{"id":2392,"date":"2013-06-20T17:52:47","date_gmt":"2013-06-20T22:52:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=2392"},"modified":"2013-06-20T17:52:47","modified_gmt":"2013-06-20T22:52:47","slug":"will-i-ever-truly-be-loved","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/will-i-ever-truly-be-loved\/","title":{"rendered":"“Will I Ever Truly be Loved?”"},"content":{"rendered":"

by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n

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As a health coach myself, I don’t seem to be able to break the fear of never being truly cherished, like all women want to be. I can effectively coach others in health and spiritual issues,\u00a0but I have a difficult time\u00a0trusting myself in the romantic love area. This has especially been the case since a relationship that was going strong fizzled within a couple days. I thought I was practicing the surrendered single philosophy with this man, to no avail.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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Thanks for being so vulnerable in asking your question.\u00a0 The fact that you are a coach and able to get people to being taking steps to create healthier lives probably makes it easier for you to understand that a lot of what stops us from having what we really want in our lives is fear.\u00a0 And, 99 percent of the time, the things we fear are not real.\u00a0 Many times, they are based on our past and on what we have already experienced, and we tend to project those experiences into our future.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you are<\/b> already love-able<\/b> \u2013 able to love and be loved.\u00a0 If you can distinguish what it is that you are actually afraid of, then you can see it for what it is \u2013 nothing but a thought \u2013 and you can choose to either honor it or not honor it.<\/p>\n

So, what is it that you are afraid of?<\/strong>\u00a0 You mention that you\u2019re afraid of never truly being cherished.\u00a0 The first question I\u2019d like you to ask yourself is whether there is something about yourself that you have not yet brought love, forgiveness and acceptance to.\u00a0 You know, as a health coach, that not bringing love, forgiveness, or acceptance to parts of our bodies can cause us to make choices that actually harm our bodies, even if we say <\/i>that we want to be healthy.\u00a0 So, is there something about yourself \u2013 physically or emotionally \u2013 that you\u2019ve not yet embraced or accepted?\u00a0 Is it something you\u2019re afraid that the man you are with will see or discover and not accept?\u00a0 If so, are you willing to bring love and acceptance to that part of you now so that you can begin to invite love into your life?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You also mention that you don\u2019t trust yourself when it comes to love and romance.\u00a0 The first thing this made me think of is whether you made a choice in the past that you now regret.\u00a0 Many times, when we think that we haven\u2019t made very good choices when it comes to relationships, it\u2019s because we weren\u2019t willing to listen to and trust our intuition in a previous relationship.\u00a0 Perhaps we ignored the red flags that were letting us know that the guy wasn\u2019t someone who we could trust.<\/strong> Perhaps we didn\u2019t want to listen if he said that he wasn\u2019t interested in being in a committed relationship, and we kept holding on, in hopes that he would change his mind.\u00a0 Or perhaps we continue to attract men who are not available or unwilling to commit or be faithful.<\/p>\n

Regardless of the choices you made in the past, it\u2019s important that you, again, forgive yourself and not make yourself wrong or beat yourself up for having made those choices.\u00a0 Forgive yourself, take the lessons that you learned from those experiences, and remember them as you move toward inviting new love into your life.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

You mentioned a relationship that fizzled after a few days.\u00a0 I\u2019m wondering whether this was someone with whom you were in an actual committed relationship, or someone who you were just dating.\u00a0 Regardless of the answer, if it fizzled that quickly, chances are that he wasn\u2019t the right guy for you, so it\u2019s better that you learned that early on. I know it doesn\u2019t minimize the pain you may feel now, but it\u2019s better than having invested months, or even years, in a relationship that was not going to result in a lifetime love.\u00a0 So, again, take the lessons you learned, be grateful for them, and be courageous enough to open your heart to the possibility of inviting someone new into your life.<\/strong>\u00a0 And continue practicing the surrendered singles principles to attract to yourself the man who is <\/i>right for you!<\/p>\n

Bottom line: You were created<\/i> to love and be loved.\u00a0<\/strong> Don\u2019t buy into the story that you\u2019re not meant to experience that.\u00a0 If there is a fear or doubt in the way, you know the power of coaching, so work with a coach to get those fears distinguished, dismantled, and out of the way so that you can begin to enjoy the experience of being in the relationship your heart desires!<\/p>\n

Questions?\u00a0 Comment?\u00a0 Let us know below! We love hearing from you!<\/p>\n

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