{"id":2588,"date":"2013-09-03T13:52:45","date_gmt":"2013-09-03T17:52:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=2588"},"modified":"2013-09-03T13:52:45","modified_gmt":"2013-09-03T17:52:45","slug":"love-and-life-can-be-full-of-surprises","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/love-and-life-can-be-full-of-surprises\/","title":{"rendered":"Love and Life Can Be Full of Surprises!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #800080;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/Heart-shaped-Gift-Box_FDP_ID-100133222.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-2589\" alt=\"Heart-shaped Gift Box_FDP_ID-100133222\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/Heart-shaped-Gift-Box_FDP_ID-100133222.jpg\" width=\"320\" height=\"274\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>This weekend I had the pleasure of being pleasantly surprised by my hubby. I was feeling so sore after spending most of the day before cleaning out my sons\u2019 playroom.\u00a0 It was pretty late before I finally got to sit down, and the <i>last<\/i> thing I wanted to do was move.\u00a0 When my husband said, <i>\u201cLet\u2019s go upstairs,\u201d <\/i>much earlier than we usually go to bed, my first thought was <i>\u201cI don\u2019t want to.\u201d <\/i>All I wanted to do was sit and relax for a while.<\/p>\n<p>To be honest, I was a little put off.\u00a0 I sort of felt like he was telling me what to do.\u00a0 So I almost said, <i>\u201cNo.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>But I\u2019m <b><i>so <\/i><\/b>glad I didn\u2019t!<\/p>\n<p>As much as I wanted to stay on the couch, laying down actually sounded heavenly, so I slowly got up and began gathering up some things to put away and take upstairs.\u00a0 \u00a0I could tell he was getting a little anxious, which was beginning to bug me, because I felt like he was hurrying me.\u00a0 But then I saw a hint of a smile and he said, <i>\u201cIf you don\u2019t hurry up, you\u2019re going to miss your surprise!\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>He had me at \u201csurprise\u201d!<\/p>\n<p>When I got upstairs, the bathroom was lit in vanilla-scented candles, the tub was filled with bubbles, and Michael Bubl\u00e9 was playing in the background!<\/p>\n<p>How romantic is that?\u00a0 <em>Very<\/em>!<\/p>\n<p>I hugged him and thanked him for such a sweet and romantic gesture and told him that this was <i>exactly <\/i>what I needed!\u00a0 Then he confessed that he\u2019d been thinking about doing that for me all day, since we had the conversation in the morning as we held one another in the kitchen about wishing we could stay in bed all day, like we used to before we had kids.\u00a0 So sweet!<\/p>\n<p>As I soaked in the bubble bath while getting a lovely foot massage, I thought about how close I came to saying that I didn\u2019t want to go upstairs; how I\u2019d interpreted his excitement about surprising me as him trying to rush me, and how, after all of these years, he\u2019s still able to pleasantly surprise me!\u00a0 I mean, how many couples can say that this type of romance is still alive after 14 years (and two kids)?<\/p>\n<p>So the lessons I learned were:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Be open to going with the flow.\u00a0 <\/b>True, I initially didn\u2019t want to move from the couch, and I could have expressed that, but he wasn\u2019t suggesting something that would distress or put me out in any way when he suggested we go upstairs, so I am <i>really<\/i> glad that I chose to go with the flow.\u00a0 Otherwise, I may have missed out on a really romantic evening!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>\u00a0<\/b><b>Allow yourself to receive be pleasantly surprised.\u00a0 <\/b>Sure, the bubble bath, candles and music were sweet, but I think it was even more sweet that my husband had been thinking about and planning the evening all day long!\u00a0 I was too tired to do want to prepare any of that on my own, and, not only did I get to enjoy it, but I also got to see how much he enjoyed seeing me so happy!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>\u00a0<\/b><b>The romance <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">does not<\/span> have to fade with time.\u00a0 <\/b>There\u2019s a misconception out there that romance is only for \u201cthe honeymoon phase.\u201d\u00a0 But what if the honeymoon phase lasted for years \u2013 decades, even?\u00a0 The truth is that romance doesn\u2019t fade.\u00a0 We fade.\u00a0 We get comfortable. We forget about how fun it was to surprise and delight in and with one another. And we can choose every day \u2013 any day \u2013 to bring romance into our relationships!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p>What about you, what has been one of your favorite romantic surprises?\u00a0 And what will you do to bring fun and romance back into your relationship?<\/p>\n<p>Comments?\u00a0 Questions? Let us know below!\u00a0 We love hearing from you!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Image courtesy of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.freedigitalphotos.net\/images\/Valentines_Day_g135-Love_Heart_Gift_Box_p133222.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">FreeDigitalPhotos.net<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz &nbsp; This weekend I had the pleasure of being pleasantly surprised by my hubby. I was feeling so sore after spending most of the day before cleaning out my sons\u2019 playroom.\u00a0 It was pretty late before I finally got to sit down, and the last thing I wanted to do was move.\u00a0 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,13,16,17,22,23],"tags":[42,56,57,63,68,70,87,90,105],"class_list":["post-2588","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-hearts-desire-international","category-intimacy-2","category-love-2","category-marriage","category-relationship-advice","category-romance","tag-communication","tag-happiness","tag-hearts-desire-international","tag-intimacy","tag-love","tag-marriage-2","tag-relationship-advice-2","tag-romance-2","tag-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2588","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2588"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2588\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2588"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2588"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2588"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}