{"id":2629,"date":"2013-09-12T13:19:15","date_gmt":"2013-09-12T17:19:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=2629"},"modified":"2013-09-12T13:19:15","modified_gmt":"2013-09-12T17:19:15","slug":"can-love-really-last-for-a-lifetime","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/can-love-really-last-for-a-lifetime\/","title":{"rendered":"Can Love Really Last for a Lifetime?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #800080;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/Can-Love-Really-Last-Forever_9-12-13.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2630\" alt=\"Can Love Really Last Forever_9-12-13\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/Can-Love-Really-Last-Forever_9-12-13.jpg\" width=\"358\" height=\"305\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The other day a friend shared with me a video about a man who had written a song for his late wife, Lorraine.\u00a0 The video was about how Fred had entered a song-writing contest, and how the producers were so inspired by his story that, while the man\u2019s song did not win the contest, they decided to move ahead with producing the song. \u00a0The video brought so much attention to the song that it was #1 on iTunes last week!<\/p>\n<p>While the story of how the song came about was inspiring, and the song itself is super-sweet, the part of the video that stuck with me most was the way that Fred spoke of his Sweet Lorraine. You could see the love he felt for her when he described the day he met her, how beautiful she was, and how their life together felt like a dream.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/Sweet-Lorraine2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2631\" alt=\"Sweet Lorraine2\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/Sweet-Lorraine2.jpg\" width=\"403\" height=\"284\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Toward the end of the video he says, \u201cIt was a wonderful 75 years, that I just often think that it was kind of unreal\u2026 dreaming or something, but it was real. That\u2019s all I can say\u2026real.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This story got me thinking about so many things.\u00a0 I thought about how blessed this couple was to have experienced so many wonderful years together.\u00a0 I began imagining all of the ups and downs they must have experienced.\u00a0 As much as they loved each other, it\u2019s likely they had both good days and bad, that they had the occasional argument, and that they had moments where they laughed until their sides hurt.\u00a0 I thought about how, in today\u2019s day and age, it seems unreal that a couple could stay together and in love for <i>75 years<\/i>, when so many couples go into marriage with an exit strategy in place \u201cin case things don\u2019t work out.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I talk to women all the time who are either afraid to begin dating or get into a committed relationship, because they worry that eventually the love will begin to fade. <i>What if we get bored of one another?\u00a0 What if the romance begins to fade?\u00a0 What if we outgrow one another?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I also work with woman who are already married and feel like the spark has begun to fade.\u00a0 They\u2019re afraid that there\u2019s nothing they can do to turn the relationship around \u2013 so afraid, that they\u2019ll settle, thinking <i>\u201cNothing will change,\u201d <\/i>and resist taking on new habits, ways of speaking and being that can potentially transform their relationship into the loving, passionate union they once had.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that people do grow and change over the years.\u00a0 Kids sometimes come into the picture, life happens, circumstances change, and all of these things can affect your relationship.\u00a0 It\u2019s also true, however, that your happiness is entirely up to you, and that you have the ability to bring more love, happiness, and peace into your relationship than you ever imagined, if you\u2019re willing to be vulnerable and courageous enough to do it.<\/p>\n<p>I think of Fred and Lorraine\u2019s love, and I smile because I believe that this type of love is absolutely possible for <i>everyone <\/i>\u2013 yes, including <b><i>you<\/i><\/b>!\u00a0 This is why Michelle and I are hosting a very special live event on Saturday, September 21, 2013 called, <i>\u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/events-workshops-2\/\">Keeping the Love Alive After \u2018The Big Day<\/a>.\u2019\u201d\u00a0 <\/i><\/p>\n<p>In this event, you\u2019ll learn the secrets to keeping the love, passion and romance alive <i>long <\/i>after your wedding day.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Gladys-HappilyEverAfter1_5124471994_b0ab59f370_m_cropped.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2595\" alt=\"Gladys-HappilyEverAfter1_5124471994_b0ab59f370_m_cropped\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Gladys-HappilyEverAfter1_5124471994_b0ab59f370_m_cropped.jpg\" width=\"158\" height=\"186\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>In this seminar, you will discover:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>How to continue becoming the best version of yourself<\/li>\n<li>The keys to communicating in a way that has him hear what you are saying<\/li>\n<li>The practical things you can do each day to keep the romance alive in your relationship<\/li>\n<li>How to give your husband what he wants <i>more than anything else<\/i> (and it\u2019s probably <i>not <\/i>what you\u2019re thinking!)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>This seminar is for you if you are:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00a0A woman who is in a committed relationship that you are hoping will lead to a happy marriage<\/li>\n<li>A bride-to-be who is ready to learn how to make your marriage a romance that lasts for a lifetime<\/li>\n<li>A happily married woman who is interested in taking your marriage to new levels of love, passion, and intimacy<\/li>\n<li>A married woman who wants to discover how to bring the passion and romance <i>back<\/i> into your marriage<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And, because we believe that your friends and the people with whom you surround yourself are a big part of making your relationships and marriages a success, we are offering a \u201cBOGO with a Friend\u201d special, so that you can buy one ticket and get the second one for 50% off!<\/p>\n<p>Join us and discover how to create the foundation for living your own real-life happily ever after!<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><b>Click <span style=\"color: #800080;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/events-workshops-2\/\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">here<\/span><\/a><\/span> to learn more and register now!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Questions?\u00a0 Comments?\u00a0 Let us know below! We love hearing from you!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Images courtesy of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=KDi4hBWsvkY\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Green Shoe Studio<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz The other day a friend shared with me a video about a man who had written a song for his late wife, Lorraine.\u00a0 The video was about how Fred had entered a song-writing contest, and how the producers were so inspired by his story that, while the man\u2019s song did not win [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2629","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2629","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2629"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2629\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2629"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2629"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2629"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}