{"id":7674,"date":"2018-09-08T00:43:13","date_gmt":"2018-09-08T00:43:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=7674"},"modified":"2019-02-13T16:43:25","modified_gmt":"2019-02-13T16:43:25","slug":"you-need-to-let-go-of-this-to-have-the-love-you-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/you-need-to-let-go-of-this-to-have-the-love-you-want\/","title":{"rendered":"You Need to Let Go of THIS to Have the Love You Want!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text]by Gladys Diaz<\/span>\n\nIs your life telling you something?<\/span>\n\nIf you want to know, just look at your past and <\/em>your present.<\/span>\n\nThe lessons we most need tend to repeat themselves until they are finally learned!<\/span>\n\nAnd, if you want to know where the patterns of your life begin, just notice your thoughts.<\/span>\n\nThe average human being has between 12,000 and 60,000 each day!<\/span>\n\nUnfortunately, 80% of those thoughts are negative and 95% of them are the same exact thoughts you had the day before (and sometimes decades<\/em> before!).<\/span>\n\nSo, if 80% of your thoughts about dating, love, relationships, or your partner are negative<\/em>, then is it any wonder why you don\u2019t have the kind of loving relationship you desire?<\/strong><\/span>\n\nNow, before you start beating yourself up (or deleting this email) because of that last sentence, hear me out.<\/span>\n\nI know you\u2019re not intentionally choosing to block love from your life.<\/span>\n\nA lot of these pervasive and repetitive thoughts are happening subconsciously.<\/span>\n\nThink about how difficult it can be to break a bad habit. Although you know<\/em><\/strong> that eating an entire bag of chips while watching TV or procrastinating working on a big project, or not organizing your receipts before tax season are all things that will eventually have a negative consequence, you still eat the chips, spend hours on social media, and telling yourself that you\u2019ll organize those receipts tomorrow.<\/span>\n\nOr, even though you know that sleeping with a guy too soon rarely turns into a solid, committed relationship and that you\u2019re going to feel hurt, used, and disappointed (again) if you sleep with him, you tell yourself that \u201cThis time might be different.\u201d You put aside your boundaries and values for a few moments of pleasure, even thought you know<\/em> things are probably going to turn out the same way again.<\/span>\n\nAnother example is holding onto a relationship you know is not going anywhere or that is simply not right for you.  Even all the signs are pointing to \u201cThis is not <\/em>it,\u201d you keep holding on, hoping things will change, even though you know in your heart of hearts that it won\u2019t.<\/span>\n\nWhy do you do that?<\/span>\n\nBecause the human brain is a creature of habit and you will hold on to what you know \u2013 what\u2019s familiar \u2013 even though you know it\u2019s stopping you from having the kind of loving relationship and life you really want.<\/strong><\/span>\n\nSo, the negative consequences reinforce the negative thought patterns, until you start relating to them as \u201cthe truth, and eventually find yourself giving up on your dreams.  <\/span>\n\nSo, how do you break this vicious cycle?<\/strong><\/span>\n\nYou learn how to transform your mind so that you can create new results.<\/strong><\/span>\n\nYou learn how to completely break apart those thought patterns and replace them with new ones \u2013 but not simply through \u201cpositive thinking\u201d or \u201cpositive self-talk.\u201d<\/span>\n\nYou learn how to truly go into your subconscious and uproot the thoughts that have been creating real barriers to you attracting and having the love you want.<\/span>\n\nListen to your life.  It\u2019s telling you something.<\/span>\n\nIt has been for a while now.<\/span>\n\nStop ignoring the signs that what you\u2019ve been doing simply isn\u2019t working for you.<\/span>\n\nYou can choose to continue repeating the same thoughts and actions and creating the same results. If you do, there\u2019s a huge chance you\u2019ll regret it and then wonder why things simply never worked out for you.<\/span>\n\nOr you can choose to break through and break free from anything <\/em>that\u2019s standing between you and having the love you want.<\/span>\n\nIt\u2019s only in letting go of the past that you can create space in your mind, life, and heart to welcome in new and extraordinary love.<\/strong><\/span>\n\nAs Rumi said, \u201c<\/em>Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/span>\n\nYou can<\/em><\/strong> have the love you want.<\/span>\n\nYou simply have to let go of what hasn\u2019t worked so that you can have what your heart most desires.<\/span>\n\nAre you ready to let go of what isn\u2019t working so that you can have the love you want?<\/strong><\/span>\n\nIf so, click below and schedule time to talk with one of us. We will help you identify what your major Love Barriers have been and give you a step-by-step plan for letting them go so that you can have the love you want!<\/span>\n\nClick to talk with one of us!