{"id":3148,"date":"2014-03-10T11:50:17","date_gmt":"2014-03-10T15:50:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=3148"},"modified":"2014-03-10T11:50:17","modified_gmt":"2014-03-10T15:50:17","slug":"the-secret-to-stop-attracting-unavailable-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/the-secret-to-stop-attracting-unavailable-men\/","title":{"rendered":"The Secret to Stop Attracting Unavailable Men"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #800080;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/broken-heart_bing.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-3149\" alt=\"broken-heart_bing\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/broken-heart_bing.jpg\" width=\"273\" height=\"269\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em><b>If you&#8217;re\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">tired<\/span>\u00a0of attracting unavailable, unfaithful, and non-committing men into your life, then you&#8217;ll want to click below and listen to today&#8217;s Coaching Clip!<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n<p>One of the common complaints Michelle and I hear from women is that they keep seeing a pattern emerging in their love life and relationships.\u00a0 For some women, it\u2019s that they keep attracting unavailable or unfaithful men.\u00a0 For others, it\u2019s that men often disappear after they have been physically intimate with them.\u00a0 And others complain that they just can\u2019t seem to find someone with whom they feel any real attraction or connection.<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\"><b>At times it can seem as if these things just &#8220;keep happening&#8221; to you.\u00a0 The truth, however, is that, this pattern is something that <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">you<\/span> are creating in your life.\u00a0 <\/b><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Now, I know what you\u2019re thinking:<\/p>\n<p><i>\u201cWhy in the world would I continue to create something I don\u2019t want?\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I understand.\u00a0 It seems crazy to think that you would do something that would have you continue experiencing pain, frustration and sadness.\u00a0 However, the truth is that most of the time, you are doing this subconsciously. You\u2019re not even <i>aware<\/i> that you\u2019re doing it!<\/p>\n<p>So, why does this happen?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Many times, the harmful patterns you create in your life are triggered by a fear, doubt, or limiting belief that you are subconsciously trying to prove correct and keep alive.\u00a0<\/strong> There was something that happened in your past, and you made a decision that it would never happen again.\u00a0 In trying to avoid having that pattern reappear, you continue creating and gathering evidence to support the beliefs you made up <i>(\u201cI\u2019m not good enough,\u201d \u201cI don\u2019t deserve to be happy,\u201d\u201dI\u2019m just not good at relationships.\u201d<\/i>).<\/p>\n<p>In today\u2019s Coaching Clip, you\u2019ll hear how Michelle guides Melisa to discover a truth she had been unable to see for herself before that has led to her attract unavailable and unfaithful men.\u00a0 The truth she discovers in this clip is something many people had told her about in the past.\u00a0 While she wasn\u2019t ready to hear it then, she <i>was <\/i>ready during the Live Group Coaching Call we hosted a few weeks ago.<\/p>\n<p>Listen in and see how Michelle guides Melisa and helps her identify the belief about herself that has had her repeatedly attract unavailable men into her life.\u00a0 Notice Melisa\u2019s courage and her unwillingness to stay stuck anymore!\u00a0 It\u2019s truly inspiring!<\/p>\n<p>One of the powerful aspects of group coaching is that, even if you\u2019re not the person being coached, you get to listen to, receive the coaching, and apply it in your own life.<\/p>\n<p>As you listen to this Coaching Clip, I invite you to put yourself in Melisa\u2019s place.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What is the limiting belief you keep proving over and over again in your life and relationships?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>What is the pattern that keeps showing up because of this?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>And, most importantly, are you <i>ready<\/i> to <em>finally <\/em>put an end to it?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you are, after you listen to the coaching clip, reply to this send us an <span style=\"color: #800080;\"><a title=\"Hurry! Before our plane lands!\" href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/hurry-before-our-plane-lands\/\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">email<\/span><\/a><\/span> letting us know what the pattern you want to stop is, and Michelle and I will be happy to help you break through it <b>once and for all<\/b>!<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">\u00a0Click Below to Listen to Today&#8217;s Coaching Clip!<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-3148-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Ready-for-Love-Coaching-Call-2-22-14_Melisa.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Ready-for-Love-Coaching-Call-2-22-14_Melisa.mp3\">http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/HDSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Ready-for-Love-Coaching-Call-2-22-14_Melisa.mp3<\/a><\/audio><br \/>\n<b>P.S.<\/b>\u00a0 Melisa was courageous enough to be willing to look within, listen to the coaching she was getting , and then make the decision to sign up for the <span style=\"color: #800080;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/readytoloveagain\/\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">\u201cReady to Love Again\u201d 6-Week Course<\/span><\/a><\/span>.\u00a0 If you\u2019re ready to change your life, get unstuck, and have the love you want, sign up for now!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Questions?\u00a0 Comments?\u00a0 Let us know below! 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