{"id":4104,"date":"2015-04-24T19:32:37","date_gmt":"2015-04-24T19:32:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=4104"},"modified":"2018-04-03T22:54:55","modified_gmt":"2018-04-03T22:54:55","slug":"another-reason-successful-women-struggle-in-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/another-reason-successful-women-struggle-in-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Another Reason Successful Women Struggle in Love"},"content":{"rendered":"

by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n

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As a successful woman, you know that most goals require a few key components:<\/span><\/p>\n

Time<\/span><\/p>\n

Attention<\/span><\/p>\n

Effort<\/span><\/p>\n

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It\u2019s nearly impossible to attain any goal without these.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Stop for a moment and think about one of the goals you\u2019ve accomplished in your life of which you are most proud.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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How much\u00a0time\u00a0<\/strong>did you put into attaining that goal?<\/span><\/p>\n

How much\u00a0attention\u00a0<\/strong>did you give it?<\/span><\/p>\n

How much\u00a0effort\u00a0<\/strong>went into making sure you achieved the goal?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Now, think about this:\u00a0Was it\u00a0worth<\/em>\u00a0it?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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If the goal was something that is important to you, I can guarantee that the answer to the last question is a resounding \u201cYES!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>When we achieve a goal that is important to us \u2013 one of our heart\u2019s desires \u2013 the time, attention, and effort we put into it seems\u00a0worth it<\/em>\u00a0once we have what we set out to accomplish.<\/span><\/p>\n

Why is it, then, that, when it comes to love, most women, including successful, goal-driven women, believe that “Love should just happen\u201d?<\/span><\/p>\n

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I can\u2019t tell you how many women tell me they want to be in a loving, committed relationship, but they don\u2019t want to date.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Or that, if it\u2019s “meant to be,” the right man will just somehow magically \u201cshow up\u201d in their lives.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Or they\u00a0want\u00a0<\/em>to turn their marriages or relationships around, but they don\u2019t feel they should have to be the one making the changes.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Anything worthwhile – including having the relationship of your dreams – takes time, attention, and effort.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Now, those of you who know Michelle and me know that we believe in the power of intention, visualization, and attraction.\u00a0 What you can see, feel, and believe\u00a0can\u00a0<\/em>manifest!<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u00a0<\/span>However, there is a difference between being\u00a0intentional<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0and being hopeful.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>You may\u00a0hope\u00a0<\/em>to meet a great man.\u00a0 You may hope to turn your relationship around.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Hope is a powerful thing.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>However, hope without action is nothing more than a wish.<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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When you are being\u00a0intentional\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>about something, you are not only\u00a0thinking\u00a0<\/em>about or\u00a0envisioning\u00a0<\/em>it, but you are\u00a0taking actions<\/em>\u00a0that are consistent with that intention. Your thoughts, words, actions, and ways of being are all aligned with that intention, which means everything you think, say, and do is thought, said, and done with the\u00a0intention<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0of attaining that desired goal.<\/span><\/p>\n

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So, if you\u2019re resisting taking steps to turn your love life around, I want you to ask yourself this question:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Is the pain, frustration, and loneliness\u00a0worth<\/em>\u00a0it?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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See, if you\u2019re not doing anything to change the situation, all the complaining, wishing, and dreaming is not going to make a bit of difference.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>You\u2019ve got to be willing to do\u00a0something\u00a0<\/em>that is going to pull you forward, in the direction of your desired goal.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Now, the effort doesn\u2019t have to be “hard” or painful.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>You want to take the right steps in the right sequence so that you are not wasting your time, attention and effort.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Just as in your career or business, taking the right steps at the right time and in the right order improve your chances for success dramatically!\u00a0 Anything else is, as they say, like throwing spaghetti at the wall and hoping it sticks!<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>So what are some of the steps you can take to get on track and headed in the direction of making yourself, your happiness, and your love life a priority?\u00a0 If you\u2019re a successful professional woman, some of these steps will seem familiar!\u00a0 But, just as in business, knowing what they are and not doing them, makes absolutely NO difference!<\/span><\/p>\n

