{"id":2561,"date":"2013-08-13T11:24:23","date_gmt":"2013-08-13T15:24:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=2561"},"modified":"2013-08-13T11:24:23","modified_gmt":"2013-08-13T15:24:23","slug":"forget-the-past-and-choose-to-love-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/forget-the-past-and-choose-to-love-today\/","title":{"rendered":"Forget the Past and Choose to Love Today!"},"content":{"rendered":"

by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cForget past mistakes. Forget failures. Forget everything except what you\u2019re going to do now and do it.\u201d<\/i><\/b>
\n~ William Durant<\/i><\/p>\n

I posted this quote on our Facebook page<\/span><\/a><\/span> over the weekend, and it really stuck with me.\u00a0 How many times in our lives do we use the mistakes and failures of the past to keep us stuck where we are?\u00a0 We\u2019ll replay past conversations (or arguments), choices we made, things that we did (or didn\u2019t do) over and over in our heads, continuously making ourselves wrong for what we did back then.\u00a0 However, we\u2019re also using this as an excuse to not move ahead and make a<\/i> different choice<\/i> now<\/i>.<\/p>\n

The truth is that if you\u2019re human, you\u2019ve made at least one mistake in the past 24 hours.\u00a0 So, when it comes to love, what would have us believe that we need to be infallible, incapable of making a mistake now and again?\u00a0 And what would make us believe that we are incapable of making different choices, knowing what we know now?<\/p>\n

Part of it may be that we\u2019ve seen patterns repeated in our lives. Perhaps there\u2019s been a pattern of choosing men who were not faithful or ready to commit to us.\u00a0 Maybe we\u2019ve made and broken promises to be more respectful and less harsh in our actions and words toward the men we love.\u00a0 Or maybe the promises we\u2019ve broken have been those we\u2019ve made to ourselves \u2013 about finally making a commitment to doing whatever it takes to have the relationship of our dreams, or about giving up the fear that has kept us feeling stuck and alone and having the courage to go out there and date or walk up to our beloved and ask for forgiveness.<\/p>\n

Whatever it is that has been keeping you stuck in the past \u2013 whatever failures, mistakes, or regrets you\u2019ve been holding onto \u2013 it\u2019s time to let them go.\u00a0 It\u2019s time to forgive yourself, him, them, and everything else you\u2019ve been making wrong, and just make a choice now to create a brand new start!<\/p>\n

So what will you do to create a new start in your love life?<\/b><\/p>\n

Will you finally let go of resentment and forgive yourself or others?<\/p>\n

Will you give up the pride that\u2019s been keeping you stuck and ask for forgiveness?<\/p>\n

Will you put your profile up on dating site and just open up to the possibility of attracting new love?<\/p>\n

Will you recommit yourself to the relationship you\u2019re in and begin making the changes that will reignite the love that\u2019s begun to fade?<\/p>\n

Will you begin working with a relationship coach who can help you identify the fears and patterns holding you back so that you can break free from them and finally start living the life and the love your heart desires?\u00a0 If you’re ready, you’ll want to check out the\u00a0Create Your Love Story<\/span><\/a><\/span>\u00a0<\/em>coaching program that is helping women transform their love lives!<\/p>\n

Whatever it is that you\u2019re ready to do to breathe life into your love life and relationships, choose one thing you are going to do and do it now!<\/strong><\/p>\n

And let me know what that is in the comments below, because I\u2019d love to hear what it is and support you in any way I can!<\/p>\n

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by Gladys Diaz \u201cForget past mistakes. Forget failures. Forget everything except what you\u2019re going to do now and do it.\u201d ~ William Durant I posted this quote on our Facebook page over the weekend, and it really stuck with me.\u00a0 How many times in our lives do we use the mistakes and failures of the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,6,7,10,13,16,17,22,23],"tags":[42,47,52,56,57,59,63,68,70,87,90],"class_list":["post-2561","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-communication-2","category-dating-2","category-forgiveness-2","category-hearts-desire-international","category-intimacy-2","category-love-2","category-marriage","category-relationship-advice","category-romance","tag-communication","tag-dating","tag-forgiveness","tag-happiness","tag-hearts-desire-international","tag-hope","tag-intimacy","tag-love","tag-marriage-2","tag-relationship-advice-2","tag-romance-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2561","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2561"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2561\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2561"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2561"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2561"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}