{"id":7631,"date":"2018-06-08T22:34:54","date_gmt":"2018-06-08T22:34:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=7631"},"modified":"2018-06-08T22:34:54","modified_gmt":"2018-06-08T22:34:54","slug":"love-life-not-working-its-not-your-fault","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/love-life-not-working-its-not-your-fault\/","title":{"rendered":"Love Life Not Working? It’s Not Your “Fault”!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00a0by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n

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Have you ever asked yourself:<\/span><\/p>\n

Why don\u2019t I<\/u> have the relationship that I want?<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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You\u2019re sad, frustrated, and tired<\/em> of things not going your way when it comes to love.<\/span><\/p>\n

You see your friends and co-workers having happy, fun, loving relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve read books, listened to podcasts, watched videos, taken courses, and you still <\/em>don\u2019t have the loving relationship you want.<\/span><\/p>\n

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We know how painful that can be because we’ve been there<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

And so have many of our clients.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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As a successful woman, it\u2019s not easy trying to do everything you know to do and still not see the results for your life. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re used to setting a goal and hitting it\u2026 no matter what<\/em>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Things are different when it comes to love, however.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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First, everything isn\u2019t dependent on you. You simply cannot make a man want to feel, say, or do what he doesn\u2019t want to do.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sure, you could try to manipulate, demand, and control him in order to get him to do what you want, but the truth is that, even if he falls for it once, he\u2019ll eventually get tired of the game and move on.<\/span><\/p>\n

You could also settle for less than what you really want.\u00a0 However, that doesn\u2019t really sit well with a successful woman with high standards and a real desire to be in an extraordinary relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Or you could give up on having the relationship you want.\u00a0 So, you could stay single or believe that the relationship you\u2019re in is beyond saving.\u00a0 Again\u2026 not something a successful woman is used to or likes doing!<\/span><\/p>\n

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So, what is the alternative?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, you can figure out what it is that\u2019s been getting in the way of you having the kind of love, connection, and commitment you really want to have with a man and then take the steps to remove and replace those thought and behavior patterns so that you can actually experience the love you want!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

And, sorry, but\u00a0that\u2019s not<\/u> something you can learn from a book or video!<\/span><\/p>\n

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See, while you may gain insight or awareness from a book, podcast, or video, the real work to distinguish, remove, and replace beliefs, triggers, patterns requires guidance to see what is currently in your blind spot.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

The reason it\u2019s called a blind spot is because you can\u2019t see it!\u00a0 Not on your own.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

This is why you keep telling yourself you\u2019re not going to be the one to call or pursue a man, and yet you keep taking the lead.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s why you say you\u2019re not going to continue going out and getting involved with men who aren\u2019t ready to commit, but you end up getting physically intimate before you even really know him or there is any sign of true commitment.<\/span><\/p>\n

Or, if you\u2019re in a relationship, it\u2019s why you promise yourself that you\u2019re not going to raise your voice or argue about that same issue ever again, and the moment he says or does something, you find yourself in a full-blown argument that lasts hours (or days), costing you time you can be snuggling, loving, and being adored by the man you love.<\/span><\/p>\n

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The first thing to realize is: It\u2019s not your fault.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Again, these are blind spots, and, if you knew how<\/em> to stop doing these things \u2013 exactly which steps to take to completely break these patterns for good \u2013 you would be doing that already!<\/span><\/p>\n

What you need to do is figure out:<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. what is causing<\/em><\/strong> the same patterns to show up;<\/span><\/li>\n
  2. how to break them apart<\/em><\/strong> so that they don\u2019t keep showing up in your life; and<\/span><\/li>\n
  3. how to replace those patterns<\/em><\/strong> with new ones \u2013 the kind that will have you experiencing the love, happiness, and intimacy your heart truly desires with a man who deserves to love and be loved by you!<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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    If you know that you\u2019re ready to stop repeating the same patters and creating the same painful results in your life, then you need to commit to taking the right steps<\/u>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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    Michelle and I are attending a personal development training next week, so we can\u2019t offer to have you schedule a time to speak with us. However, we really want to help and be here for you, so we\u2019re doing the next best thing!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

    All you need to do is email us<\/a><\/span> and share with us the primary pattern that keeps showing up in your love life and why you\u2019re committed to stopping it. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

    One of us will read your email and respond by giving you some clear coaching on how you can stop that pattern and create a new one that will give you the results you want in love.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Because we\u2019ll be in all-day trainings, you may get your email response at weird hours of the day or night, but you will<\/u><\/strong> get the answers you want!<\/span><\/p>\n

    Remember, it really isn\u2019t your \u201cfault\u201d that you haven\u2019t been able to break the patterns. If you knew what to do, you would have already done it.\u00a0 However, if you really want to change the results you\u2019ve been getting in your love life, it is up to you to take the right steps to do that. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

    So, go ahead. Email us<\/a><\/span> share your primary pattern, and one of us will respond with clear and proven steps you can take to break the pattern and start getting the love you want!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

    \u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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