responsibility of your current circumstances on the ideas that there aren\u2019t any good men out there, that you\u2019re just not \u201crelationship material,\u201d or that it\u2019s better not to get married because people just end up divorced anyway than to honor your desire to be in a romantic, intimate relationship where you get to experience the joy of loving and being loved every day for the rest of your life.So your mind helps protect you from the possibility of being hurt or disappointed.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>The questions you want to ask yourself are:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Just how much longer are you willing to put your happiness and your dreams on hold?<\/p>\n<p>How much longer are you going to choose feeling safe over the joy of feeling loved?<\/p>\n<p>Just how long are you willing to stay where you are?<\/p>\n<p>How much longer are you willing to let your fear control you?<\/p>\n<div>If you\u2019re <strong><em>tired<\/em><\/strong> of being stuck, you\u2019re ready to take a bold and courageous step toward creating the life and relationship of <em><strong>your dreams<\/strong><\/em>, and your answer to these questions is<b><i> \u201cNot a minute longer!\u201d<\/i><\/b>then join us tonight, Monday, April 1, 2013, from 8:00 &#8211; 10:30 p.m. for a<a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/events-workshops-2\/\"> FREE Orientation Call about the upcoming \u201cAttract and Marry the Man Who\u2019s Right for You\u201d 1-Day Workshop<\/a> that is taking place this Saturday, April 6th.<\/p>\n<p>On this call you will have the opportunity to hear the<b> testimonials <\/b>of women who have met their boyfriends and husbands as a result of having participated in the workshop.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019ll also be talking about what you will discover at the workshop, including how to:<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Stop hunting and start <i>attracting<\/i> the right man<\/li>\n<li>Ask men to ask you out so that you\u2019re never without a date<\/li>\n<li>Become your best self and attract men at your level<\/li>\n<li>Enjoy the pleasure of being pursued<\/li>\n<li>Make every date fun<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div>This is<b><i> your <\/i><\/b>life,<b><i> your <\/i><\/b>love story.<b><i>\u00a0 You <\/i><\/b>get to have a say in how goes! And we\u2019re here to support and guide you!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/events-workshops-2\/\">Register here<\/a> to join us tonight for the FREE Orientation Call tonight and get ready to start creating and living you\u2019re very own happily ever after!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Comments? Questions?\u00a0 Let us know below!\u00a0 We love hearing from you!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<p>Image courtesy of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.freedigitalphotos.net\/images\/Emotions_g96-Blonde_Female_Hide_Her_Face_p72075.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">FreeDigitalPhotos.net<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz You want to be in a loving, passionate relationship. You have read books and blogs, attended courses, envisioned, wished, hoped, and prayed for the man of your dreams to walk into your life. 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