{"id":4702,"date":"2015-12-30T16:22:26","date_gmt":"2015-12-30T16:22:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/?p=4702"},"modified":"2016-07-03T22:50:40","modified_gmt":"2016-07-03T22:50:40","slug":"three-steps-to-manifest-the-love-you-want-in-2016","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/three-steps-to-manifest-the-love-you-want-in-2016\/","title":{"rendered":"Three Steps to Manifest the Love you Want in 2016"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #cc99ff;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5100 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Breathe-Release-Renew.jpg\" alt=\"Breathe-Release-Renew\" width=\"225\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Breathe-Release-Renew.jpg 225w, https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Breathe-Release-Renew-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Like many holidays and celebrations, New Year\u2019s Eve can trigger bitter-sweet feelings.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">On one hand, it can be disheartening if you\u2019ve gotten to the end of the year without having attained all of the goals you\u2019d set for yourself 12 months ago. This can be particularly true if you are not in the happy, loving relationship you dream of.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">On the other hand, it can be exciting and uplifting to know that you have a whole new year ahead of you filled with unlimited possibilities \u2013 with one of those <i>rea<\/i><i>l <\/i>possibilities being to finally have the loving relationship your heart desires.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">So, how do we reconcile the disheartening thoughts with the uplifting ones?<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">You can do it in 3 easy steps!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Breathe.<\/b> If you\u2019re like most women, you can be pretty hard on yourself. Many times, this is most evident in the things you tell yourself about yourself. If you\u2019ve been putting yourself down, thinking that there must be something \u201cwrong\u201d with you because you haven\u2019t manifested the love you want <i>yet<\/i>, take a deep breath and allow the love that surrounds you (and, yes, it\u2019s always all around you and within you) to enter into your heart.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">If you still don\u2019t feel the love that surrounds you within you,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Breathe again\u2026<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Keep inhaling until you can fill your lungs anymore.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Hold it 3 seconds and envision the love filling every part of your being.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Allow love to fill you.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Do this as many times as you need to until you literally and physically feel love filling your being.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Once you are able to feel the love within you\u2026<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Release. <\/b>As you exhale, release all of those negative thoughts, beliefs and toxic emotions that do not serve you. Breathe out all of the pain, sadness, and feelings of dissatisfaction. Release yourself from the hold that those disempowering thoughts create in your life. Those are the thoughts that keep you holding onto dead-end relationships, stop you from moving on, and keep you repeating dysfunctional patterns in relationships.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">If you are having trouble releasing yourself from the negative thoughts, beliefs and emotions,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Go back to Step #1, Breathe, and do 2 or 3 more loving breaths.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">On each exhale, envision yourself releasing all of the pain, sadness, and disempowering thoughts and emotions from your body.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">With each exhalation, you are releasing what doesn\u2019t work and allowing more love to enter you on the inhalation.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">It\u2019s okay if you feel like crying. As you do the exercise, the sad tears will turn to tears of gratitude as you allow love to enter, surround, and fill you up!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Once you feel you have released the disempowering thoughts and emotions\u2026<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Renew. <\/b>In this new space, where love is what you are present to, renew your commitment to yourself to create the loving, happy, fulfilling relationship your heart desires. Commit to doing whatever it takes to transform the thoughts, words, and behaviors that have stopped you from experiencing the love you desire and deserve.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Commitment without action is nothing but wishful thinking. This is why so many people get to the end of a year without having reached the goals and dreams they declared at the beginning of the year. It\u2019s only when you are taking consistent action in the direction of your goals and dreams that you are able to manifest them! So, to ensure that 2016 is actually different for you and you are experiencing the love your heart truly desires, follow these steps:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Identify the person\/people who can teach and help you to create and experience the loving romantic relationship you want.\u00a0 A happily married relationship coach who can teach you the skills that will have you attract, create, and nurture a healthy romantic relationship is the best option.\u00a0 And, with us, you get two coaches for the price of one! \ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">With your coach, identify 1-3 action steps you will take to create renewal in your love life.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Commit to fulfilling on those actions steps <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><i>no matter what<\/i><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">The reason most people do not reach their goals and manifest their dreams is because they quit. They quit on their dreams, in doing so, they give up on themselves.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">This is why working with a coach is so important. You have built-in accountability.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Why? <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Because, left to your own devices, you will do what you you\u2019ve always done. You\u2019ll do what\u2019s comfortable, what you\u2019re familiar with, and those are the same things that have given you the results you have now.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">I\u2019m not being negative here. This is what we all do. The results we have are consistent with the actions we\u2019ve taken and those actions are consistent with what we\u2019ve been committed to.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">So, if you\u2019re ready to make 2016 THE YEAR of love, intimacy, and romance for yourself, first BREATH, RELEASE, and RENEW.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Then make a <i>real commitment <\/i>to yourself to do <i>whatever it takes<\/i><i> <\/i>to manifest the love you want. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Have your first action step be to schedule a call with one of us to help you identify your 1-3 action steps that will lead you in the direction of the relationship of your dreams!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.vcita.com\/v\/heartsdesireinternational\/online_scheduling?service_id=1c4bd3fa&amp;staff_id=3c3c45c3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><b>Click here to schedule your 2016 Love Breakthrough Call!<\/b><\/u><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">We promise we\u2019ll do <i>whatever it takes <\/i>to support and guide you in making your relationship dream come true. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #444444;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">We will stand for you, hold you accountable, and be there when you need someone to remind you just how worthy you are of having the love your heart desires!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Creating the love you want does not have to be &#8220;hard.&#8221; It can be easy when you have the right guidance and know exactly which steps to take to create the loving, happy, fulfilling relationship you desire and deserve.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.vcita.com\/v\/heartsdesireinternational\/online_scheduling?service_id=1c4bd3fa&amp;staff_id=3c3c45c3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Click here to schedule your 2016 Love Breakthrough Call and get ready to have all of your heart&#8217;s desires fulfilled!<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><b>Here\u2019s to making 2016 THE YEAR OF LOVE, INTIMACY, ROMANCE, and all of your heart\u2019s desires fulfilled!<\/b><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz Like many holidays and celebrations, New Year\u2019s Eve can trigger bitter-sweet feelings. 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