<\/a><\/strong><\/span>\n\n \n\n \n\n \n\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>by Gladys Diaz Is your life telling you something? If you want to know, just look at your past and your present. The lessons we most need tend to repeat themselves until they are finally learned! And, if you want to know where the patterns of your life begin, just notice your thoughts. The average […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7678,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"by Gladys Diaz<\/span>\n\nIs your life telling you something?<\/span>\n\nIf you want to know, just look at your past and <\/em>your present.<\/span>\n\nThe lessons we most need tend to repeat themselves until they are finally learned!<\/span>\n\nAnd, if you want to know where the patterns of your life begin, just notice your thoughts.<\/span>\n\nThe average human being has between 12,000 and 60,000 each day!<\/span>\n\nUnfortunately, 80% of those thoughts are negative and 95% of them are the same exact thoughts you had the day before (and sometimes decades<\/em> before!).<\/span>\n\nSo, if 80% of your thoughts about dating, love, relationships, or your partner are negative<\/em>, then is it any wonder why you don\u2019t have the kind of loving relationship you desire?<\/strong><\/span>\n\nNow, before you start beating yourself up (or deleting this email) because of that last sentence, hear me out.<\/span>\n\nI know you\u2019re not intentionally choosing to block love from your life.<\/span>\n\nA lot of these pervasive and repetitive thoughts are happening subconsciously.<\/span>\n\nThink about how difficult it can be to break a bad habit. Although you know<\/em><\/strong> that eating an entire bag of chips while watching TV or procrastinating working on a big project, or not organizing your receipts before tax season are all things that will eventually have a negative consequence, you still eat the chips, spend hours on social media, and telling yourself that you\u2019ll organize those receipts tomorrow.<\/span>\n\nOr, even though you know that sleeping with a guy too soon rarely turns into a solid, committed relationship and that you\u2019re going to feel hurt, used, and disappointed (again) if you sleep with him, you tell yourself that \u201cThis time might be different.\u201d You put aside your boundaries and values for a few moments of pleasure, even thought you know<\/em> things are probably going to turn out the same way again.<\/span>\n\nAnother example is holding onto a relationship you know is not going anywhere or that is simply not right for you.  Even all the signs are pointing to \u201cThis is not <\/em>it,\u201d you keep holding on, hoping things will change, even though you know in your heart of hearts that it won\u2019t.<\/span>\n\nWhy do you do that?<\/span>\n\nBecause the human brain is a creature of habit and you will hold on to what you know \u2013 what\u2019s familiar \u2013 even though you know it\u2019s stopping you from having the kind of loving relationship and life you really want.<\/strong><\/span>\n\nSo, the negative consequences reinforce the negative thought patterns, until you start relating to them as \u201cthe truth, and eventually find yourself giving up on your dreams.  <\/span>\n\nSo, how do you break this vicious cycle?<\/strong><\/span>\n\nYou learn how to transform your mind so that you can create new results.<\/strong><\/span>\n\nYou learn how to completely break apart those thought patterns and replace them with new ones \u2013 but not simply through \u201cpositive thinking\u201d or \u201cpositive self-talk.\u201d<\/span>\n\nYou learn how to truly go into your subconscious and uproot the thoughts that have been creating real barriers to you attracting and having the love you want.<\/span>\n\nListen to your life.  It\u2019s telling you something.<\/span>\n\nIt has been for a while now.<\/span>\n\nStop ignoring the signs that what you\u2019ve been doing simply isn\u2019t working for you.<\/span>\n\nYou can choose to continue repeating the same thoughts and actions and creating the same results. 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We will help you identify what your major Love Barriers have been and give you a step-by-step plan for letting them go so that you can have the love you want!<\/span>\n\nClick to talk with one of us!<\/a><\/strong><\/span>\n\n \n\n \n\n \n\n ","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,11,16,17,21,22],"tags":[47,50,56,59,68,70,87,88,105],"class_list":["post-7674","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-2","category-heartache","category-love-2","category-marriage","category-relationship","category-relationship-advice","tag-dating","tag-empowerment","tag-happiness","tag-hope","tag-love","tag-marriage-2","tag-relationship-advice-2","tag-relationships","tag-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7674","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7674"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7674\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7678"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7674"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7674"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7674"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}