{"id":7656,"date":"2018-08-10T20:52:12","date_gmt":"2018-08-10T20:52:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=7656"},"modified":"2018-08-10T20:52:12","modified_gmt":"2018-08-10T20:52:12","slug":"why-mindset-alone-wont-get-you-the-love-you-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/why-mindset-alone-wont-get-you-the-love-you-want\/","title":{"rendered":"Why &#8220;Mindset&#8221; Alone Won&#8217;t Get You the Love You Want"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">If you&#8217;ve invested time and money in personal development and spiritual programs that help you shift your mindset, and you&#8217;re still not experiencing significant shifts in your love life or relationship, I want to ask you a few questions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Before you invested in this mindset program did you:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Know how to date successfully so that you aren\u2019t wasting your time, love, or energy?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Get trained in the differences between the male and female brain and how we are wired differently?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Learn and master proven relationship skills that ensure long-lasting love?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Master effective communication that allow you to express yourself in a way that has your partner hear and respond to you in a loving way?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Have the opportunity to consistently practice these new skills so that you mastered them and avoided repeating old, self-sabotaging dysfunctional and painful patterns in your relationship?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>If you answered &#8220;no&#8221; to even two of these questions, then you have the answer as to why you don\u2019t have the kind of love you want.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>See, no amount of personal work is going to change what happens in your love life or relationship when you don&#8217;t actually know and use the skills that create AND sustain lasting love.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">You can be confident, think positively, meditate and pray, speak positive affirmations to yourself, visualize, and plaster your walls with vision boards, and this will only get you so far.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">It\u2019s like filling your refrigerator with a bunch of healthy food, joining a gym, and buying a ton of cute workout outfits but never prepping your meals or getting on the treadmill \u2014 your body and weight are\u00a0<u>not<\/u>going to change one bit until you stop thinking and visualizing and start taking\u00a0COMMITTED ACTION.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The same is true when it comes to your love life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Thinking positively and visualizing what you want can help you begin to set in motion attracting the relationship you want, AND you still need to have the right skills and know the right steps to take so that you can take the right ACTIONS that give you the results you really want.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Like anything else you have ever accomplished that you became masterful at, having a great relationship requires a specific skill set. It just does.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">You simply can&#8217;t get there by mindset alone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Having the right mindset AND skill set are both essential, yet too many women keep trying use one without the other. And it simply doesn\u2019t work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>So here&#8217;s the deal: It&#8217;s time to get committed to learning \u00a0what it takes to have a real loving and intimate relationship.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">One that fulfills you; has you feeling truly loved, accepted, and supported by a high-quality man; and where you know how to keep the love, passion, and intimacy alive\u00a0<em>for a lifetime<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Enrollment for our next round of our Ready to Love Again (for single ladies) and Keeping the Love Alive (for women in relationships) is closing soon, and we are inviting women who are seriously committed to transforming themselves and their love lives into the community.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>You must be someone who is ready to commit to investing in yourself,\u00a0be willing to be coachable, and do BOTH the inner work as well as learn and apply the skills that will make this transformation happen for you.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">These are the programs where our clients learn how to remove and replace the Love Barriers that have been stopping them from having the love they want.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">These\u00a0programs are where you&#8217;ll learn how to combine the mindset work with effective and proven dating (if you\u2019re single) relationship and communication skills that will have you experiencing\u00a0more fun, love, and ease in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">These are the programs where so many of our clients FINALLY learn the skills that give them the confidence AND ability have and live in the loving, intimate relationship of their dreams!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>And these are the programs where you&#8217;ll see why nothing else has worked before.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">You&#8217;ll permanently remove the barriers that are keeping you stuck and finally have the love, life, and happiness your heart desires!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">If you know this is you, then reach out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">We are committed to you having the love you desire and deserve, and if we don\u2019t think the program is a good fit, we&#8217;ll be honest and\u00a0give you some recommendations, but we\u00a0won&#8217;t make you an invitation to join.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">We\u2019re not going to \u201csell\u201d you, and we don&#8217;t need to, because we\u00a0<u>only<\/u>\u00a0work with women who we feel are ready for to succeed in the program (and their love lives), and our clients&#8217; results really do speak for themselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">We\u2019re here to work\u00a0<u>only<\/u>\u00a0with the truly committed woman (in actions, not just words) \u2014 the woman who already knows that you&#8217;re ready to have the relationship you have been dreaming of, and you\u2019re tired of waiting for it to \u201cjust happen,\u201d because you KNOW you\u2019re worthy of and ready to receive it now.\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Does that sound like you?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Are you feeling it in your body right now \u2014 something that is pulling you forward?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Then let&#8217;s talk.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">We\u2019ve got limited time on our calendar to speak this week (No, that\u2019s not a marketing tactic. We\u2019re busy, just like you are!), so if you&#8217;d like\u00a0a spot, <strong><span style=\"color: #800080;\"><a style=\"color: #800080;\" href=\"gladys@heartsdesireintl.com\">shoot us an email<\/a><\/span> a<\/strong><\/span><strong style=\"color: #000000;\">nd tell us a little bit about your love life or relationship \u00a0and what your challenges are right now.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">You\u2019re probably doing a lot of things right now that\u00a0<em>might<\/em>\u00a0help you get the love you want, but you may be focusing on the wrong things or doing them in the wrong order. THIS is what we can help you sort through so that you are moving in the direction of your dreams!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Having the right mindset AND the right skills is the key to succeeding in any area of your life.\u00a0 If you\u2019re truly committed to doing the work to learn BOTH so that you can finally have the happy, loving relationship you have always dreamed of, <b><span style=\"color: #800080;\"><a style=\"color: #800080;\" href=\"gladys@heartsdesireintl.com\">send us an email<\/a><\/span>\u00a0<\/b>and let us know what that looks like for you and what challenges you\u2019re having right now. We\u2019ll set up time to talk and tell you exactly what will make a difference NOW!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800080;\"><a style=\"color: #800080;\" href=\"https:\/\/live.vcita.com\/site\/heartsdesireinternational\/online-scheduling?service=1c4bd3fa\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>If you prefer, you can set up a time to talk by clicking here!<\/strong><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz If you&#8217;ve invested time and money in personal development and spiritual programs that help you shift your mindset, and you&#8217;re still not experiencing significant shifts in your love life or relationship, I want to ask you a few questions. 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