{"id":3134,"date":"2014-03-01T11:09:34","date_gmt":"2014-03-01T15:09:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=3134"},"modified":"2014-03-01T11:09:34","modified_gmt":"2014-03-01T15:09:34","slug":"stop-settling-start-loving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/stop-settling-start-loving\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop Settling and Start Loving!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #800080;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Woman-making-heart-with-hands_FDP_ID-100162858.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-3135\" alt=\"Woman making heart with hands_FDP_ID-100162858\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Woman-making-heart-with-hands_FDP_ID-100162858.jpg\" width=\"283\" height=\"188\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The human brain is such a fascinating organ!\u00a0 The same organ that enables you to solve problems, come up with life-changing ideas, and make dreams a reality can create thoughts that hold you captive, paralyze you, and have you settle for <i>way <\/i>less than you deserve \u2013 especially when it comes to love!<\/p>\n<p>See, that brilliant, idea-generating organ, also houses fears, doubts, and limiting beliefs that you begin to believe are <i>real<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>So, we\u2019ll have thoughts, such as:<\/p>\n<p><i>\u201cI can\u2019t live without him.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>\u201cNo one will ever love me.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>\u201cI\u2019m not good enough.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>\u201cMaybe I\u2019m just not meant to be in a relationship.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>\u201cAt least this is better than living alone.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Your fear of feeling heartache or disappointment will have you settle for crumbs, instead of a feast; pain, instead of happiness; and treatment that you wouldn\u2019t wish on our worst enemy.\u00a0 Incredibly, most of the time you\u2019re not even aware that those fears, doubts, and limiting beliefs are there, because they reside in the subconscious.\u00a0 \u00a0You treat them as \u201cthe truth,\u201d instead of just thoughts, and, if left unaddressed, you will begin to believe them and accept that <i>this<\/i> is as good as it gets.\u00a0 That this pain, unhappiness, and lack of fulfillment is what you <i>deserve<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>In order to disarm those fears and limiting beliefs, you must first become aware of them, know how to dismantle them, and then replace them with new, empowering thoughts that begin to create a new reality for you and your life!<\/p>\n<p>This is why Michelle and I \u00a0created the <span style=\"color: #800080;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/events-workshops-2\/\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">\u201cReady to Love Again\u201d Webinar<\/span><\/a><\/strong><\/span>!<\/p>\n<p>In this webinar, we will discuss:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>What makes it difficult to move beyond the heartache of a breakup<\/li>\n<li>The steps you can take to move beyond your heartache and toward a new future<\/li>\n<li>How to begin attracting new love into your life NOW!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p align=\"center\"><strong><span style=\"color: #800080;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/events-workshops-2\/\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Click here to register for the \u201cReady to Love Again\u201d Webinar <\/span><\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Stop settling, and start living a life of love!\u00a0 Not only do you deserve it, but the power to create it is entirely in your hands!<\/p>\n<p>Questions? Comments?\u00a0 Let us know below! We love hearing from you!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Image courtesy of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.freedigitalphotos.net\/images\/Gestures_g185-Love_And_Compassion_Of_Cute_Teenage_Girl_p162858.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">FreeDigitalPhotos.net<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz The human brain is such a fascinating organ!\u00a0 The same organ that enables you to solve problems, come up with life-changing ideas, and make dreams a reality can create thoughts that hold you captive, paralyze you, and have you settle for way less than you deserve \u2013 especially when it comes to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,6,10,11,16,21,22,24],"tags":[37,47,50,56,57,58,59,68,87,92,105],"class_list":["post-3134","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-breakups","category-dating-2","category-hearts-desire-international","category-heartache","category-love-2","category-relationship","category-relationship-advice","category-self-love-2","tag-breakups","tag-dating","tag-empowerment","tag-happiness","tag-hearts-desire-international","tag-heartbreak","tag-hope","tag-love","tag-relationship-advice-2","tag-self-love","tag-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3134","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3134"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3134\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3134"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3134"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3134"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}