{"id":2533,"date":"2013-07-30T14:06:40","date_gmt":"2013-07-30T18:06:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=2533"},"modified":"2013-07-30T14:06:40","modified_gmt":"2013-07-30T18:06:40","slug":"how-to-let-love-in","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/how-to-let-love-in\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Let Love In"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #800080;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Let-Love-In2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-2534\" alt=\"Let Love In2\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Let-Love-In2.jpg\" width=\"320\" height=\"214\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>A resounding theme keeps popping up in my Inbox, conversations with clients, and even on TV shows.\u00a0\u00a0The theme is courage.<\/p>\n<p>Any time we want to create something new in our lives &#8211; whether it&#8217;s transitioning to a new career, moving to a new home, or taking on a new goal or lifestyle &#8211; there will be fears that come up.\u00a0\u00a0And the thought of starting a new relationship or restoring the intimacy in an existing relationship is no exception.\u00a0\u00a0In fact, contemplating the possibility of letting love into our lives and hearts can be one of the most terrifying experiences we can have.<\/p>\n<p><i>Why?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Well, because of our past.\u00a0\u00a0Most of us have experienced some type of disappointment and heartache as a result of having allowed ourselves to love someone.\u00a0\u00a0Sometimes the pain is a result of a betrayal, of poor timing, having fallen for someone who simply wasn&#8217;t right for us, or not having had the knowledge or awareness of how to make things work.<\/p>\n<p>One of the first things we do when we begin working with clients is to help them see how their fears are actually causing them to reject and block the possibility of experiencing love.\u00a0\u00a0We do a series of exercises where we help the person identify the fears, resentments, and regrets, and guide her through letting releasing and letting go of them so that she is able to create a space where love is able to flow freely to, through, and from\u00a0\u00a0her.\u00a0If you were on the &#8220;Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams&#8221; Teleclass, you experienced the power of this exercise for yourself!<\/p>\n<p><b>It&#8217;s only when we release the heaviness of all of disempowering thoughts and negative beliefs from the past that we can feel free to let love in, here and now.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Are you ready to let love in?\u00a0 If so, ask yourself:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00a0<b>Am I willing to let go of resentment? \u00a0<\/b>Is there a person (or persons) in your life who hurt, disappointed\u00a0and\/or betrayed you toward whom you&#8217;ve been holding onto the anger, pain, and resentment?\u00a0\u00a0Are you willing to let that go?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Am I willing to face my fears and not allow them to choose for me?\u00a0<\/b>Too often, we&#8217;re allowing the fear of getting hurt again choose whether or not we&#8217;re willing to open up our hearts.\u00a0\u00a0Unless we identify the fear as just a thought and\u00a0<i>not\u00a0<\/i>what&#8217;s actually happening right now, we will cheat ourselves out of the experience of loving and being loved.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Am I willing to let go of regrets?\u00a0\u00a0<\/b>Perhaps one of the hardest people to forgive is ourselves. We blame ourselves and make ourselves wrong for having said or done the wrong thing &#8211; or for not having said or done the right thing.\u00a0\u00a0We\u00a0<i>punish\u00a0<\/i>ourselves by replaying our mistakes over and over again.\u00a0\u00a0We create a story that we &#8220;deserve&#8221; to be alone or unhappy.\u00a0\u00a0And we do this to\u00a0<i>protect\u00a0<\/i>ourselves, because as uncomfortable and lonely as it may be,\u00a0<i>at least\u00a0<\/i>we&#8217;re not risking our hearts again.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Maybe we\u00a0<i>did\u00a0<\/i>make some mistakes along the way. Perhaps we could have said or done something differently.\u00a0\u00a0However, it&#8217;s also possible that lessons were learned and that we simply didn&#8217;t have\u00a0the knowledge, skills, and awareness necessary to make\u00a0<b><i>different choices<\/i><\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>One of the\u00a0<b>best\u00a0<\/b>ways to gain new knowledge and skills and heighten your level of awareness is to work with a coach.\u00a0\u00a0Every time I&#8217;ve invested in working with a coach, I have been able to completely transform different areas of my life.\u00a0\u00a0Whether it&#8217;s been learning how to create a healthier lifestyle, causing breakthroughs in my personal and spiritual life, or creating growth in my business, I can trace the changes and results to my working directly with a coach to help make that happen.<\/p>\n<p>This is why I believe so strongly in the power of coaching and why I&#8217;ve opened the doors to a new coaching and mentoring program that is going to provide you with the skills, insights, and practices that are going to help you create the type of relationship your heart desires.\u00a0\u00a0I&#8217;m not talking about a program where you learn a bunch of cute and fun &#8220;dating tips&#8221; and strategies for getting a man to fall in love with you.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m talking about a\u00a0<b>partnership\u00a0<\/b>where you and I work\u00a0<i>together\u00a0<\/i>to break down the walls that have been stopping you from attracting the love that you want and being to put into practice the skills that will help you create a meaningful, fulfilling, loving, and intimate relationship with a man that lasts for a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you are\u00a0<b>ready<\/b>\u00a0to make a commitment to yourself and do the work that it takes to create new love or restore the love and intimacy that has been lost in your relationship, the\u00a0<span style=\"color: #800080;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/6monthcoaching\/\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Create Your Love Story<\/span><\/a><\/span>\u00a0program will provide you with the support, mentorship, and\u00a0<b>results\u00a0<\/b>you have been searching for.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t allow your fears to stop you from actually living in the relationship you wish, pray and dream of.\u00a0\u00a0That dream is in your heart for a reason.\u00a0\u00a0<b>You were created to love and be loved.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Now it&#8217;s time to get out of your own way and begin to completely transform your life and your experience of dating and relationships.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re ready to begin, I&#8217;m ready to work with you!\u00a0\u00a0Click\u00a0<span style=\"color: #800080;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/6monthcoaching\/\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">here<\/span><\/a><\/span>\u00a0to begin creating <strong>your<\/strong> love story today!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Comments? Questions?\u00a0 Let us know below! We love hearing from you!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Photo courtesy of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.freedigitalphotos.net\/images\/Younger_Women_g57-Woman_Relaxing_With_Her_Eyes_Closed_p46752.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">FreeDigitalPhotos.net<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz A resounding theme keeps popping up in my Inbox, conversations with clients, and even on TV shows.\u00a0\u00a0The theme is courage. 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