{"id":2173,"date":"2013-04-05T11:05:06","date_gmt":"2013-04-05T16:05:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=2173"},"modified":"2013-04-05T11:05:06","modified_gmt":"2013-04-05T16:05:06","slug":"how-to-have-the-love-you-dream-of","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/how-to-have-the-love-you-dream-of\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Have the Love You Dream Of!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #cc99ff;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Have-the-Love-of-Your-Dreams_FDP_ID-10075140.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-2174\" alt=\"Have the Love of Your Dreams_FDP_ID-10075140\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Have-the-Love-of-Your-Dreams_FDP_ID-10075140.jpg\" width=\"213\" height=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>One of the first questions I ask a woman who I\u2019m speaking to for the first time is, <i>\u201cWhat do you want?\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Typically, if the woman is single, she\u2019ll respond that she wants to be in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>If she\u2019s already in a relationship or married, she\u2019ll say she wants to have a good relationship with her boyfriend or husband.<\/p>\n<p>Sounds pretty clear, right?\u00a0 <b><i>Wrong<\/i><\/b>!<\/p>\n<p>Saying that you want to be in a relationship is to general, too broad.\u00a0 Do you want to be in just <i>any <\/i>relationship?\u00a0 For example, do you want to be in a relationship where you\u2019re always wondering whether or not he really loves you, whether you can trust him, and whether the relationship is going anywhere permanent? Or do you want to be in a relationship where you know every moment of every day that the man you love loves, cherishes, and wants to be with you and <i>only <\/i>you?<\/p>\n<p>Even saying that you want to have a good relationship isn\u2019t clear enough, either.\u00a0 What does \u201cgood\u201d mean, for you?\u00a0 Does it mean simply not fighting?\u00a0 I\u2019ve worked with women who live in a \u201cpeaceful\u201d household, simply because she and her husband rarely look at or speak to one another.\u00a0 Plus, why settle for \u201cgood,\u201d when you can have \u201camazing,\u201d \u201cunbelievable,\u201d and \u201cextraordinary\u201d love?<\/p>\n<p>When you think about what you want when it comes to relationships, you need to be <b><i>crystal-clear<\/i><\/b>.\u00a0 Now, this doesn\u2019t mean that you create a 100-point check system, where the man you\u2019re with has to meet all of the listed criteria.\u00a0 In fact, this has <b><i>nothing <\/i><\/b>to do with the man!\u00a0 It has to do with what you want to <b><i>experience<\/i><\/b> in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>So, how do you get crystal-clear about the experience you want to have in the relationship?<\/p>\n<p><b>1. Admit you want to be in a loving relationship.<\/b>\u00a0 This one\u2019s for the single ladies <em>and\u00a0 <\/em>those who are in a relationship that\u2019s not quite where you\u2019d like it to be right now.\u00a0 Too many women claim that they are \u201cfine\u201d without being in a loving relationship. And they probably are.\u00a0 But, if you\u2019re like me, I want <em>more<\/em> than just a \u201cfine\u201d life.\u00a0 I want an amazing, extraordinary life that includes the experience of loving and being loved by someone <em>every day<\/em> of it!\u00a0 Admitting that you want to be loved does not make you weak or any less capable or powerful. It just makes you human!\u00a0 So, go ahead! Admit that you want to be loved, desired, and adored!<\/p>\n<p>2. <b>Create a vision of the experience you want to have in the relationship.<\/b>\u00a0 It isn\u2019t enough to use words like, \u201cgood,\u201d \u201chappy,\u201d or \u201cfun.\u201d\u00a0 What does good, happy, and fun <b><i>look like<\/i><\/b>, <b><i>sound like<\/i><\/b>, and <b><i>feel like<\/i><\/b>?\u00a0 How do you feel when you\u2019re together? What is the visible evidence of your happiness, excitement, and connection?\u00a0 Have fun with this!\u00a0 It\u2019s your vision, your dream, your love story!\u00a0 Go as big and as bold as you want!\u00a0 The great news is that it\u2019s completely yours to create and manifest, so make sure you\u2019re inspired by your vision!<\/p>\n<p><b>3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/b><b>Share your vision with others.\u00a0 <\/b>The relationship of your dreams shouldn\u2019t be the world\u2019s best-kept secret!\u00a0 If you want to begin living that experience you\u2019ve created, tell people about it.\u00a0 Choose 2-3 people who you trust and who will pull for and stand for you to have that.\u00a0 People who love you want to see you happy. Let them know about the happiness you want to experience in a romantic relationship.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00a0<\/b>This is just <em>the beginning<\/em> of the type of work we do with our clients.\u00a0 There\u2019s a much deeper process that includes removing the fears, doubts, and limiting beliefs that are standing in the way of you actually <i>believing <\/i>that this kind of relationship is possible and that <b><i>it\u2019s possible for you<\/i><\/b>!<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re single, and you live in the S. Florida area, then you\u2019re in luck, because we\u2019ll be going deep into this exercise tomorrow, Saturday, April 6<sup>th<\/sup>, at the <a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/1-day-workshop\/\">\u201cAttract &amp; Marry the Man Who\u2019s Right for You\u201d 1-Day Workshop<\/a>.\u00a0 We\u2019ll be removing all of the invisible barriers standing between you and <b>the love you want to experience <i>every day<\/i> for the <i>rest of your life<\/i><\/b>!\u00a0 We\u2019ll be replacing those fears with empowering beliefs, affirmations, real-life practices, and new and empowering habits that will take you from where you are to the relationship of your dreams!<\/p>\n<p>For more information about the workshop and to register (there are still a few seats left), just click <a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/1-day-workshop\/\">here<\/a> <b>NOW<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>Girlfriends, and wives, don\u2019t worry! Your workshop is coming soon! Make sure to subscribe to receive our <a href=\"http:\/\/www.heartsdesireintl.com\/\">newsletter<\/a> so that you don\u2019t miss out on the workshop that will take your existing relationship from where it is to a whole new level of amazing!<\/p>\n<p><b>Bottom line:<\/b> You <b><i>deserve<\/i><\/b> to experience the love your heart desires, but you\u2019ve got to be crystal-clear about what that is.\u00a0 So, admit you want it, envision it, share it, and soon you\u2019ll be <b><i>living it<\/i><\/b>!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s to a future filled with breath-taking, amazing and extraordinary love!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Questions? Comments?\u00a0 Let us know below! We love hearing from you!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Image courtesy of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.freedigitalphotos.net\/images\/CouplesPartners_g216-Affectionate_Man_Kissing_His_Lady_p75140.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">FreeDigitalPhotos.net<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz One of the first questions I ask a woman who I\u2019m speaking to for the first time is, \u201cWhat do you want?\u201d Typically, if the woman is single, she\u2019ll respond that she wants to be in a relationship. If she\u2019s already in a relationship or married, she\u2019ll say she wants to have [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,9,13,16,17,19,22,23],"tags":[47,56,57,63,68,70,87,90,105],"class_list":["post-2173","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating-2","category-hdi-blog","category-intimacy-2","category-love-2","category-marriage","category-parenting-2","category-relationship-advice","category-romance","tag-dating","tag-happiness","tag-hearts-desire-international","tag-intimacy","tag-love","tag-marriage-2","tag-relationship-advice-2","tag-romance-2","tag-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2173","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2173"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2173\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2173"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2173"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2173"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}