{"id":3051,"date":"2014-01-27T20:40:07","date_gmt":"2014-01-28T00:40:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=3051"},"modified":"2014-01-27T20:40:07","modified_gmt":"2014-01-28T00:40:07","slug":"get-unstuck-begin-attracting-love-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/get-unstuck-begin-attracting-love-now\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Get &#8220;Unstuck&#8221; and Begin Attracting Love NOW!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #800080;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/woman-stuck_FDP_ID-100171720.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-3052\" alt=\"woman stuck_FDP_ID-100171720\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/woman-stuck_FDP_ID-100171720.jpg\" width=\"213\" height=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Have you ever felt like you are &#8220;stuck&#8221; in a particular pattern in dating and relationships?<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you feel like you keep attracting the\u00a0<i>same<\/i>\u00a0type of man into your life. Perhaps you feel like, no matter who you are in relationship with, the\u00a0<i>same<\/i>\u00a0types of issues and arguments seem to come up.\u00a0\u00a0Maybe you&#8217;re in a dead-end relationship that is going nowhere. Or maybe you feel like you and your partner have pulled so far away from one another there&#8217;s just no turning back to the way things used to be when you first fell in love.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless of your particular situation, you probably agree that feeling &#8220;stuck&#8221; can feel be exhausting and depressing.\u00a0\u00a0Being inside of that type of dynamic can feel like it&#8217;s no use to try to improve or change things &#8211; that what you are experiencing is probably as good as it&#8217;s going to get.<\/p>\n<p>The problem with this type of thinking is that it is\u00a0<b><i>precisely<\/i><\/b>\u00a0what is keeping you stuck! <strong>The thought that there is nothing you can do to create a shift in yourself that would lead to create a different result is simply born out of fear.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0Fear of being disappointed.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s say, for example, you continue attracting men who are unavailable. Perhaps the men you tend to attract are either married, in a relationship with someone else, or they&#8217;ve been &#8220;getting divorced&#8221; for some while now.\u00a0\u00a0If this happens often enough, you might begin to believe that you&#8217;re destined to be alone, that there are no good men out there who are capable of being faithful, and that you will never be able to attract a man with whom you can create a loving, intimate relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe you are in a long-term relationship where your partner will not take the steps to move the relationship to a more committed level or will not propose.\u00a0\u00a0To stay in that relationship, despite the fact that you\u00a0<i>know<\/i>\u00a0how much you want to be married and then blame<i>\u00a0<\/i>or make\u00a0<i>him<\/i>\u00a0responsible for not having that in your life that is not only unfair to him (because you are making him responsible for your happiness), but it is unfair to you, because you are cheating yourself out of the opportunity to meet a man who\u00a0<b><i>is ready\u00a0<\/i><\/b>to commit to you forever.<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\"><strong>Until you identify and let go of the fears that are creating this situation situation and making you feel like you are stuck there, you will continue to either\u00a0<i>repeat<\/i>\u00a0the same patterns and heartaches over and over again.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>While it can feel terrifying sometimes to make a change, you need to ask yourself just how much longer you are willing to suffer the same consequences before you are ready to stand up for yourself and what you want.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The truth is that no one else is going to stand for you until you choose to stand for yourself.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>You teach people how to treat you.\u00a0\u00a0So, when you accept disrespectful or dishonoring behaviors, or settle for less than what you want or deserve, and you don&#8217;t put your own happiness and well-being\u00a0<i>first<\/i>, then you cannot expect someone else to make you or your happiness a priority.\u00a0\u00a0<strong>The love you long to experience begins with loving yourself\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><i>first<\/i><\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is why Michelle and I are hosting a 60-minute Q&amp;A session this Wednesday at 9:00pm ET.\u00a0\u00a0On this call we will be answering <strong>your questions<\/strong> about how you can begin letting go of the patterns and behaviors that are keeping you stuck in your very &#8220;uncomfortable comfort zone&#8221; so that you can begin to <strong>attract the type of love you desire and deserve NOW<\/strong>!<\/p>\n<p>To participate in the call, fill in the\u00a0<span style=\"color: #800080;\"><b><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/events-workshops-2\/\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">registration form<\/span><\/a><\/b><\/span>\u00a0on our Events page and we&#8217;ll send you an email with the call-in details.\u00a0\u00a0If you would like your question answered on the call, simply type in your question in the box provided on the form.<\/p>\n<p>We will be reading and answering your questions\u00a0<b>LIVE<\/b>\u00a0on the call!\u00a0\u00a0<b><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Please note that you must be on the line in order for us to answer your question during the call.<\/span><\/b>\u00a0If you&#8217;d like to remain anonymous, just let us know what you&#8217;d like to be called on the call when you submit your question.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind that we are probably going to get\u00a0<b><i>a lot\u00a0<\/i><\/b>of questions, so make sure to send yours in right away!<\/p>\n<p>This is a great opportunity for you to receive coaching from us and to finally break free of the fears, doubts, and limiting beliefs that have been holding you back and blocking you from attracting the love you want!\u00a0\u00a0You&#8217;ll also be able to benefit from listening to the coaching other women receive!<\/p>\n<p>Again, the call will be on\u00a0<b>Wednesday, January 29th, at 9:00pm ET.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Remember to\u00a0<span style=\"color: #800080;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/events-workshops-2\/\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">register<\/span><\/a><\/span>\u00a0and send us your question right away!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>We look forward to speaking with you on Wednesday night!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Image courtesy of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.freedigitalphotos.net\/images\/young-woman-suffering-from-headache-photo-p171720\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">FreeDigitalPhotos.net<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz Have you ever felt like you are &#8220;stuck&#8221; in a particular pattern in dating and relationships? 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Perhaps you feel like, no matter who you are in relationship with, the\u00a0same\u00a0types of issues and arguments seem to come up.\u00a0\u00a0Maybe you&#8217;re in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,6,10,11,16,17,22,23,24],"tags":[47,56,57,59,68,70,87,90,92,105],"class_list":["post-3051","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-breakups","category-dating-2","category-hearts-desire-international","category-heartache","category-love-2","category-marriage","category-relationship-advice","category-romance","category-self-love-2","tag-dating","tag-happiness","tag-hearts-desire-international","tag-hope","tag-love","tag-marriage-2","tag-relationship-advice-2","tag-romance-2","tag-self-love","tag-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3051","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3051"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3051\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3051"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3051"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3051"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}