1.\u00a0<\/span>Set a clearly defined goal for what you want to achieve.\u00a0 <\/strong>You want to be\u00a0<\/span>crystal-clear\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>about the experience you want to have in a relationship.\u00a0 Not what you want\u00a0<\/span>him\u00a0<\/em>to have, look, or be like, but what\u00a0<\/span>you\u00a0<\/em>want to experience, know and feel when you are in the kind of loving relationship you want to have.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a02.\u00a0<\/span>Create a plan of action that propels you in the direction of your desired goal.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>Think about where you want to be a year from now.\u00a0 In order to be in that place \u2013 in a committed relationship, engaged to be married, on a romantic getaway with your spouse where you renew your vows to love one another for life \u2013 whatever it is, what would\u00a0<\/span>necessarily <\/em><\/strong>have to be in place a month prior to that?\u00a0 3 months prior? 6 months prior? 9 months prior? TODAY?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Working backwards in 3-month increments, write down your milestones.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Beneath each milestone, write down 3 action steps you will take, including the steps you will take TODAY.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a03.\u00a0<\/span>TAKE ACTION.\u00a0<\/strong>Writing down what you are going to do and then\u00a0<\/span>not\u00a0<\/em>do them is a sure-fire recipe for\u00a0<\/span>not\u00a0<\/strong>achieving your goal.\u00a0 Inaction is an action. It\u2019s just not an action that is going to take you in the direction of your desired goal.\u00a0 Staying stuck and feeling frustrated about it is just more whining, moaning, and complaining, which is not going to make a difference for you at all!<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u00a0<\/span>If you\u2019re not clear about which steps to take or which ones you should take first, then here\u2019s your first step:\u00a0Speak with someone who can guide you!<\/strong>\u00a0 Because, the truth is that unless you\u2019re getting direction from someone who\u2019s been there, has the results you want and is as committed as you are to seeing you achieve your dreams, then you\u2019re just going to be even more frustrated and exhausted, and you\u2019ll simply reinforce the fears and limiting beliefs that have kept you stuck where you are for so long!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>So, how can you take action toward get the support and guidance you need TODAY?<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. Work with a relationship coach who has the result you want and can help you achieve your goal.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>And, yes, I\u2019m absolutely talking about reaching out to\u00a0Michelle and me <\/a><\/span>for support.\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0I know we can help you break through this block if you\u2019re ready to be coached and started TODAY!\u00a0 Now, here\u2019s the thing.\u00a0 You may not feel 100% ready. You probably feel a bit nervous or afraid about\u00a0finally\u00a0<\/em>committing to making a change.\u00a0 That\u2019s perfectly natural. The great thing about working with a coach is that I can help you deal with and dismantle those fears so that you can begin moving forward!\u00a0 You\u2019re no longer in this all alone!<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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    1. Learn the steps you need to take to achieve your desired goal.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>One of the best ways to do that is to attend a seminar that will help you get started on the path to reaching that goal. We are hosting\u00a0<\/span>The Irresistible Woman LIVE<\/strong><\/span><\/a>\u00a0in a few weeks.\u00a0 Make one of your TODAY goals to click below and register for that event TODAY.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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      \u00a0<\/span>As a matter of fact, I want to see if you\u2019re\u00a0really serious\u00a0<\/strong>about committing to getting started on this action plan.\u00a0 If you are, you can click and use this special link to get 50% off the ticket price.<\/span><\/p>\n

      And<\/em>, if you do Steps 1\u00a0and<\/span>\u00a02, we\u2019ll give you a VIP ticket for <\/span>the General Admission Early Bird Price<\/u>!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

      \u00a0<\/span>How\u2019s that for committed action?<\/span><\/p>\n

      \u00a0<\/span>That’s<\/span>\u00a0how serious we are about supporting you in reaching your desired goal!<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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      \u00a0<\/span>Remember, loving, passionate, intimate relationships \u2013 just like any worthwhile goal \u2013 \u00a0don\u2019t \u201cjust happen.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

      \u00a0<\/span>They are created and nurtured every single day.<\/span><\/p>\n

      \u00a0<\/span>Focus your time, attention, and effort on having the love, happiness, and success your heart desires!<\/span><\/p>\n

      \u00a0<\/span>Get clear, create your plan, and take action.<\/span><\/p>\n

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      Get started now by setting up a time to talk and joining us at the<\/span>\u00a0Irresistible Woman LIVE Event!<\/strong><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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      We promise you, having the relationship you want\u00a0is worth it!<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n


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      Click here to set up a time to talk and get started on your<\/span>\u00a0Love Action Plan<\/strong><\/a><\/span>!<\/p>\n

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      Click here to\u00a0get your VIP Ticket to<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0The Irresistible Woman LIVE EVENT at the Early Bird Price<\/a><\/strong><\/span>!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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