{"id":4448,"date":"2015-07-27T17:21:47","date_gmt":"2015-07-27T17:21:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=4448"},"modified":"2016-07-03T23:12:36","modified_gmt":"2016-07-03T23:12:36","slug":"what-to-do-after-a-relationship-ends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/what-to-do-after-a-relationship-ends\/","title":{"rendered":"What to Do After a Relationship Ends"},"content":{"rendered":"

by Gladys Diaz <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m keeping this post short and sweet because we are on vacation and my kids are waiting for me to go do something fun!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

However, I just had to take a few minutes to write because I wanted to tell you about two things!<\/span><\/p>\n

First, we just heard that\u00a0we have another new bride!<\/strong>\u00a0 That\u2019s right, another one of our clients just got married this past weekend!\u00a0 (It\u2019s getting so that it\u2019s hard to keep count!)<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s so amazing to see her dreams coming true after all the years she questioned and wondered whether that day would ever come for her!<\/span><\/p>\n

THIS<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0is why Michelle and I do what we do.\u00a0THIS\u00a0<\/strong>is why we are so incredibly committed to you moving beyond all of your fears and excuses and just\u00a0breaking through the BS that has you feeling like you are stuck where you are.\u00a0 Because\u00a0THIS<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0is what\u2019s possible for\u00a0YOU\u00a0<\/strong>when you do!<\/span><\/p>\n

I want you to get really honest with yourself as you ask yourself these questions:<\/span><\/p>\n

Is it<\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>really<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>possible that there are \u201cno good men\u201d out there?\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Or is it more likely that you haven\u2019t attracted the good man who is right for\u00a0you<\/strong>\u00a0yet<\/em>?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Is it<\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>really true<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0<\/strong>that you can\u2019t get over your ex?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Or is it that you are so afraid of having your heart broken again that you\u2019ll just stay stuck on him to avoid having to get out there, meet people, and open your heart to loving someone again?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Is it<\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>really<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>that you are just so busy with your career or business, your travel schedule, going out with your friends, etc.?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Or is it that you are so terrified of failing at love that you\u2019d rather tell yourself that you\u2019re \u201cokay,\u201d your life is already great, and there\u2019s no need or desire for you to share it with someone else?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Look, my job is not to make you feel badly about where you are in your life, because I\u00a0do<\/strong>\u00a0believe that you need to be happy on your own before you can attract someone who will add to that happiness.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

But here\u2019s the deal. It\u2019s NOT that there aren\u2019t any good guys, it\u2019s NOT that you can\u2019t get over your ex, and it\u2019s NOT that your life is already so busy and fulfilled that you feel you don\u2019t need a man with whom to share it.<\/span><\/p>\n

All that stuff is NOT what is keeping you stuck!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

What\u2019s keeping you stuck where you are is all the stuff you keep telling yourself so that you don\u2019t have to take the steps you need to take to have the love you really want.<\/span><\/p>\n

I get it.\u00a0 I\u2019m a successful woman, too,\u00a0and I don\u2019t like failing any more than you do.<\/span><\/p>\n

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However, I\u2019d much rather take a risk than be a victim of my circumstances and cheat myself out of the possibility of having everything my heart desires.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Because failing sucks, but it doesn\u2019t suck\u00a0nearly<\/em>\u00a0<\/em>as much as regret, which is what you feel when you look back and see that the only thing that really stood in the way of having the love and life you wanted was YOU!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Starting<\/p>\n

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So, just in case one of your \u201creasons\u201d for not having the love you want is that you can\u2019t <\/span>seem to<\/span> move on from your past breakup, I wanted to share with you the recording of a radio show we did a few weeks ago with our very good friend, Simone Kelly, of\u00a0Own Your Power Radio<\/em><\/strong>.\u00a0 The show was about \u201cStarting Over When It\u2019s Over<\/a><\/strong><\/span>,\u201d and you\u2019ll hear some great advice on the things you can do to move on after a breakup, divorce, or losing your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Here\u2019s my invitation:<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. Answer the questions above<\/strong> (be honest with yourself).<\/span><\/li>\n
  2. Listen to the radio sho<\/span>w<\/a><\/strong>.<\/span><\/li>\n
  3. Then CLICK HERE and let us know that you are ready to have a conversation about moving on in a powerful way<\/a><\/strong><\/span>\u00a0so that you can begin to have the love and happiness your heart desires!\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    If you\u2019re ready to start over, listen to our discussion and see which step you\u2019re ready to take!<\/span><\/p>\n

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    P.S.\u00a0Michelle only has a few spots left on her calendar this week while I\u2019m vacation!<\/u><\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong>If you haven\u2019t had the chance to be coached by Michelle, this is an opportunity you don\u2019t want to miss!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

    She’s\u00a0one of the most powerful coaches I\u2019ve ever worked with and was\u00a0MY\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>coach when Ric and I were having issues in our marriage!\u00a0 Don\u2019t miss out and sign up to speak with her now!<\/span><\/p>\n

    Click here to schedule time to talk NOW!<\/span><\/a><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    by Gladys Diaz I\u2019m keeping this post short and sweet because we are on vacation and my kids are waiting for me to go do something fun!\u00a0 However, I just had to take a few minutes to write because I wanted to tell you about two things! First, we just heard that\u00a0we have another new […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,5,6,7,10,11,15,16,17,20,22,24],"tags":[37,47,50,52,56,57,58,59,68,70,87,91,92,102,105],"class_list":["post-4448","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-breakups","category-communication-2","category-dating-2","category-forgiveness-2","category-hearts-desire-international","category-heartache","category-loss-of-a-spouse","category-love-2","category-marriage","category-ready-to-love-again","category-relationship-advice","category-self-love-2","tag-breakups","tag-dating","tag-empowerment","tag-forgiveness","tag-happiness","tag-hearts-desire-international","tag-heartbreak","tag-hope","tag-love","tag-marriage-2","tag-relationship-advice-2","tag-self-care","tag-self-love","tag-success-2","tag-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4448","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4448"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4448\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4448"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4448"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4448"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}