{"id":2619,"date":"2013-09-09T12:57:12","date_gmt":"2013-09-09T16:57:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=2619"},"modified":"2013-09-09T12:57:12","modified_gmt":"2013-09-09T16:57:12","slug":"how-i-took-my-own-advice-to-break-through-my-comfort-zone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/how-i-took-my-own-advice-to-break-through-my-comfort-zone\/","title":{"rendered":"How I Took My Own Advice to Break Through My Comfort Zone"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #800080;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This weekend, I had the privilege of being invited to speak on a panel at the 2013 Niche Parent Conference.\u00a0 While I was very honored by the invitation, I was also terrified!\u00a0 See, the topic on which I was asked to speak \u00a0was not dating or relationships \u2013 well, at least not the <i>romantic <\/i>relationships I\u2019m used to speaking about.\u00a0 I was invited to talk about how we\u2019ve used <span style=\"color: #800080;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/HeartsDesireIntl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Heart\u2019s Desire International\u2019s Facebook page<\/span><\/a><\/span> to connect with our community, establish relationships with our readers and clients, and build our business and our brand.<\/p>\n<p>To say that I felt like I was stepping outside of my comfort zone is a <i>huge<\/i> understatement!\u00a0 First of all, I\u2019m <i>not <\/i>a Facebook expert, we don\u2019t have thousands of followers on our page, and I was speaking to an audience of experienced bloggers who may have already known some of the things I was going to share.\u00a0 I was so terrified that two days before the conference I was ready to let the person who invited me know that I just couldn\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n<p>Thankfully, a good friend of mine got me to see (ironically, via a Facebook chat) that I wasn\u2019t invited to speak as a Facebook expert or because of the number of \u201cLikes\u201d on my page.\u00a0 She helped me realize that, while we may not have a ton of \u201cLikes\u201d on our page, we use our page to touch <b>Lives<\/b>, and that lives are heck of a lot more important than \u201cLikes\u201d!<\/p>\n<p>It was at that moment that I saw clearly how I\u2019d been letting my fear keep me from stepping out and doing something that felt uncomfortable for me.\u00a0 So, what did I do?\u00a0 I thought of YOU! I thought of my readers and my clients and how I\u2019m <i>constantly<\/i> inviting you to step outside of your comfort zone and not allow your fears to stop you from having the loving, intimate relationship your heart desires.\u00a0 I thought about how I invite and challenge you to take steps that are aligned with your goals and dreams, because it\u2019s what you deserve!\u00a0 And I thought about the types of results you have when you choose to trust me and yourselves and take those risks! So\u2026 I chose to follow my own advice!<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a quick video message I shot for you on the terrace of the hotel, sharing what I did to move past my fears, step outside of my own comfort zone, and take a risk that was aligned with my goals!<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"How I Used My Own Advice to Push Past My Comfort Zone\" width=\"1080\" height=\"810\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/1iPeTBV44w0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Thanks again for the inspiration and for being a part of my journey!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>P.S. If you haven\u2019t done so yet, please stop by and \u201cLike\u201d our <span style=\"color: #800080;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/HeartsDesireIntl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Facebook page<\/span><\/a><\/span>! We share inspirational quotes and messages daily, as well as articles, resources, and advice about love, hope and relationships!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Questions? Comments?\u00a0 Let us know below! We love hearing from you!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">A very special thanks to Nadia Jones (<span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/thenichemommy.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">TheNicheMommy.com<\/span><\/a><\/span>) and Parker Lake (<span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.certatim.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">Certatim<\/span><\/a><\/span>) for the invitation to speak on the panel, Caroline Murphy (<span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.smartypantsmama.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">SmartyPantsMama.com<\/span><\/a><\/span>) for her session on v-logging, which inspired me to get out of <em>another <\/em>comfort zone and make this on-the-spot video, and all of the mommy bloggers and speakers who inspired me during this amazing <span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thenichemommy.com\/mom-blogger-conference\/niche-parent-13-agenda\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">conference<\/span><\/a><\/span>!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz &nbsp; This weekend, I had the privilege of being invited to speak on a panel at the 2013 Niche Parent Conference.\u00a0 While I was very honored by the invitation, I was also terrified!\u00a0 See, the topic on which I was asked to speak \u00a0was not dating or relationships \u2013 well, at least [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,6,10,16,22,27],"tags":[42,47,50,57,68,76,87,92],"class_list":["post-2619","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-communication-2","category-dating-2","category-hearts-desire-international","category-love-2","category-relationship-advice","category-success","tag-communication","tag-dating","tag-empowerment","tag-hearts-desire-international","tag-love","tag-niche-parent-conference-2013","tag-relationship-advice-2","tag-self-love"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2619","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2619"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2619\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2619"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2619"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2619"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}