{"id":2340,"date":"2013-06-11T06:45:48","date_gmt":"2013-06-11T11:45:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=2340"},"modified":"2013-06-11T06:45:48","modified_gmt":"2013-06-11T11:45:48","slug":"how-to-let-him-know-youre-interested-without-pursuing-him","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/how-to-let-him-know-youre-interested-without-pursuing-him\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Let Him Know You’re Interested Without Pursuing Him"},"content":{"rendered":"

by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n

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My question has to do with online dating. \u00a0After writing to a man 2 or 3 times he wanted to get together, and I suggested the next week, not as soon as he offered. \u00a0He said he would be gone on a trip to Greece for 1 month, and that we could get together after that. \u00a0 Four days after he is due to return my membership is over. \u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I would like to email him on the website and tell him this, so that we make the plan to meet very soon – or connect by phone. \u00a0Does this constitute chasing him? \u00a0Is it better to just wait for him to contact me – or even pay to keep my membership one more month?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Normally, I would tell you to wait to see whether he contacts you after he gets back from Greece.\u00a0 If he\u2019s still interested in seeing you then, he will contact you.\u00a0 I\u2019m wondering why there wouldn\u2019t be any communication during his trip (unless Internet access is going to be an issue).\u00a0 If he does contact you during his trip, that would be a perfect opportunity to let him know that you just realized that your membership expires right after he returns, so he can contact you via email if he\u2019d still like to get together.\u00a0 This way, you\u2019re letting him know how to contact you, and the choice about whether or not to initiate another date lies with him.<\/p>\n

In the meantime, you still have about a month of membership time left, so continue connecting with other men, accepting other dates and having fun while he\u2019s away. \u00a0There\u2019s no guarantee that he will contact you when he returns so it\u2019s up to you to continue sending the message to the world that you are available for the man who\u2019s perfect for you to find and contact you! And remember to smile and flirt and get to know people in person, as well. The more open you are to meeting the right person for you, the more likely you are to attract him to you!<\/p>\n

Regarding your question about whether or not to pay to keep your membership one more month, that\u2019s completely up to you.\u00a0 While I wouldn\u2019t recommend keeping it open as a way to ensure that this one guy will contact you, I would recommend it as a way to continue attracting potential beaus into your life.\u00a0 As I mentioned above, the more open and receptive you are to meeting and getting to know new men, accepting invitations to go out, and having fun while dating, the more likely you are to attract to yourself the man and the relationship of your dreams!<\/p>\n

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Comments?\u00a0 Questions?\u00a0 Let us know!\u00a0 We love hearing from you!<\/p>\n

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